Tingkah Laku Sosial
Social Behavior
179. Menyampaikan perkara baik antara manusia
179. Relating good things between people
385. Umm Kulthum, anak perempuan 'Uqba bin Abi Mu'ayt, meriwayatkan bahawa dia mendengar Rasulullah ﷺ bersabda, "Sesiapa yang mendamaikan antara manusia dengan mengatakan sesuatu yang baik atau menyampaikan sesuatu yang baik, dia bukanlah seorang pendusta." Dia berkata, "Aku tidak pernah mendengar baginda memberi kelonggaran bagi mana-mana dusta yang digunakan orang melainkan dalam tiga keadaan: mendamaikan antara manusia, seorang lelaki bercakap kepada isterinya, dan seorang perempuan bercakap kepada suaminya."
385. Umm Kulthum, the daughter of 'Uqba ibn Abi Mu'ayt, reported that she heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, "Someone who makes peace between people by saying something good or relates something good is not a liar." She said, "I did not hear him make an allowance for any lie that people utilise except in three cases: making peace between people, a man speaking to his wife, and a woman speaking to her husband."
180. Seorang pendusta tidak berkelakuan dengan betul
180. A liar is not behaving correctly
386. 'Abdullah meriwayatkan bahawa Nabi ﷺ bersabda, "Hendaklah kamu berkata benar. Kejujuran membawa kepada kebaikan, dan kebaikan membawa kepada Syurga. Seseorang itu terus berkata benar sehingga dia dicatat di sisi Allah sebagai seorang siddiq. Jauhilah dusta. Dusta membawa kepada kefasikan, dan kefasikan membawa kepada Neraka. Seseorang itu terus berdusta sehingga dia dicatat di sisi Allah sebagai seorang pendusta." 387. 'Abdullah berkata, "Dusta tidak dibenarkan, sama ada dalam keadaan serius mahupun dalam keadaan bergurau. Tidak seorang pun daripada kamu boleh menjanjikan sesuatu kepada anaknya kemudian tidak memberikannya kepadanya."
386. 'Abdullah reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "You must be truthful. Truthfulness leads to dutifulness and dutifulness leads to the Garden. A man continues to tell the truth until he is written as a siddiq with Allah. Beware of lying. Lying leads to deviance and deviance leads to the Fire. A man continues to lie until he is written as a liar with Allah." 387. 'Abdullah said, "Lying is not correct, neither in seriousness nor in seriousness nor in jest. None of you should promise his child something and then not give it to him."
181. Seseorang yang sabar apabila orang lain menyakitinya
181. Someone who is patient when people injure him
388. Ibn 'Umar meriwayatkan bahawa Nabi ﷺ bersabda, "Orang mukmin yang bergaul dengan manusia dan sabar menanggung gangguan mereka adalah lebih baik daripada orang yang tidak bergaul dengan manusia dan tidak sabar menanggung gangguan mereka."
388. Ibn 'Umar reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "The believer who mixes with people and endures their injury is better than the person who does not mix with people nor endure their injury."
182. Bersabar menghadapi kecederaan
182. Enduring injury
389. Abu Musa meriwayatkan bahawa Nabi ﷺ bersabda, "Tiada seorang pun yang lebih sabar dalam menanggung gangguan yang didengarinya daripada Allah Yang Maha Agung. Mereka mendakwa bahawa Dia mempunyai anak, namun Dia tetap menyembuhkan mereka dan memberi rezeki kepada mereka."
389. Abu Musa reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "No one nothing is more patient in enduring an injury which he hears than Allah Almighty. They claim that He has a son, and yet He still cures them and provides for them." .
390. 'Abdullah berkata, "Nabi ﷺ pernah bersumpah dengan satu sumpah seperti sumpah yang biasa diucapkan orang, lalu seorang lelaki dari kalangan Ansar berkata, 'Demi Allah, itu bukanlah sumpah yang dimaksudkan untuk mencari Wajah Allah Yang Maha Berkuasa.'" Aku berkata, "Aku akan memberitahu Nabi ﷺ." Maka aku pergi menemui baginda ketika baginda sedang bersama para sahabatnya, lalu aku berbicara kepadanya secara rahsia. Perkara itu nyata memberi kesan yang sangat mendalam kepada baginda ﷺ, dan wajah baginda berubah warna sehingga aku berharap aku tidak pernah memberitahunya. Kemudian baginda bersabda, "Musa telah disakiti dengan yang lebih daripada itu, namun dia bersabar."
390. 'Abdullah said, "The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, swore an oath like one of the oaths that people swear and a man of the Ansar said, 'By Allah, it is not an oath by which the Face of Allah Almighty is desired." I said, 'I will tell the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. I went to him while he was with his Companions and I spoke to him in confidence. It clearly affected him greatly, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and his face changed colour so that I wished that I had not told him. Then he said, 'Musa was injured with greater than that and he endured it.'"
183. Memperbaiki Keadaan Persahabatan
183. Improving a state of friendship
391. Abu'd-Darda' meriwayatkan bahawa Nabi ﷺ bersabda, "Mahukah aku khabarkan kepada kamu satu darjat yang lebih baik daripada solat, puasa dan sedekah?" Mereka menjawab, "Ya." Baginda bersabda, "Memperbaiki hubungan persahabatan. Merosakkan hubungan persahabatan itulah yang mencukur (memusnahkan) segala-galanya."
391. Abu'd-Darda' reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Shall I tell you a degree better than prayer, fasting and sadaqa?" "Yes," they replied. He went to say, Improving a state of friendship. Causing discord in a state of friendship is what shaves things away." .
392. Mengenai ayat, "Bertakwalah kepada Allah dan perbaikilah hubungan di antara kamu" (8:1), Ibn 'Abbas berkata, "Ini adalah perintah daripada Allah kepada orang-orang beriman untuk bertakwa kepada Allah dan memperbaiki hubungan di antara mereka."
392. Regarding the ayat, "Fear Allah and put things right between you," (8:1), Ibn 'Abbas said, "This is an injunction from Allah to the believers to fear Allah and to put things right between them."
184. Apabila engkau berbohong kepada seseorang dan dia mempercayaimu
184. When you lie to a man and he believes you
393. Sufyan bin Usayd al-Hadrami meriwayatkan bahawa dia mendengar Nabi ﷺ bersabda, "Adalah satu pengkhianatan yang besar apabila engkau menceritakan sesuatu kepada saudaramu sehingga dia mempercayaimu sedangkan engkau berdusta kepadanya."
393. Sufyan ibn Usayd al-Hadrami reported that he heard the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, "It is great treachery to tell something to your brother so that he believes you when you are lying to him."
185. Jangan berjanji kepada saudaramu lalu memungkirinya.
185. Do not make a promise to your brother and then break it
394. Ibn 'Abbas meriwayatkan bahawa Rasulullah ﷺ bersabda, "Janganlah kamu bertengkar dengan saudaramu. Janganlah kamu mempermainkannya. Janganlah kamu berjanji kepadanya lalu memungkirinya."
394. Ibn 'Abbas reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Do not dispute with your brother. Do not make dun of him. Do not make a promise to him and then break it."
186. Menyerang Nasab
186. Attacking Lineage
395. Abu Hurayra meriwayatkan bahawa Nabi ﷺ bersabda, "Ada dua perkara yang tidak akan ditinggalkan oleh umatku: meratap dan mencela keturunan seseorang."
395. Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "There are two courses that my Community will not abandon: wailing and attacking a person's lineage."
187. Kecintaan seseorang terhadap kaumnya
187. A man's love for his people
396. Seorang wanita bernama Fusayla berkata bahawa dia mendengar ayahnya berkata, "Saya bertanya, 'Wahai Rasulullah ﷺ, adakah termasuk dalam kederhakaan jika seseorang membantu kaumnya dalam sesuatu yang zalim?' Baginda menjawab, 'Ya.'"
396. A woman called Fusayla said that she heard her father say, "I asked, 'Messenger of Allah, is it part of disobedience for a man to help his people in something which is unjust?' 'Yes,' he replied."