التعامل مع الناس بطلاقة وجه
Dealing with people cheerfully
120. المسلمُ مرآةُ أخيهِ
120. A Muslim is the mirror of his brother
238. قال أبو هريرة: «المؤمن مرآةُ أخيه، فإذا رأى فيها عيبًا فليُصلِحه».
238. Abu Hurayra said, "A believer is the mirror of his brother. When he sees a fault in it, he should correct it." .
239. عن أبي هريرة رضي الله عنه قال: قال رسول الله ﷺ: "المؤمن مرآة أخيه، والمؤمن أخو المؤمن، يكف عليه ضيعته، ويحوطه من ورائه".
239. Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "A believer is the mirror of his brother. A believer is the brother of another believer. He protects him against loss and defends him behind his back." .
240. عن المُسْتَوْرِد رضي الله عنه أن النبي ﷺ قال: «مَنْ أَكَلَ بِمَكَانِ امْرِئٍ مُسْلِمٍ أَكْلَةً، فَإِنَّ اللهَ يُطْعِمُهُ مِثْلَهَا مِنْ جَهَنَّمَ، وَمَنْ كَسَا ثَوْبًا بِمَكَانِ امْرِئٍ مُسْلِمٍ، فَإِنَّ اللهَ يَكْسُوهُ مِثْلَهُ مِنْ جَهَنَّمَ، وَمَنْ قَامَ بِمَكَانِ امْرِئٍ مُسْلِمٍ مَقَامَ سُمْعَةٍ وَرِيَاءٍ، فَإِنَّ اللهَ يُقِيمُهُ مَقَامَ سُمْعَةٍ وَرِيَاءٍ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ».
240. Al-Mustawrid reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "If anyone eats a meal at the expense of a Muslim's honour, Allah will feed him a like amount of Hellfire. If anyone clothes himself with a garment at the expense of a Muslim's honour, Allah will clothe him with a like amount of Hellfire. If anyone achieves a position of showing-off and hypocrisy at the expense of a Muslim's honour, Allah will put him in a position of showing-off and hypocrisy on the Day of Rising.
121. اللعب والمزاح الذي لا يجوز
121. Playing and joking which is not permitted
٢٤١. رَوَى عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ السَّائِبِ أَنَّ جَدَّهُ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ: «لَا يَأْخُذْ أَحَدُكُمْ مَتَاعَ أَخِيهِ لَا لاعِبًا وَلَا جَادًّا، وَإِذَا أَخَذَ أَحَدُكُمْ عَصَا أَخِيهِ فَلْيَرُدَّهَا عَلَيْهِ».
241. 'Abdullah ibn as-Sa'ib reported that his grandfather said, "I heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, 'None of you should take the goods of his companion, either in jest or seriously. When one of you takes his companion's staff, he should return it to him.'"
122. الدَّالُّ عَلَى الخَيْرِ
122. The person who guides to good
242. عن أبي مسعود الأنصاري رضي الله عنه قال: جاء رجلٌ إلى النبي ﷺ فقال: "أَبْدَعَتْ بي راحلتي فاحملني". فقال: "ما عندي". فقال: "ائتِ فلاناً لعله أن يحملك". فأتى ذلك الرجل فحمله، فأتى النبي ﷺ فأخبره، فقال: "إنَّ الدالَّ على الخيرِ كفاعلِه".
242. Abu Mas'ud al-Ansari said, "A man came to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and said, 'My camel has become exhausted, so give me a mount.' He replied, 'I do not have any. But go to so-and-so and perhaps he will give you one.' He went to that man and he gave him a mount. Then he went back to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and told him. He said, 'Whoever guides to good has the like of the reward of the person who actually does it.'"
123. العفو والصفح عن الناس
123. Excusing and pardoning people
243. أنس رضي الله عنه: أن امرأة يهودية أهدت إلى النبي ﷺ شاةً مسمومة، فأكل منها، فأُتي بها، فقيل: ألا نقتلها؟ قال: «لا». قال أنس: فما زلت أعرف أثر السم في لهوات رسول الله ﷺ.
243. Anas reported that a Jewish woman brought the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, poisoned sheep. He ate from it and she was brought. It was asked, "Should we not kill her?" "No," he replied. He said, "I continued to recognise the poison in the sighs of the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace." .
244. قال عبد الله بن الزبير على المنبر: «خذ العفو وأمر بالعرف وأعرض عن الجاهلين» {الأعراف: ١٩٩}. وقال: «والله ما أُمرنا بهذه الآية إلا لنأخذ بأخلاق الناس. والله لآخذن بأخلاق الناس ما كنت معهم».
244. 'Abdullah ibn az-Zubayr said on the minbar, "Make allowances for people and command what is right and turn away from the ignorant." (7:199) He said, "By Allah, we are only commanded by this ayat to accept people's character. By Allah, I will accept people's character as long as I am with them." .
245. روى ابنُ عباسٍ رضي الله عنهما أن رسولَ اللهِ ﷺ قال: «يَسِّرُوا وَلَا تُعَسِّرُوا، وَعَلِّمُوا وَلَا تُنَفِّرُوا، وَإِذَا غَضِبَ أَحَدُكُمْ فَلْيَسْكُتْ».
245. Ibn 'Abbas reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Teach and make things easy and not difficult. When one of you is angry, he should be silent."
١٢٤۔ لوگوں کے ساتھ خوش مزاجی
124. Cheerfulness towards people
246. قال عطاء بن يسار: لقيتُ عبد الله بن عمرو بن العاص فقلتُ: أخبرني عن صفة رسول الله ﷺ في التوراة. قال: أجل، والله إنه لموصوف في التوراة ببعض صفته في القرآن: ﴿يَا أَيُّهَا النَّبِيُّ إِنَّا أَرْسَلْنَاكَ شَاهِدًا وَمُبَشِّرًا وَنَذِيرًا وَحِرْزًا لِلْأُمِّيِّينَ، أَنْتَ عَبْدِي وَرَسُولِي، سَمَّيْتُكَ الْمُتَوَكِّلَ، لَيْسَ بِفَظٍّ وَلَا غَلِيظٍ وَلَا سَخَّابٍ فِي الْأَسْوَاقِ، وَلَا يَجْزِي بِالسَّيِّئَةِ السَّيِّئَةَ، وَلَكِنْ يَعْفُو وَيَغْفِرُ، وَلَنْ أَقْبِضَهُ حَتَّى أُقِيمَ بِهِ الْمِلَّةَ الْعَوْجَاءَ، بِأَنْ يَقُولُوا: لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا اللهُ، فَيَفْتَحُ بِهَا أَعْيُنًا عُمْيًا، وَآذَانًا صُمًّا، وَقُلُوبًا غُلْفًا﴾.
246. 'Ata' ibn Yasar said, "I met 'Abdullah ibn 'Amr ibn al-'As and I said, 'Tell me about the description of the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, in the Torah.' 'Yes,' he said, 'By Allah, he is described in the Torah partly as he is described in the Qur'an: "O Prophet, We have sent you as a witness, a bearer of good news and a warner and a protection to the unlettered. You are My slave and Messenger. I have called you the trusty one who is neither coarse nor harsh nor loud in the markets. Allah Almighty will not take him until He has made the crooked community straight by him so that they say, "There is no god but Allah," and by it they will open blind eyes, deaf ears and covered hearts.'" .
247. قال عبد الله بن عطاء: "هذه الآية التي في القرآن: ﴿يَا أَيُّهَا النَّبِيُّ إِنَّا أَرْسَلْنَاكَ شَاهِدًا وَمُبَشِّرًا وَنَذِيرًا﴾ [الأحزاب: 45] موجودة في التوراة بصيغة مشابهة."
247. 'Abdullah ibn 'Ata' said, "This ayat which is in the Qur'an, 'O Prophet, We have sent you as a witness, a bringer of good news and a warner' (33:45) is found in the Torah in a similar form." .
248. قال معاوية: سمعت من النبي ﷺ كلمات نفعني الله بها. وقال جبير بن نفير: سمعته يقول: سمعت رسول الله ﷺ يقول: «إنك إن اتبعت عورات الناس أفسدتهم». فلذلك لا أُظهر شكوكي في الناس كي لا أفسدهم.
248. Mu'awiya said, "I heard some words from the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, by which Allah helped me." Jubayr ibn Nufayr said, "I heard him say that he heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, "If you openly show your suspicions of people, you will corrupt them.' Therefore I do not show my suspicions of people openly so that I will not corrupt them." .
249. قال أبو هريرة: «سَمِعَتْ أُذُنَايَ هَاتَانِ، وَأَبْصَرَتْ عَيْنَايَ هَاتَانِ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ، وَقَدْ أَخَذَ بِكَفَّيْهِ الْحَسَنَ أَوِ الْحُسَيْنَ، وَقَدَمَاهُ عَلَى قَدَمَيْ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ، وَقَالَ: "ارْتَقِ". فَارْتَقَى الصَّبِيُّ حَتَّى وَضَعَ قَدَمَيْهِ عَلَى صَدْرِ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ، ثُمَّ قَالَ: "افْتَحْ فَاكَ". فَقَبَّلَهُ، ثُمَّ قَالَ: "اللَّهُمَّ أَحِبَّهُ، فَإِنِّي أُحِبُّهُ!»
125. التبسّم
125. Smiling
250. قال جرير: «ما رآني رسولُ الله ﷺ منذ أسلمتُ إلا تبسّم في وجهي». وقال رسولُ الله ﷺ: «يدخل عليكم من هذا الباب رجلٌ من خير ذي يَمَن، على وجهه مَسحةُ مَلَك». فدخل جرير.
250. Jarir said, "Since the time I became Muslim, the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, never saw me without smiling at me." The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "A man from the best of Dhu Yaman will enter by this door whose face has been touched by an angel." Then Jarir came in.
251. عن عائشةَ رضيَ اللهُ عنها قالت: ما رأيتُ رسولَ اللهِ ﷺ مستجمعًا قطُّ ضاحكًا حتى أرى منه لَهَوَاتِه، إنما كان يتبسّم ﷺ. قالت: وكان إذا رأى غيمًا أو ريحًا عُرف في وجهه. قالت: يا رسولَ اللهِ، إن الناسَ إذا رأوا الغيمَ فرحوا، رجاءَ أن يكونَ فيه المطرُ، وأراك إذا رأيتَه عُرف في وجهك الكراهية؟ فقال: «يا عائشةُ، ما يُؤمِنّي أن يكونَ فيه عذابٌ؟ قد عُذّب قومٌ بالريح، وقد رأى قومٌ العذابَ فقالوا: هذا عارضٌ مُمطِرُنا».
251. 'A'isha said, "I never saw the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, laugh until I could see his uvula. He used to smile, may Allah bless him and grant him peace." She said, "When he saw a cloud or wind, distress could be seen in his face." She said, "Messenger of Allah, when people see a cloud, they rejoice, hoping that there will be rain in it. Yet when you see it, I see distress in your face." He replied, "'A'isha, what will assure me that there is no painful punishment in it? People have been punished by wind. Some people saw the punishment and stated, 'This is a rain cloud coming to us.'"
الضحك
126. Laughter
252. روى أبو هريرة أن النبي ﷺ قال: «لا تكثروا الضحك، فإن كثرة الضحك تميت القلب».
252. Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Laugh little. Much laughter kills the heart." .
253. روى أبو هريرة أن النبي ﷺ قال: «لا تُكثِروا الضحك، فإن كثرة الضحك تُميت القلب».
253. Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Do not laugh a lot. Much laughter kills the heart." .
254۔ حضرت ابو ہریرہ رضی اللہ عنہ فرماتے ہیں کہ نبی ﷺ اپنے صحابہ کی ایک جماعت کی طرف نکلے، جو ہنس رہے تھے اور باتیں کر رہے تھے۔ آپ ﷺ نے فرمایا: "اس ذات کی قسم جس کے ہاتھ میں میری جان ہے! اگر تم وہ جانتے جو میں جانتا ہوں تو تم کم ہنستے اور زیادہ روتے۔" پھر آپ ﷺ چلے گئے اور لوگ رونے لگے۔ پھر اللہ تعالیٰ نے آپ ﷺ پر وحی فرمائی: "اے محمد! تم نے میرے بندوں کو کیوں مایوس کر دیا؟" تو نبی ﷺ نے فرمایا: "خوشخبری دو، لوگوں کو راستہ دکھاؤ اور ایک دوسرے کے قریب کرو۔"
254. Abu Hurayra said, "The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, went out to a group of his Companions who were laughing and talking. He said, 'By the One in whose hand my soul is, if you knew what I knew, you would laugh little and weep much.' Then he left and the people were weeping. Then Allah Almighty revealed to him, 'Muhammad! Why did you make My slaves despair?' The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Give good news, guide people and draw near to one another.'"
127. كان إذا أقبل على أحدٍ أقبل عليه بكليته، وإذا أعرض عنه أعرض عنه بكليته
127. When he faced someone, he faced him completely, and when he turned away, he turned away completely
255. قال أبو هريرة: «كان إذا أقبل على أحد أقبل عليه بكُلِّيَّته، وإذا أعرض عنه أعرض عنه بكُلِّيَّته. ما رأيت أحدًا مثله قطّ، ولن أرى أحدًا مثله أبدًا.»
255. Abu Hurayra said, "When he faced someone, he faced him completely. When he turned away, he turned away completely. I have never seen anyone like him and I will never see anyone like them."