السلوك الاجتماعي
Social Behavior
179. نَقْلُ الْكَلَامِ الطَّيِّبِ بَيْنَ النَّاسِ
179. Relating good things between people
385. أم كلثوم بنت عقبة بن أبي معيط رضي الله عنها روت أنها سمعت رسول الله ﷺ يقول: «ليس الكذاب الذي يصلح بين الناس، فينمي خيرًا أو يقول خيرًا». قالت: ولم أسمعه يرخص في شيء مما يقول الناس كذب إلا في ثلاث: الإصلاح بين الناس، وحديث الرجل امرأته، وحديث المرأة زوجها.
385. Umm Kulthum, the daughter of 'Uqba ibn Abi Mu'ayt, reported that she heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, "Someone who makes peace between people by saying something good or relates something good is not a liar." She said, "I did not hear him make an allowance for any lie that people utilise except in three cases: making peace between people, a man speaking to his wife, and a woman speaking to her husband."
١٨٠۔ جھوٹا شخص درست رویہ اختیار نہیں کرتا
180. A liar is not behaving correctly
386. عَبْدُ اللهِ رَوَى أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ قَالَ: «عَلَيْكُمْ بِالصِّدْقِ، فَإِنَّ الصِّدْقَ يَهْدِي إِلَى الْبِرِّ، وَإِنَّ الْبِرَّ يَهْدِي إِلَى الْجَنَّةِ، وَمَا يَزَالُ الرَّجُلُ يَصْدُقُ وَيَتَحَرَّى الصِّدْقَ حَتَّى يُكْتَبَ عِنْدَ اللهِ صِدِّيقًا، وَإِيَّاكُمْ وَالْكَذِبَ، فَإِنَّ الْكَذِبَ يَهْدِي إِلَى الْفُجُورِ، وَإِنَّ الْفُجُورَ يَهْدِي إِلَى النَّارِ، وَمَا يَزَالُ الرَّجُلُ يَكْذِبُ وَيَتَحَرَّى الْكَذِبَ حَتَّى يُكْتَبَ عِنْدَ اللهِ كَذَّابًا». 387. وَقَالَ عَبْدُ اللهِ: «لَا يَصْلُحُ الْكَذِبُ لَا فِي جِدٍّ وَلَا فِي هَزْلٍ، وَلَا يَعِدُ أَحَدُكُمْ صَبِيَّهُ ثُمَّ لَا يَفِي لَهُ».
386. 'Abdullah reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "You must be truthful. Truthfulness leads to dutifulness and dutifulness leads to the Garden. A man continues to tell the truth until he is written as a siddiq with Allah. Beware of lying. Lying leads to deviance and deviance leads to the Fire. A man continues to lie until he is written as a liar with Allah." 387. 'Abdullah said, "Lying is not correct, neither in seriousness nor in seriousness nor in jest. None of you should promise his child something and then not give it to him."
١٨١۔ وہ شخص جو لوگوں کی طرف سے پہنچنے والی اذیت پر صبر کرتا ہے۔
181. Someone who is patient when people injure him
388. رَوَى ابْنُ عُمَرَ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ قَالَ: «الْمُؤْمِنُ الَّذِي يُخَالِطُ النَّاسَ وَيَصْبِرُ عَلَى أَذَاهُمْ خَيْرٌ مِنَ الَّذِي لَا يُخَالِطُ النَّاسَ وَلَا يَصْبِرُ عَلَى أَذَاهُمْ».
388. Ibn 'Umar reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "The believer who mixes with people and endures their injury is better than the person who does not mix with people nor endure their injury."
الصبر على الأذى
182. Enduring injury
389. عن أبي موسى رضي الله عنه قال: قال النبي ﷺ: «ما أحدٌ أصبرُ على أذًى يسمعُه من الله، إنهم يدَّعون له الولدَ وإنه ليعافيهم ويرزقهم».
389. Abu Musa reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "No one nothing is more patient in enduring an injury which he hears than Allah Almighty. They claim that He has a son, and yet He still cures them and provides for them." .
عن عبد الله قال: حَلَفَ النبيُّ ﷺ يمينًا كما يَحلف الناسُ، فقال رجلٌ من الأنصار: واللهِ ما أراد بها وجهَ اللهِ تعالى. قال: فقلتُ: والله لأُخبِرَنّ النبيَّ ﷺ. فأتيتُه وهو في أصحابه، فسارَرْتُه، فاشتدَّ ذلك عليه ﷺ، وتغيّر لونُ وجهه حتى تمنّيتُ أني لم أكن أخبرتُه. فقال: «قد أُوذيَ موسى بأكثرَ من هذا فصبر».
390. 'Abdullah said, "The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, swore an oath like one of the oaths that people swear and a man of the Ansar said, 'By Allah, it is not an oath by which the Face of Allah Almighty is desired." I said, 'I will tell the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. I went to him while he was with his Companions and I spoke to him in confidence. It clearly affected him greatly, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and his face changed colour so that I wished that I had not told him. Then he said, 'Musa was injured with greater than that and he endured it.'"
183. تحسين حالة الصداقة
183. Improving a state of friendship
391. أَبُو الدَّرْدَاءِ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ رَوَى أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ قَالَ: «أَلَا أُخْبِرُكُمْ بِأَفْضَلَ مِنْ دَرَجَةِ الصَّلَاةِ وَالصِّيَامِ وَالصَّدَقَةِ؟» قَالُوا: «بَلَى». قَالَ: «إِصْلَاحُ ذَاتِ الْبَيْنِ، فَإِنَّ فَسَادَ ذَاتِ الْبَيْنِ هِيَ الْحَالِقَةُ».
391. Abu'd-Darda' reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Shall I tell you a degree better than prayer, fasting and sadaqa?" "Yes," they replied. He went to say, Improving a state of friendship. Causing discord in a state of friendship is what shaves things away." .
٣٩٢۔ فيما يتعلق بالآية: {فَاتَّقُوا اللَّهَ وَأَصْلِحُوا ذَاتَ بَيْنِكُمْ} (الأنفال: ١)، قال ابن عباس: «هذا أمرٌ من الله للمؤمنين بتقوى الله وإصلاح ما بينهم».
392. Regarding the ayat, "Fear Allah and put things right between you," (8:1), Ibn 'Abbas said, "This is an injunction from Allah to the believers to fear Allah and to put things right between them."
١٨٤۔ جب تم کسی شخص سے جھوٹ بولو اور وہ تمہاری بات پر یقین کر لے Wait — the target language should be Arabic, not Urdu. Correcting: ١٨٤. عندما تكذب على رجل فيصدقك
184. When you lie to a man and he believes you
393. عَنْ سُفْيَانَ بْنِ أُسَيْدٍ الْحَضْرَمِيِّ أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ يَقُولُ: «إِنَّ مِنْ أَكْبَرِ الْخِيَانَةِ أَنْ تُحَدِّثَ أَخَاكَ حَدِيثًا هُوَ لَكَ بِهِ مُصَدِّقٌ وَأَنْتَ لَهُ بِهِ كَاذِبٌ».
393. Sufyan ibn Usayd al-Hadrami reported that he heard the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, "It is great treachery to tell something to your brother so that he believes you when you are lying to him."
185. لا تَعِدْ أخاكَ بوَعْدٍ ثمَّ تُخْلِفَه
185. Do not make a promise to your brother and then break it
394. روى ابن عباس رضي الله عنهما أن رسول الله ﷺ قال: «لا تُمَارِ أخاك، ولا تُمازِحْه، ولا تَعِدْه موعدًا فتخلفه».
394. Ibn 'Abbas reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Do not dispute with your brother. Do not make dun of him. Do not make a promise to him and then break it."
186. الطعن في النسب
186. Attacking Lineage
395. عن أبي هريرة رضي الله عنه قال: قال رسول الله ﷺ: «اثنتان في الناس هما بهم كفر: الطعن في الأنساب، والنياحة على الميت».
395. Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "There are two courses that my Community will not abandon: wailing and attacking a person's lineage."
187. حبّ الرجل لقومه
187. A man's love for his people
٣٩٦۔ رَوَتْ امْرَأَةٌ تُدْعَى فُسَيْلَةُ أَنَّهَا سَمِعَتْ أَبَاهَا يَقُولُ: «قُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ، أَمِنَ الْمَعْصِيَةِ أَنْ يُعِينَ الرَّجُلُ قَوْمَهُ عَلَى مَا لَيْسَ بِحَقٍّ؟ قَالَ: نَعَمْ».
396. A woman called Fusayla said that she heard her father say, "I asked, 'Messenger of Allah, is it part of disobedience for a man to help his people in something which is unjust?' 'Yes,' he replied."