Kasih Sayang
Compassion
217. Kasih Sayang
217. Compassion
462. 'Aisyah, istri Nabi ﷺ, berkata: "Sekelompok orang Yahudi datang kepada Rasulullah ﷺ dan berkata: 'Sam (racun) atasmu,' (dengan 'sam' sebagai pengganti 'salam'). 'Aisyah berkata: 'Aku memahaminya dan berkata: "Dan racun atas kalian dan laknat Allah!" Rasulullah ﷺ bersabda: "Tenanglah, wahai 'Aisyah! Sesungguhnya Allah mencintai kelembutan dalam segala hal." Aku berkata: "Tidakkah engkau mendengar apa yang mereka katakan?" Rasulullah ﷺ menjawab: "Aku sudah mengatakan: 'Dan atas kalian.'" 463. Jarir bin 'Abdullah meriwayatkan bahwa Rasulullah ﷺ bersabda: "Barangsiapa dihalangi dari kelembutan, ia dihalangi dari kebaikan." 464. Abu Ad-Darda' meriwayatkan bahwa Nabi ﷺ bersabda: "Barangsiapa telah diberi bagiannya dari kelembutan, ia telah diberi bagiannya dari kebaikan. Barangsiapa dihalangi dari bagiannya dari kelembutan, ia telah dihalangi dari bagiannya dari kebaikan. Akhlak yang baik akan menjadi amalan yang paling berat timbangannya bagi seorang mukmin pada Hari Kiamat. Allah membenci orang yang kasar dan berkata kotor." 465. 'Aisyah meriwayatkan bahwa Nabi ﷺ bersabda: "Maafkanlah kesalahan orang-orang yang berbuat baik." 466. Anas meriwayatkan bahwa Nabi ﷺ bersabda: "Jika ada kekasaran pada sesuatu, pasti ia akan mencelakakannya. Allah itu Maha Lembut dan mencintai kelembutan." 467. Abu Sa'id Al-Khudri berkata: "Rasulullah ﷺ lebih pemalu daripada seorang gadis perawan di dalam kamarnya. Jika beliau tidak menyukai sesuatu, kami mengetahuinya dari wajah beliau." 468. Ibnu 'Abbas meriwayatkan bahwa Nabi ﷺ bersabda: "Petunjuk yang benar, perilaku yang baik, dan upaya untuk mencapai apa yang adil dan benar adalah sepertujuh puluh dari kenabian." 469. 'Aisyah, semoga Allah meridhainya, berkata, "Aku pernah berada di atas seekor unta yang agak liar, lalu Nabi ﷺ bersabda, 'Hendaklah engkau bersikap lembut. Setiap kali kelembutan ada pada sesuatu, ia akan memperindahnya, dan bila kelembutan dicabut darinya, ia akan membuatnya tercela.'" 470. Sa'id al-Maqburi meriwayatkan dari ayahnya bahwa Rasulullah ﷺ bersabda, "Waspadalah terhadap sifat kikir. Sifat itu telah membinasakan orang-orang sebelum kalian. Mereka saling menumpahkan darah dan memutus hubungan dengan kerabat mereka. Kezaliman akan muncul sebagai kegelapan pada Hari Kiamat."
462. 'A'isha, the wife of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "A group of Jews came to the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and said, "Poison ('sam' instead of 'salam') be upon you." 'A'isha said, "I understood it and said, 'And poison be upon you and the curse of Allah!' The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, 'Easy, 'A'isha! Allah loves compassion in everything.' I said, 'Didn't you hear what they said?' The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, replied, 'I already said, "and upon you".'" 463. Jarir ibn 'Abdullah reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Whoever is denied compassion is denied good." 464. Abu'd-Darda' reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Whoever has been given his portion of compassion has been given his portion of good. Whoever is denied given his portion of compassion has been denied his portion of good. Good character will be the weightiest thing in the believer's balance on the Day of Rising. Allah hates a coarse, foul-mouthed person." 465. 'A'isha reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Forgive right- acting people their slips." 466. Anas reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "If there is roughness in anything it is bound to disgrace it. Allah is compassionate and loves compassion." 467. Abu Sa'id al-Khudri said, "The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, was more modest than a virgin in her tent. When he disliked something, we recognised that in his face." 468. Ibn 'Abbas reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Right guidance, good behaviour and aiming for what is just and correct is a seventieth part of prophethood." 469. 'A'isha, may Allah be pleased with her, said, "I was on a camel which was somewhat intractable and the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, remarked, 'You must be compassionate. Whenever there is compassion in something, it adorns it, and when it is removed from something it disgraces it." 470. Sa'id al-Maqburi reported from his father that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Beware of avarice. It destroyed those before you. They shed one another's blood and broke off relations with their relatives. Injustice will appear as darkness on the Day of Rising."
218. Kasih sayang dalam mencari rezeki
218. Compassion in livelihood
471. Kathir bin 'Ubayd berkata, "Aku mengunjungi 'Aisyah, Ummul Mu'minin, semoga Allah meridhainya. Beliau berkata, 'Tunggulah sampai aku selesai menjahit pakaianku.' Maka aku pun menunggu dan berkata, 'Ummul Mu'minin, ketika aku keluar nanti, aku akan mengatakan kepada mereka bahwa musuhmu adalah kekikiran.' Beliau berkata, 'Urus saja urusanmu sendiri. Tidak ada pakaian baru bagi orang yang tidak mau memakai pakaian yang sudah usang.'"
471. Kathir ibn 'Ubayd said, "I visited 'A'isha, the Umm al-Mu'minin, may Allah be pleased with her. She said, 'Wait until I sew up my garment.' So I waited and said, 'Umm al-Mu'minin, when I go out, I will tell them that your enemy is miserliness.' She said, 'Look to your own business. There are no new clothes for anyone who does not wear shabby clothes.'"
219. Apa yang Diberikan kepada Hamba karena Kasih Sayang
219. What a slave is given for compassion
472. 'Abdullah ibn Mughaffal meriwayatkan bahwa Nabi ﷺ bersabda, "Sesungguhnya Allah Maha Penyayang dan mencintai kasih sayang. Allah memberikan melalui kasih sayang apa yang tidak Dia berikan melalui kekerasan."
472. 'Abdullah ibn Mughaffal reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Allah is compassionate and loves compassion. He gives for compassion what He goes not give for harshness."
220. Menenangkan
220. Calming
473. Anas bin Malik meriwayatkan bahwa Nabi ﷺ bersabda, "Permudahlah dan jangan mempersulit. Tenangkanlah orang-orang dan jangan membuat mereka lari." 474. 'Abdullah bin 'Amr berkata, "Seorang tamu singgah di kalangan Bani Israil, dan di dalam rumah itu ada seekor anjing. Mereka berkata, 'Anjing, jangan menggonggong kepada tamu kami.' Anak-anak anjing itu menyusu darinya. Mereka menyebutkannya kepada salah seorang nabi mereka, yang berkata, 'Ini seperti suatu kaum yang akan datang setelah kalian, yang orang-orang bodohnya akan mengalahkan orang-orang berilmu di antara mereka.'"
473. Anas ibn Malik reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Make things easy and do not make things difficult. Calm people and do not arouse their aversion." 474. 'Abdullah ibn 'Amr said, "A guest stayed among the tribe of Israel and there was a dog in the house. They said, 'Dog, do not bark at our guest. The puppies were suckling from it. They mentioned it to one of their Prophets who said, 'This is like a community which will come after you and whose fools will overcome its men of knowledge."
221. Kekerasan
221. Harshness
475. 'Aisyah berkata, "Aku pernah berada di atas unta yang agak sulit dikendalikan, lalu aku mulai memukulinya." Nabi ﷺ bersabda, "Hendaklah kamu bersikap lembut. Setiap kali kelembutan ada pada sesuatu, ia menghiasinya, dan setiap kali kelembutan dicabut darinya, ia mencelakakannya."
475. 'A'isha said, "I was on a camel that was somewhat intractable and I began to beat it. The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'You must be compassionate. Whenever there is compassion in something, it adorns it, and whenever it is removed from something it disgraces it."