Perilaku Sosial
Social Behavior
179. Menyampaikan hal-hal baik antara sesama manusia
179. Relating good things between people
385. Ummu Kultsum binti 'Uqbah bin Abi Mu'ayth meriwayatkan bahwa ia mendengar Rasulullah ﷺ bersabda, "Orang yang mendamaikan antarmanusia dengan mengucapkan perkataan yang baik atau menyampaikan hal yang baik, bukanlah pendusta." Ia berkata, "Aku tidak pernah mendengar beliau memberi keringanan untuk dusta yang biasa dilakukan orang, kecuali dalam tiga hal: mendamaikan antara manusia, seorang laki-laki yang berbicara kepada istrinya, dan seorang perempuan yang berbicara kepada suaminya."
385. Umm Kulthum, the daughter of 'Uqba ibn Abi Mu'ayt, reported that she heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, "Someone who makes peace between people by saying something good or relates something good is not a liar." She said, "I did not hear him make an allowance for any lie that people utilise except in three cases: making peace between people, a man speaking to his wife, and a woman speaking to her husband."
180. Seorang pendusta tidak berperilaku dengan benar
180. A liar is not behaving correctly
386. 'Abdullah meriwayatkan bahwa Nabi ﷺ bersabda, "Hendaklah kalian selalu jujur, karena kejujuran membawa kepada kebajikan, dan kebajikan membawa kepada surga. Seseorang terus berlaku jujur hingga ia dicatat di sisi Allah sebagai orang yang sangat jujur (siddiq). Jauhilah dusta, karena dusta membawa kepada kedurhakaan, dan kedurhakaan membawa kepada neraka. Seseorang terus berdusta hingga ia dicatat di sisi Allah sebagai pendusta." 387. 'Abdullah berkata, "Dusta tidak benar, baik dalam keadaan serius maupun dalam canda. Janganlah salah seorang dari kalian menjanjikan sesuatu kepada anaknya lalu tidak memberikannya."
386. 'Abdullah reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "You must be truthful. Truthfulness leads to dutifulness and dutifulness leads to the Garden. A man continues to tell the truth until he is written as a siddiq with Allah. Beware of lying. Lying leads to deviance and deviance leads to the Fire. A man continues to lie until he is written as a liar with Allah." 387. 'Abdullah said, "Lying is not correct, neither in seriousness nor in seriousness nor in jest. None of you should promise his child something and then not give it to him."
181. Orang yang bersabar ketika orang lain menyakitinya
181. Someone who is patient when people injure him
388. Ibn 'Umar meriwayatkan bahwa Nabi ﷺ bersabda, "Orang beriman yang bergaul dengan manusia dan sabar menghadapi gangguan mereka, lebih baik daripada orang yang tidak bergaul dengan manusia dan tidak sabar menghadapi gangguan mereka."
388. Ibn 'Umar reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "The believer who mixes with people and endures their injury is better than the person who does not mix with people nor endure their injury."
182. Bersabar atas Cedera
182. Enduring injury
389. Dari Abu Musa, bahwa Nabi ﷺ bersabda, "Tidak ada seorang pun yang lebih sabar dalam menanggung gangguan yang ia dengar daripada Allah Yang Maha Perkasa. Mereka mengklaim bahwa Dia memiliki anak, namun Dia tetap menyehatkan mereka dan memberi rezeki kepada mereka."
389. Abu Musa reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "No one nothing is more patient in enduring an injury which he hears than Allah Almighty. They claim that He has a son, and yet He still cures them and provides for them." .
390. 'Abdullah berkata, "Nabi ﷺ bersumpah dengan sumpah seperti salah satu sumpah yang biasa diucapkan orang-orang, lalu seorang laki-laki dari kaum Anshar berkata, 'Demi Allah, itu bukanlah sumpah yang dimaksudkan untuk mencari Wajah Allah Yang Maha Tinggi.'" Aku berkata, "Aku akan memberitahu Nabi ﷺ." Aku pun datang kepadanya ketika beliau sedang bersama para Sahabatnya, lalu aku berbicara kepadanya secara rahasia. Hal itu jelas sangat memengaruhi beliau ﷺ, dan wajahnya berubah warna hingga aku berharap bahwa aku tidak pernah menyampaikannya. Kemudian beliau ﷺ bersabda, "Musa pernah disakiti dengan yang lebih dari itu, namun ia tetap bersabar."
390. 'Abdullah said, "The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, swore an oath like one of the oaths that people swear and a man of the Ansar said, 'By Allah, it is not an oath by which the Face of Allah Almighty is desired." I said, 'I will tell the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. I went to him while he was with his Companions and I spoke to him in confidence. It clearly affected him greatly, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and his face changed colour so that I wished that I had not told him. Then he said, 'Musa was injured with greater than that and he endured it.'"
183. Memperbaiki Keadaan Persahabatan
183. Improving a state of friendship
391. Abu'd-Darda' meriwayatkan bahwa Nabi ﷺ bersabda, "Maukah aku beritahukan kepada kalian suatu derajat yang lebih utama daripada shalat, puasa, dan sedekah?" Mereka menjawab, "Ya." Beliau lalu bersabda, "Memperbaiki hubungan persahabatan. Merusak hubungan persahabatan adalah yang mencukur (agama) hingga habis."
391. Abu'd-Darda' reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Shall I tell you a degree better than prayer, fasting and sadaqa?" "Yes," they replied. He went to say, Improving a state of friendship. Causing discord in a state of friendship is what shaves things away." .
392. Mengenai ayat, "Bertakwalah kepada Allah dan perbaikilah hubungan di antara kalian" (8:1), Ibnu 'Abbas berkata, "Ini adalah perintah dari Allah kepada orang-orang beriman untuk bertakwa kepada Allah dan memperbaiki hubungan di antara mereka."
392. Regarding the ayat, "Fear Allah and put things right between you," (8:1), Ibn 'Abbas said, "This is an injunction from Allah to the believers to fear Allah and to put things right between them."
Ketika engkau berbohong kepada seseorang dan dia mempercayaimu.
184. When you lie to a man and he believes you
393. Sufyan ibn Usayd al-Hadrami meriwayatkan bahwa ia mendengar Nabi ﷺ bersabda, "Sungguh suatu pengkhianatan besar apabila engkau menceritakan sesuatu kepada saudaramu sehingga ia mempercayaimu, padahal engkau berdusta kepadanya."
393. Sufyan ibn Usayd al-Hadrami reported that he heard the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, "It is great treachery to tell something to your brother so that he believes you when you are lying to him."
185. Jangan berjanji kepada saudaramu lalu mengingkarinya.
185. Do not make a promise to your brother and then break it
394. Ibnu 'Abbas meriwayatkan bahwa Rasulullah ﷺ bersabda, "Janganlah kalian berselisih dengan saudaramu. Janganlah kalian mengolok-oloknya. Janganlah kalian berjanji kepadanya lalu mengingkarinya."
394. Ibn 'Abbas reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Do not dispute with your brother. Do not make dun of him. Do not make a promise to him and then break it."
186. Mencela Garis Keturunan
186. Attacking Lineage
395. Abu Hurayra meriwayatkan bahwa Nabi ﷺ bersabda, "Ada dua perbuatan yang tidak akan ditinggalkan oleh umatku: meratapi (mayit) dan mencela nasab seseorang."
395. Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "There are two courses that my Community will not abandon: wailing and attacking a person's lineage."
187. Kecintaan seorang laki-laki kepada kaumnya
187. A man's love for his people
396. Seorang wanita bernama Fusayla berkata bahwa ia mendengar ayahnya berkata, "Aku bertanya, 'Wahai Rasulullah ﷺ, apakah termasuk kemaksiatan bagi seseorang yang menolong kaumnya dalam sesuatu yang zalim?' Beliau menjawab, 'Ya.'"
396. A woman called Fusayla said that she heard her father say, "I asked, 'Messenger of Allah, is it part of disobedience for a man to help his people in something which is unjust?' 'Yes,' he replied."