Ota-onalar
Parents
1. Ota-onani hurmat qilish: Alloh Taolonun so‘zlari: "Biz insonga ota-onasini hurmat qilishni buyurdik." (29:8)
1. Honouring Parents: The Words of Allah Almighty: "We have instructed man to honour his parents." (29:8)
1. Abu 'Amr ash-Shaybani dedi: "Bu uyning egasi (va u 'Abdulloh ibn Mas'udning uyiga ishora qildi) dedi: "Men Payg'ambar ﷺdan, Allohning unga salovat va salom bersin, Alloh eng ko'p yoqtirgan amal qaysi ekanini so'radim. U: "Namozni vaqtida o'qish", dedi. "Keyin nima?" deb so'radim. U: "Keyin ota-onaga yaxshilik qilish", dedi. "Keyin nima?" deb so'radim. U: "Keyin Alloh yo'lidagi jihod", dedi." U yana qo'shdi: "U menga shu narsalarni aytdi. Agar undan ko'proq aytishini so'raganimda, ko'proq aytardi."
1. Abu 'Amr ash-Shaybani said, "The owner of this house (and he pointed at the house of 'Abdullah ibn Mas'ud) said, "I asked the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, which action Allah loves best. He replied, 'Prayer at its proper time.' 'Then what?' I asked. He said, 'Then kindness to parents." I asked, 'Then what?' He replied, 'Then jihad in the Way of Allah.'" He added, "He told me about these things. If I had asked him to tell me more, he would have told me more." .
2. Abdulloh ibn Umar dedi: "Rabbning roziligi ota-onaning roziligida, Rabbning g'azabi esa ota-onaning g'azabida."
2. 'Abdullah ibn 'Umar said, "The pleasure of the Lord lies in the pleasure of the parent. The anger of the Lord lies in the anger of the parent."
2. Onaga nisbatan mehr-shafqat ko'rsatish
2. Dutifulness to One's Mother
3. Bahz ibn Hakimning bobosi aytdi: "Men so'radim: "Allohning Elchisi, kimga yaxshilik qilishim kerak?" U: "Onangga", dedi. Men so'radim: "Keyin kimga?" U: "Onangga", dedi. Men so'radim: "Keyin kimga?" U: "Onangga", dedi. Men so'radim: "Keyin kimga?" U: "Onangga", dedi. Men so'radim: "Keyin kimga yaxshilik qilishim kerak?" U: "Otangga", dedi, "so'ngra eng yaqin qarindoshingga, keyin esa undan yaqinroq qarindoshingga."
3. Bahz ibn Hakim's grandfather said, "I asked, 'Messenger of Allah, to whom should I be dutiful?' 'Your mother,' he replied. I asked, 'Then whom?' 'Your mother,' he replied. I asked, 'Then whom?' 'Your mother,' he replied. I asked, 'Then whom?' 'Your mother,' he replied. I asked, 'Then to whom should I be dutiful?' 'Your father,' he replied, 'and then the next closest relative and then the next.'" .
4. Ato ibn Yasar rivoyat qiladi: bir kishi Ibn Abbos huzuriga kelib dedi: "Men bir ayolga uylanish taklif qildim, u menga turmushga chiqishni rad etdi. Boshqa bir kishi unga taklif qildi va u unga turmushga chiqishga rozi bo'ldi. Men hasad qildim va uni o'ldirdim. Menga tavba qilishning biror yo'li bormi?" U so'radi: "Onangiz tirikmi?" U javob berdi: "Yo'q." Shunda u dedi: "Qodir Allohga tavba qil va imkoning boricha Unga yaqinlashishga harakat qil."
4. 'Ata' ibn Yasar said that a man came to Ibn 'Abbas and said, "I asked a woman to marry me and she refused to marry me. Another man asked her and she agreed to marry him. I became jealous and killed her. Is there any way for me to repent?" He asked, "Is your mother alive?" "No," he replied. He said, "repent to Allah Almighty and try to draw near Him as much as you can." .
'Ato dedi: "Men Ibn 'Abbosning oldiga borib, undan so'radim: 'Nega unga uning onasi tirikmi, deb so'radingiz?' U javob berdi: 'Odamni Allohga yaqinlashtiradigan onasiga itoatkorlikdan yaxshiroq amalni men bilmayman.'"
'Ata' said, "I went to Ibn 'Abbas and asked him, 'Why did you ask him whether his mother was alive?' He replied, 'I do not know of any action better for bringing a person near to Allah than dutifulness to his mother.'"
3. Otaga nisbatan ota-onaga itoatkorlik (birodarlik burchi)
3. Dutifulness to One's Father
5. Abu Hurayra dedi: «Payg'ambarga (ﷺ) savol berildi: "Allohning Elchisi, men kimga yaxshilik qilishim kerak?" U javob berdi: "Onangga." Yana so'raldi: "Keyin kimga?" U javob berdi: "Onangga." Yana so'raldi: "Keyin kimga?" U javob berdi: "Onangga." Yana so'raldi: "Keyin kimga?" U javob berdi: "Onangga." Yana so'raldi: "Keyin kimga?" U javob berdi: "Otangga."»
5. Abu Hurayra said, "The Prophet was asked, 'Messenger of Allah, to whom should I be dutiful?' 'Your mother,' he replied. He was asked, 'Then whom?' 'Your mother,' he replied. He was asked, 'Then whom?' 'Your mother,' he replied. He was asked, 'Then whom?' 'Your mother,' he replied. He was asked, 'Then whom?' He replied, 'Your father.'" .
6. Abu Hurayra rivoyat qildi: "Bir kishi Allohning Rasuli ﷺ huzuriga kelib: "Menga nimani buyurasiz?" deb so'radi. U zot: "Onangga yaxshilik qil", deb javob berdilar. Keyin u yana shu savolni berdi, u zot yana: "Onangga yaxshilik qil", dedilar. U yana so'radi, Payg'ambar ﷺ yana: "Onangga yaxshilik qil", dedilar. U to'rtinchi marta so'radi va javob yana: "Onangga yaxshilik qil", bo'ldi. Keyin u beshinchi marta savol berdi va Payg'ambar ﷺ: "Otangga yaxshilik qil", dedilar."
6. Abu Hurayra reported: "A man came to the Prophet of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and asked, 'What do you command me to do?' He replied, 'Be dutiful towards your mother.' Then he asked him the same question again and he replied, 'Be dutiful towards your mother.' He repeated it yet again and the Prophet replied, 'Be dutiful towards your mother.' He repeated the question a fourth time and the reply was, 'Be dutiful towards your mother.' Then he put the question a fifth time and the Prophet said, 'Be dutiful towards your father.'" .
4. Ota-onaga itoatkorlik, garchi ular zolim bo‘lsalar ham
4. Dutifulness to Parents, even if they are unjust
7. Ibn Abbos dedi: "Agar biror musulmon ota-onasi haqida Allohga itoat qilsa, Alloh uning uchun Jannatning ikki eshigini ochadi. Agar ota-onadan faqat bittasi bo'lsa, u holda bitta eshik ochiladi. Agar ulardan biri xafa bo'lsa, u holda Alloh o'sha ota-ona uundan rozi bo'lmaguncha unga rozi bo'lmaydi." Undan so'rashdi: "Agar ular unga zulm qilsalar ham?" U javob berdi: "Zulm qilsalar ham."
7. Ibn 'Abbas said, "If any Muslim obeys Allah regarding his parents, Allah will open two gates of the Garden for him. If there is only one parent, then one gate will be opened. If one of them is angry, then Allah will not be pleased with him until that parent is pleased with him." He was asked, "Even if they wrong him?" "Even if they wrong him" he replied.
5. Ota-onaga yumshoq so‘zlar
5. Gentle words to Parents
8. Toysala ibn Mayyas aytdi: "Men najadiylar [xorijiylar] bilan birga edim, va katta gunoh deb o'ylagan gunohlarni qildim. Buni Ibn 'Umarga aytdim. U so'radi: 'Ular qanday?' Men: 'Falon-falon,' deb javob berdim. U dedi: 'Bular katta gunohlar emas. Katta gunohlar to'qqizta. Ular: Allohga shirk keltirish, birovni o'ldirish, lashkar oldinga yurayotganda undan qochish, iffatli ayolga tuhmat qilish, ribo (foiz), yetim mulkini yeyish, masjidda bid'at, masxara qilish va ota-onani itoatsizlik bilan yig'latishdir.' Keyin Ibn 'Umar menga dedi: 'Do'zaxdan qutulishni xohlaysanmi? Do'zaxga kirishni istaysanmi?' 'Alloh haqqi, ha!' deb javob berdim. U so'radi: 'Ota-onang hali tirikmi?' Men javob berdim: 'Onam tirik.' U dedi: 'Alloh haqqi, agar sen onangga mehr bilan gapirsang va uni boqsang, katta gunohlardan saqlansang, jannatga kirasan.'"
8. Taysala ibn Mayyas said, "I was with the Najadites [Kharijites] when I committed wrong actions which I supposed were major wrong actions. I mentioned that to Ibn 'Umar. He inquired, 'What are they?" I replied, 'Such-and-such.' He stated, 'These are not major wrong actions. There are nine major wrong actions. They are: associating others with Allah, killing someone, desertion from the army when it is advancing, slandering a chaste woman, usury, consuming an orphan's property, heresy in the mosque, scoffing, and causing one's parents to weep through disobedience.' Ibn 'Umar then said to me, 'Do you wish to separate yourself from the Fire? Do you want to enter the Fire?' 'By Allah, yes!' I replied. He asked, 'Are your parents still alive?' I replied, 'My mother is.' He said, 'By Allah, if you speak gently to her and feed her, then you will enter the Garden as long as you avoid the major wrong actions.'" .
9. Hishom ibn Urva o'z otasidan rivoyat qildi: "Ularni rahm-shafqat bilan, kamtarlik ila qanotingiz ostiga oling." (17:24)
9. Hisham ibn 'Urwa related this ayat from his father, "Take them under your wing, out of mercy, with due humility." (17:24)
6. Ota-onaga qarzni to‘lash
6. Repaying Parents
10. Abu Hurayra rivoyat qilishicha, Payg'ambar ﷺ shunday degan: "Farzand o'z otasining haqini ado eta olmaydi, magar uni qulликда topib, sotib olib, ozod qilmasa."
10. Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "A child cannot repay his father unless he finds him as a slave and the buys him and sets him free." .
11. Sa'id ibn Abi Burda dedi: "Men otamdan eshitdim, u aytardi: Ibn Umar bir yamanlik odamni ko'rdi, u Ka'bani tavof qilayotgan edi va onasini orqasiga ko'tarib olgan edi, u shunday derdi: 'Men sizning kamtarin tuyangizman. Agar uning minishi qo'rqsa, men qo'rqmayman.' Keyin u so'radi: 'Ibn Umar, sizningcha, men uning haqini to'ladimmi?' U javob berdi: 'Yo'q, hatto bir og'riq nolasining haqini ham emas.'" "Ibn Umar tavof qildi, Maqomga kelib ikki rak'at namoz o'qidi. U aytdi: 'Ibn Abi Musa, har ikki rak'at ular orasida o'tgan hamma narsani qoplaydi.'"
11. Sa'id ibn Abi Burda said, "I heard my father sat that Ibn 'Umar saw a Yamani man going around the House while carrying his mother on his back, saying, 'I am your humble camel. If her mount is frightened, I am not frightened.' Then he asked, 'Ibn 'Umar? Do you think that I have repaid her?' He replied, 'No, not even for a single groan.' "Ibn 'Umar did tawaf and came to the Maqam and prayed two rak'ats. He said, 'Ibn Abi Musa, every two rak'ats make up for everything that has happened between them.'" .
12. Marvon Abu Hurayrani o'ziga vakil qilib olardi va Dhu'l-Hulayfada joylashgan edi. Uning onasi bir uyda, o'zi esa boshqa uyda yashardi. U chiqmoqchi bo'lganida onasining eshigi oldida to'xtab: "Assalomu alaykum, ona, Allahning rahmati va barakoti bo'lsin", deb aytardi. Onasi javob berardi: "Va alaykum assalom, o'g'lim, Allahning rahmati va barakoti bo'lsin". Shunda u: "Allah sizga rahm qilsin, chunki siz bolaligimda meni tarbiyalagansiz", degan edi. Onasi javob berardi: "Allah sendan rozi bo'lsin, chunki sen keksayganimda menga itoatkor bo'lding". Uyga kirmoqchi bo'lganida ham xuddi shunday qilardi. 13. Abdulloh ibn Amr aytdi: "Bir kishi Payg'ambar ﷺ huzuriga kelib, u zotga hijrat qilishga ahd qildi. U ota-onasini yig'lagan holda qoldirib ketdi. Payg'ambar ﷺ dedilar: "Ularning oldiga qaytib bor va ularni yig'latganingdek, kuldir"."
12. Marwan used to make Abu Hurayra his agent and he used to be located in Dhu'l-Hulayfa. His mother was in one house and he was in another. When he wanted to go out, he would stop at her door and say, "Peace be upon you, mother, and the mercy of Allah and His blessing." She would reply, "And peace be upon you, my son, and the mercy of Allah and His blessing." Then he said, "May Allah have mercy on you as you raised me when I was a child." She answered, "May Allah have mercy on you as you were dutiful to me when I was old." Whenever he wanted to go inside, he would do something similar. 13. 'Abdullah ibn 'Amr said, "A man came to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and made a pledge to him that he would do hijra. He left his parents who were in tears. The Prophet said, 'Go back to them and make them laugh as you made them weep.'" .
7. Ota-onaga itoatsizlik qilish
7. Disobedience to Parents
15. Abu Bakra rivoyat qilishicha, Allah elchisi ﷺ shunday degan: "Sizlarga eng katta gunohlarning eng yomoni haqida aytib bermaymanmi?" Ular: "Ha, ey Allah elchisi", deyishdi. U zot dedi: "Allohga biror narsani sherik qilish va ota-onaga itoatsizlik qilish." U zot yonboshlab yotgan edi, so'ngra o'rnidan turib dedi: "Va yolg'on guvohlik berish." Abu Bakr dedi: "U zot buni takrorlayverdi, hatto men: 'Axir u to'xtamasmikin?' deb o'ylab qoldim."
15. Abu Bakra reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Shall I tell you which is the worst of the major wrong actions?" "Yes, Messenger of Allah," they replied. He said, "Associating something else with Allah and disobeying parents." he had been reclining, but then he said up and said, "And false witness." Abu Bakr said, "He continued to repeat it until I said, 'Is he never going to stop?'" .
16. Varrod, al-Mug'ira ibn Shu'banining kotibi, dedi: "Muoviya al-Mug'iraga yozdi: "Rasulullohdan ﷺ eshitganingni menga yozib yubor"." Varrod dedi: "U menga aytdi va men yozib oldim: "Men uni ko'p savol berishni, mol-mulkni isrof qilishni va behuda gap-so'zlarni man etganini eshitdim"."
16. Warrad, the scribe of al-Mughira ibn Shu'ba, said, "Mu'awiya wrote to al-Mughira, saying, 'Write down for me what you heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say.'" Warrad said, "He dictated to me and I wrote out, 'I heard him forbid asking too many questions, wasting money and chit-chat.'"
8. "Alloh o'z ota-onasini la'natlagan kishini la'natlaydi"
8. "Allah curses whoever curses his parents"
17. Abu't-Tufayl dedi: "Aliydan so'rashdi: 'Payg'ambar ﷺ sizga boshqalarga bermagan biror narsani maxsus berganmilar?' U javob berdi: 'Allohning Elchisi ﷺ menga hammaga bergan narsalaridan tashqari hech narsa maxsus bermagan, faqat qilichimning qinida bor narsa bundan mustasno.' U qog'oz parchasini chiqardi. O'sha qog'ozda yozilgan edi: 'Allohdan boshqasiga qurbonlik qilgan kimsani Alloh la'natlaydi. Chegara tosh(ini ko'chirib) o'g'irlagan kimsani Alloh la'natlaydi. Ota-onasini la'natlagan kimsani Alloh la'natlaydi. Bid'at ahliga boshpana bergan kimsani Alloh la'natlaydi.'"
17. Abu't-Tufayl said, "'Ali was asked, 'Did the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, give you something special which he did not give to anyone else?' He replied, 'The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, did not give me anything special which he did not give to everyone else except for what I have in my sword scabbard.' He brought out a piece of paper. Written on that paper was: 'Allah curses anyone who sacrifices an animal to something other than Allah. Allah curses anyone who steals a milestone. Allah curses anyone who curses his parents. Allah curses anyone who gives shelter to an innovator.'".
9. Ota-onaga itoat qilish, agar bu Allohga itoatsizlikka olib kelmasa
9. Being Dutiful to Parents as long as that does not entail disobedience to Allah
18. Abu'd-Darda' aytadi: "Allohning Elchisi ﷺ menga to'qqiz narsani vasiyat qildilar: «Allohga hech narsani sherik qilma, garchi bo'laklarga bo'linsang yoki kuydirilsang ham. Farz namozni ataylab tark etma. Kim uni ataylab tark etsa, u Allohning himoyasidan mahrum bo'ladi. Sharob ichma, chunki u barcha yomonliklarning kalitidir. Ota-onangga itoat qil. Agar ular sendan dunyoviy mol-mulkingdan voz kechishni buyursalar, ularga uni tark et. Hokimiyat egalari bilan talashma, garchi o'zingni haq deb hisoblasang ham. Lashkar hujum qilayotganda undan qochma, garchi sheriklaring qochsa-da, sen o'ldirilsang ham. Xotiningga o'z imkoniyatingdan kelib chiqib xarj qil. Xotiningga tayoq ko'tarma. Oilangni Allohdan, Ulug' va Oliy Zotdan qo'rqishga o'rgat»."
18. Abu'd-Darda' said, "The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, recommended nine things to me: 'Do not associate anything with Allah, even if you are cut to pieces or burned. Do not abandon a prescribed prayer deliberately. Anyone who abandons it will forfeit Allah's protection. Do not drink wine - it is the key to every evil. Obey your parents. If they command you to abandon your worldly possessions, then leave them for them. Do not contend with those in power, even if you think that you are in the right. Do not run away from the army when it is advances, even if you are killed while your companions run away. Spend on your wife out of your means. Do not raise a stick against your wife. Cause your family to fear Allah, the Almighty and Exalted.'" .
19. Abdulloh ibn Amr aytdi: "Bir kishi Payg'ambar ﷺ huzuriga kelib dedi: "Men sizga hijrat qilish uchun bay'at bermoqchi bo'lib keldim, garchi ota-onamni yig'latib qo'ygan bo'lsam ham." Payg'ambar ﷺ dedilar: "Ularning oldiga qaytib bor va ularni yig'latganingdek, kuldirgin."
19. 'Abdullah ibn 'Amr said, "A man came to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and said, 'I have come to make you a pledge that will do hijra although I have left my parents in tears." The Prophet said, 'Go back to them and make them laugh as you made them cry.'" .
20. ʿAbdulloh ibn ʿAmr aytdi: "Bir kishi Payg'ambar ﷺ huzuriga jihod qilmoqchi bo'lib keldi. Payg'ambar ﷺ so'radilar: "Ota-onang tirikmi?" U javob berdi: "Ha." Shunda u dedi: "Unda ularning xizmatida harakat qil."
20. 'Abdullah ibn 'Amr said, "A man came to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, wanting to do jihad. The Prophet asked, 'Are your parents alive?' 'Yes,' he replied. he said, 'Then exert yourself on their behalf.'"
10. Ota-onasiga itoatsizlik qilgan kishi jannatga kirmaydi
10. The One who Fails his Parents will not enter the Garden
21. Abu Hurayra rivoyat qiladi: Payg‘ambar ﷺ shunday dedilar: "Xo‘rlik! Xo‘rlik! Xo‘rlik!" Ular dedilar: "Allah Elchisi, kim?" U zot dedilar: "Ota-onasining birini yoki ikkalasini qariganida e’tiborsiz qoldirgan kishi do‘zaxga kiradi."
21. Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Disgrace! Disgrace! Disgrace!" They said, "Messenger of Allah, who?" He said, "The one who fails his parents or one of them when they are old will enter the Fire."
11. Alloh ota-onasiga itoatkor bo'lgan kishining umrini uzoq qiladi.
11. Allah prolongs the life of someone who is dutiful towards his parents
22. Muʼoz dedi: «Ota-onasiga itoatkor bo‘lgan kishiga saodat bor. Yuce Alloh uning umrini uzun qiladi».
22. Mu'adh said, "Bliss belongs to someone who is dutiful towards his parents. Allah Almighty will prolong his life."
12. Kishi o'zining otasi mushrik bo'lsa, uning uchun mag'firat so'ramaydi.
12. One does not ask forgiveness for his father if he is an idolater
23. Ibn 'Abbos aytgan: Allohu taolo shunday degan: "Agar ular ikkovingdan biri yoki ikkalovingiz qariganingizda, ularga "Uf!" demang, jahl bilan ularni tanbeh qilmang, balki ular bilan muloyim va izzatli so'zlashing. Rahm-shafqat bilan ularga kamtarlik qanotingizni past tuting va: "Parvardigorim, meni kichikligimda tarbiyalaganlaridek, ularga ham rahm qil", deng". (17:23-24) U aytdi: "Bu hukm Tavba surasidagi oyat bilan bekor qilingan: "Nabiy va iymon keltirganlar uchun, ular do'zax ahli ekani aniq bo'lganidan keyin, hatto yaqin qarindoshlari bo'lsa ham, mushriklar uchun mag'firat so'rashi joiz emas". (9:113)"
23. Ibn 'Abbas mentioned the words of the Almighty, "When one or both of them reach old age with you, do not say 'Ugh!' to them out of irritation and do not be harsh with them but speak to them with gentleness and generosity. Take them under your wing, out of mercy, with due humility and say: 'Lord, show mercy to them as they did in looking after me when I was small." (17:23-24) He said, "This was abrogated in Surat at-Tawba: 'It is not right for the Prophet and those who have iman to ask forgiveness for the mushrikun even if they are close relatives after it has become clear to them that they are the Companions of the Blazing Fire.' (9:113)"
13. Ota-onasi mushrik bo'lgan kishiga nisbatan ota-onaga birodarlik qilish
13. Dutifulness towards a parent who is an idolater
24. Sa'd ibn Abi Waqqos aytdi: "Men haqimda to'rtta oyat nozil bo'lgan. Birinchisi, onam, men Muhammad ﷺ dan voz kechmagunimcha na ovqat yeyishga, na suv ichishga qasam ichganida bo'ldi. Allohu taolo nozil qildi: "Agar ular sen menga bilimga ega bo'lmagan narsani shерik qilishga harakat qilsalar, ularga itoat qilma. Dunyoda ularga yaxshilik va odob bilan hamroh bo'l" (31:15). Ikkinchisi, men yoqtirib qolgan bir qilichni olib: "Allohning Elchisi, menga shu qilichni bering!" dedim. Shunda oyat nozil bo'ldi: "Ular sendan o'ljalar haqida so'raydilar" (8:1). Uchinchisi, men kasal bo'lib yotganimda Allohning Elchisi ﷺ huzуrimga kelgan edi. Men: "Allohning Elchisi, mol-mulkimni taqsimlamoqchiman. Yarmini vasiyat qilsam bo'ladimi?" dedim. U: "Yo'q", dedi. "Uchdan birini?" dedim. U jim qoldi, shundan keyin uchdan bir vasiyat qilishga ruxsat berildi. To'rtinchisi, men Ansorning ba'zilari bilan birga sharob ichganimizda, ulardan biri meni tuya suyagi bilan burnimga urdi. Men Payg'ambar ﷺ huzuriga bordim, shunda Allohu taolo sharobni taqiq qilish haqidagi hukmni nozil qildi."
24. Sa'id ibn Abi Waqqas said: "Four ayats were revealed about me. The first was when my mother swore she would neither eat nor drink until I left Muhammad, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. Allah Almighty revealed, 'But if they try to make you associate something with Me about which you have no knowledge, do not obey them. Keep company with them correctly and courteously in this worldÉ' (31:15) The second was when I took a sword that I admired and said, 'Messenger of Allah, give me this!' Then the ayat was revealed: 'They will ask you about booty.' (8:1) The third was when I was ill and the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, came to me and I said, 'Messenger of Allah, I want to divide my property. Can I will away a half?' He said, 'No.' 'A third?' I asked. He was silent and so after that it was allowed to will away a third. The fourth was when I had been drinking wine with some of the Ansar. One of them hit my nose with the jawbone of a camel. I went to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and Allah Almighty revealed the prohibition of wine." .
25. Asmo bint Abu Bakr aytdi: "Payg'ambar ﷺ davrida onam menga umid bilan keldi. Men Payg'ambardan ﷺ so'radim: "Unga yaxshilik qilishim kerakmi?" U: "Ha", deb javob berdi." Ibn 'Uyayna dedi: "Shundan so'ng Alloh u haqda vahiy qildi: "Alloh sizni dinda sizga urush ochmagan kishilarga yaxshilik qilishingizdan qaytarmaydi" (60:8).
25. Asma' bint Abi Bakr said, "In the time of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, my mother came to me hoping (I would be dutiful). I asked the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, 'Do I have to treat her well?' 'Yes,' he replied." Ibn 'Uyayna said, "Then Allah revealed about her, 'Allah does not forbid you from being good to those who have not fought you in the deen.' (60:8)" .
14. Inson o‘z ota-onasini haqorat qilmasligi kerak
14. A person should not revile his parents
27. Abdulloh ibn Amr rivoyat qiladi: Payg‘ambar ﷺ shunday dedilar: "Ota-onasini haqorat qilish katta gunohlardandir." Sahobalar so‘radilar: "Ey Allohning Rasuli, odam qanday qilib ota-onasini haqorat qiladi?" U zot dedilar: "Odam birovning otasini haqorat qiladi, o‘sha esa unga qaytarib uning otasini haqorat qiladi; birovning onasini haqorat qiladi, o‘sha esa unga qaytarib uning onasini haqorat qiladi."
27. 'Abdullah ibn 'Amr said that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Reviling one's parents is one of the great wrong actions." They asked, "How could he revile them?" He said, "He reviles a man who then in turn reviles his mother and father." .
28. Abdulloh ibn Amr aytdi: "Kishining otasini so'kishi Alloh Taolo huzuridagi katta gunohlardan biridir."
28. 'Abdullah ibn 'Amr said, "A man's reviling his father is one of the major wrong actions in the sight of Allah Almighty."
15. Ota-onaga itoatsizlik qilishning jazosi
15. The punishment for disobeying parents
29. Abu Bakra rivoyat qiladi: Payg‘ambar ﷺ shunday dedilar: "Zulm qilish va qarindoshlik aloqalarini uzish kabi, dunyoda jazoga olib keladigan, Oxiratdagi jazodan tashqari yana boshqa biror yomon amal yo‘q."
29. Abu Bakra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "There is no wrong action more likely to bring punishment in this world in addition to what is stored up in the Next World than oppression and severing ties of kinship." .
30. Imron ibn Husayn aytdi: "Allohning Elchisi ﷺ aytdilar: "Zino, sharob ichish va o'g'rilik haqida nima deysiz?" Biz: "Alloh va Uning Elchisi yaxshiroq biladi", dedik. U zot aytdilar: "Bular buzuqlik ishlaridir va ularning jazosi bor. Lekin ulug' gunohlarning eng kattasi qaysi ekanini sizga aytaymi? Yuce Allohga shirk keltirish va ota-onaga itoatsizlik qilish." U zot yonboshlab o'tirgan edilar, so'ng o'rnidan turib o'tirdilar va dedilar: "Va yolg'on gapirish."
30. 'Imran ibn Husayn said, "The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'What do you say about fornication, drinking wine and theft?' 'Allah and His Messenger know best,' we replied. He stated, 'They are acts of outrage and there is punishment for them, but shall I tell you which is the greatest of the great wrong actions? Associating with Allah Almighty and disobeying parents.' He had been reclining, but then he sat up and said, 'and lying.'" .
16. Ota-onani yig'latish
16. Making Parents weep
31. Ibn 'Umar dedi: "Ota-onani yig'latish itoatsizlikning bir qismi va katta gunohlardan biridir."
31. Ibn 'Umar said, "Making parents weep is part of disobedience and one of the major wrong actions."
17. Ota-onaning duosi
17. The Supplication of Parents
32. Abu Hurayra rivoyat qilishicha, Payg‘ambar ﷺ shunday degan: "Uch kishining duosi shubhasiz ijobat bo‘ladi: mazlumning duosi, safardagi kishining duosi va ota-onaning farzandi uchun qilgan duosi."
32. Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Three supplications are answered without a doubt: the supplication of someone who is oppressed, the supplication of someone on a journey, and the supplication of parents for their children." .
33. Abu Hurayra rivoyat qiladi: u Allohning Elchisi ﷺ ning shunday deganini eshitgan: "Iso ibn Maryam va Juraydj hamrohidan boshqa hech bir inson bolasi beshikda gapirmagan." Abu Hurayra so'radi: "Allohning Nabiysi, Juraydjning hamrohi kim edi?" Nabiy ﷺ javob berdi: "Juraydj ibodatxonada yashaydigan rohib edi. Uning ibodatxonasi etagiga bir cho'pon kelar edi, qishloqdan bir ayol esa cho'ponning oldiga kelar edi. Bir kuni uning onasi kelib, u namoz o'qiyotgan paytda chaqirdi: 'Juraydj!' U o'ziga-o'zi dedi: 'Onammi yoki namozimmi?' U namozni afzal ko'rishga qaror qildi. Ona ikkinchi marta chaqirdi, u yana o'zidan so'radi: 'Onammi yoki namozimmi?' U yana namozni afzal ko'rishni o'yladi. Ona uchinchi marta chaqirdi va u yana o'zidan so'radi: 'Onammi yoki namozimmi?' U yana namozni afzal ko'rishga qaror qildi. U onasiga javob bermagach, ona dedi: 'Juraydj, Alloh sen go'zal ayollarning yuzlariga qaramaguningcha seni o'limga yo'liqtirmasin.' Shundan so'ng u ketdi. Keyin qishloq ayoli tug'ib, uni podshohning oldiga olib kelishdi. Podshoh so'radi: 'Bu kimning farzandi?' 'Juraydjniki', deb javob berdi ayol. Podshoh so'radi: 'Ibodatxonadagi odamningmi?' 'Ha', dedi ayol. Podshoh buyurdi: 'Uning ibodatxonasini buzing va uni mening huzurimga olib keling.' Ular ibodatxonasini boltalar bilan urib, to qulagunicha buzishdi. Uning qo'lini bo'yniga arqon bilan bog'lab, podshohning oldiga olib ketishdi. U go'zal ayollar yonidan o'tganda ularni ko'rib, kulimsiradi. Ular odamlar bilan birga unga qarardi. Podshoh so'radi: 'Bu ayol nima da'vo qilayotganini bilasanmi?' 'Nima da'vo qilmoqda?' deb so'radi u. Podshoh javob berdi: 'U sening uning farzandining otasi ekaningni da'vo qilmoqda.' U ayoldan so'radi: 'Bola qayerda?' Ular javob berdilar: 'U uning xonasida.' U bolaning oldiga borib dedi: 'Sening otang kim?' 'Cho'pon', deb javob berdi bola. Podshoh dedi: 'Ibodatxonangni oltindan qurdirib beraylikmi?' 'Yo'q', deb javob berdi u. So'radi: 'Kumushdanmi?' "Yo'q", deb javob berdi u. Podsho so'radi: "Uni nima bilan quramiz?" U dedi: "Uni topganingizdek qilib qayta joyiga qo'ying." So'ng podsho so'radi: "Nima sizni kulishga majbur qildi?" "Tanish bir narsani ko'rdim", deb javob berdi u, "Onamning duosi menga yetib keldi." Shundan so'ng u podshoga bu voqeani gapirib berdi.
33. Abu Hurayra reported that he heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, "No human child has ever spoken in the cradle except for 'Isa ibn Maryam, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and the companion of Jurayj." Abu Hurayra asked, "Prophet of Allah, who was the companion of Jurayj?" The Prophet replied, "Jurayj was a monk who lived in a hermitage. There was a cowherd who used to come to the foot of his hermitage and a woman from the village used to come to the cowherd. "One day his mother came while he was praying and called out, 'Jurayj!' He asked himself, 'My mother or my prayer?' He concluded that he should prefer the prayer. She shouted to him a second time and he again asked himself, 'My mother or my prayer?' He thought that he should prefer the prayer. She shouted a third time and yet again he asked himself, 'My mother or my prayer?' He again concluded that he should prefer the prayer. When he did not answer her, she said, 'Jurayj, may Allah not let you die until you have looked at the faces of the beautiful women.' Then she left. "Then the village woman was brought before the king after she had given birth to a child. He asked, 'Whose is it?' 'Jurayj's,' she replied. He asked, 'The man in the hermitage?' 'Yes,' she answered. He ordered, 'Destroy his hermitage and bring him to me.' They hacked at his hermitage with axes until it collapsed. They bound his hand to his neck with a rope and took him along to the king. When he passed by the beautiful women, he saw them and smiled. They were looking at him along with the people. "The king asked, 'Do you know what this woman claims?' 'What does she claim?' he asked. He replied, 'She claims that you are the father of her child.' He asked her, 'Where is the child?' They replied, 'It is in her room.' He went to the child and said, 'Who is your father?' 'The cowherd,' he replied. The king said, 'Shall we build your hermitage out of gold?' 'No,' he replied. He asked, 'Of silver?' 'No,' he replied. The king asked, 'What shall we build it with?' He said, 'Put it back the way you found it.' Then the king asked, 'What made you smile.' 'Something I recognised,' he replied, 'The supplication of my mother overtook me.' Then he told him about it."
18. Xristian onasiga Islomni taklif qilish
18. Offering Islam to a Christian mother
34. Abu Hurayra dedi: "Yahudiy ham, nasroniy ham mendan eshitib, keyin meni sevmagan emas. Onamning musulmon bo'lishini istadim, lekin u rad etdi. Men unga bu haqda aytdim, u yana rad etdi. Men Payg'ambarga ﷺ bordim va dedim: 'Men uchun Allohga duo qiling.' U shunday qildi va men onamning oldiga keldim. U uyning eshigi ichida edi va dedi: 'Abu Hurayra, men musulmon bo'ldim.' Men Payg'ambarga ﷺ aytdim va so'radim: 'Men va onam uchun Allohga duo qiling.' U dedi: 'Ey Alloh, Abu Hurayrani va uning onasini odamlarga sevimli qil.'"
34. Abu Hurayra said, "Neither Jew nor Christian has heard me and then not loved me. I wanted my mother to become Muslim, but she refused. I told her about it and she still refused. I went to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and said, 'Pray to Allah for me.' He did so and I went to her. She was inside the door of the house and said, 'Abu Hurayra, I have become Muslim.' I told the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and I asked, 'Make supplication to Allah for me and my mother.' He said, 'O Allah, make people love Abu Hurayra and his mother.'"
19. Ota-onaga ularning vafotidan keyin ko'rsatiladigan birodarlik (yaxshilik)
19. Dutifulness towards Parents after their Death
35. Abu Usayd aytdi: "Biz Allohning Elchisi ﷺ bilan birga edik, shunda bir kishi so'radi: 'Allohning Elchisi, ota-onam vafotidan keyin ularga qilishim mumkin bo'lgan biron yaxshilik bormi?' U zot javob berdilar: 'Ha. To'rtta narsa bor: ular uchun duo qilish, ular uchun mag'firat so'rash, ularning va'dalarini bajarish va ularning do'stlariga saxovatli bo'lish. Qarindoshlik aloqalari faqat ota-onangiz orqali sizga bog'lanadi.'"
35. Abu Usayd said, "We were with the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, when a man asked, 'Messenger of Allah, is there any act of dutifulness which I can do for my parents after their death?' He replied, 'Yes. There are four things: Supplication for them, asking forgiveness for them, fulfilling their pledges, and being generous to friends of theirs. You only have ties of kinship through your parents." .
36. Abu Hurayra dedi: "Vafot etgan kishi o'limidan keyin bir daraja ko'tarilishi mumkin. U: "Parvardigorim, bu qanday bo'ldi?" deb so'raydi. Unga aytiladi: "Farzandingiz sizning uchun mag'firat so'rashi mumkin"."
36. Abu Hurayra said, "The dead person can be raised a degree after his death. He said, 'My Lord, how is this?' He was told, 'Your child can ask for forgiveness for you.'" .
37. Ibn Sirin dedi: "Bir kecha Abu Hurayra bilan birga edik, u shunday dedi: «Ey Alloh, Abu Hurayrani, uning onasini va ikkisi uchun mag'firat so'raganlarni kechir»." Muhammad dedi: "Biz ular uchun mag'firat so'rardik, shunda Abu Hurayraning duosiga kiramiz."
37. Ibn Sirin said, "We were with Abu Hurayra one night and he said, 'O Allah, forgive Abu Hurayra and his mother and whoever asks for forgiveness for both of them.'" Muhammad said, "We used to ask for forgiveness for them so that we would be included in Abu Hurayra's supplication." .
38. Abu Hurayra rivoyat qiladi: Allohning Elchisi ﷺ shunday deganlar: "Inson vafot etganda, uch narsadan tashqari barcha amallari uzilib qoladi: davom etadigan sadaqa, foyda beradigan ilm yoki unga duo qiladigan solih farzand."
38. Abu Hurayra reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "When a person dies, all action is cut off for him with the exception of three things: sadaqa which continues, knowledge which benefits, or a righteous child who makes supplication for him." .
39. Ibn 'Abbas rivoyat qildi: bir kishi shunday dedi: "Allohning Elchisi, onam vasiyat qilmasdan vafot etdi. Men uning nomidan sadaqa bersam, bu unga foyda keltiradimi?" U zot ﷺ: "Ha", deb javob berdilar.
39. Ibn 'Abbas reported that a man said, "Messenger of Allah, my mother died without a will. Will it help her if I give sadaqa on her behalf?" "Yes," he replied.
20. Otasi sevgan narsalarni davom ettirgan kishining birdamligi
20. The Dutifulness of someone who maintains what his father loved
40. Abdulloh ibn Dinor rivoyat qilishicha, Ibn Umar safar paytida bir badaviy (ko'chmanchi arab) yonidan o'tgan. Bu badaviyning otasi Umarning do'sti bo'lgan. Badaviy: "Men falonchining o'g'li emasmanmi?" dedi. U: "Ha, albatta", dedi. Ibn Umar unga o'zi ortidan ergashib kelayotgan eshakni berishni buyurdi. Shuningdek, o'z salla(dastor)ini yechib unga berdi. Yonidagi kishilardan biri: "Unga ikki dirham yetmaydimi?" dedi. U javob berdi: "Payg'ambar ﷺ shunday degan: "Otangiz yaxshi ko'rgan narsani davom ettiring. Uni uzmang, aks holda Alloh sizning nuringizni o'chirib qo'yadi."
40. 'Abdullah ibn Dinar reported that Ibn 'Umar passed by a bedouin during a journey. The bedouin's father had been a friend of 'Umar's. The bedouin said, "Am I not the son of so-and-so?" He said, "Yes, indeed." Ibn 'Umar ordered that he be given a donkey which was following him. He also took off his turban and gave it to him, One of the men with him said, "Wouldn't two dirhams be enough for him?" He replied, "The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'Maintain what your father loved. Do not cut it off so that Allah puts out your light." .
41. Ibn ʿUmar rivoyat qildi: Allohning Elchisi ﷺ shunday dedilar: "Eng kuchli ota-onaga itoatkorlik – odamning otasi sevgan kishilar bilan aloqani davom ettirishidir."
41. Ibn 'Umar reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "The strongest form of dutifulness is when a man maintains relations with the people his father loved."
21. Otangiz aloqada bo‘lgan kishilar bilan aloqani uzmang.
21. Do not cut off someone with whom your father maintained ties
42. Sa'd ibn 'Ubada az-Zurqi rivoyat qilishicha, uning otasi aytdi: "Men Madinadagi masjidda 'Amr ibn 'Uthman bilan o'tirgan edim. 'Abdulloh ibn Salom jiyaniga suyanib yurib o'tdi. 'Amr majlisdan turib ketdi va uning holidan xavotir olganini bildirdi." Keyin Ibn Salom ularning oldiga qaytib keldi va dedi: "Xohlaganingni qil, 'Amr ibn 'Uthman" (buni u ikki-uch marta aytdi). "Muhammad ﷺ ni haq bilan yuborgan Zotga qasamki, bu Allohning Kitobida bor" (buni u ikki marta aytdi): "{Otang bog'lagan kishilarni uzma, shunda bu sening nurингни o'chirib qo'yadi}."
42. Sa'd ibn 'Ubada az-Zurqi reported that his father said, "I was sitting in the mosque in Madina with 'Amr ibn 'Uthman when 'Abdullah ibn Salam walked by, leaning on his nephew. 'Amr left the assembly and showed his concern for him." Then Ibn Salam returned to them and said, "Do what you like, 'Amr ibn 'Uthman," (and he said it two or three times) By the One who sent Muhammad, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, with the Truth, it is in the Book of Allah Almighty (and he said it twice), 'Do not cut off those your father has joined so that that extinguishes your light.'".
22. Muhabbat meros bo'lib o'tadi
22. Love is inherited
43. Abu Bakr ibn Hazm rivoyat qiladi: Payg'ambarning ﷺ sahobalaridan biri shunday degan: "Men sizga Allohning Elchisi ﷺ "Muhabbat meros bo'lib qoladi", deganlarini aytishim kifoya."
43. Abu Bakr ibn Hazm reported that one of the Companions of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "It is enough that I tell you that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'Love is inherited.'" .
23. Odam otasini ismi bilan chaqirmasligi, uning oldida o‘tirmasligi va uning oldiga o‘tib yurmasligi kerak.
23. A man should not call his father by his name nor sit down before him nor walk in front of him
44. Abu Hurayra bir ikki kishini ko'rdi va ulardan biriga dedi: "Bu odam sizga kim bo'ladi?" U javob berdi: "U mening otam." U dedi: "Uni ismi bilan chaqirmang, uning oldida yurmang va uning oldida o'tirmang."
44. Abu Hurayra saw two men and said to one of them, "Who is this man in relation to you?" He is my father," he replied. He said, "Do not call him by his own name nor walk in front of him nor sit down before him."
24. Erkak kishi o'z otasini kunyasi bilan chaqirishi mumkinmi?
24. Can a man call his father by his kunya?
45. Shahr ibn Hawshab dedi: "Biz Ibn 'Umar bilan birga chiqdik, Salim unga dedi: 'Assalomu alaykum, Abu 'Abdu'r-Rahmon.'"
45. Shahr ibn Hawshab said, "We went out with Ibn 'Umar and Salim said to him, 'Peace, Abu 'Abdu'r-Rahman.'" .
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46. 'Abdullah ibn Dinar said reported that Ibn 'Umar said, "But Abu Hafs 'Umar decided..."