Ijtimoiy xulq-atvor
Social Behavior
179. Odamlar orasida yaxshi gaplarni yetkazish
179. Relating good things between people
385. Umm Kulsum, Uqba ibn Abu Muayt qizi, Allohning Elchisi ﷺ shunday deganlarini eshitganini rivoyat qiladi: "Odamlar o'rtasida yaxshi so'z aytib yoki yaxshi gapni yetkazib sulh o'rnatgan kishi yolg'onchi emas". U aytdi: "Men u zotning odamlar ishlatadigan yolg'onning faqat uch holatga ruxsat berganini eshitmaganman: odamlar o'rtasida sulh qilish, erkakning xotiniga gapirishi va xotinning erigа gapirishi".
385. Umm Kulthum, the daughter of 'Uqba ibn Abi Mu'ayt, reported that she heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, "Someone who makes peace between people by saying something good or relates something good is not a liar." She said, "I did not hear him make an allowance for any lie that people utilise except in three cases: making peace between people, a man speaking to his wife, and a woman speaking to her husband."
180. Yolg'onchi to'g'ri yo'l tutmaydi
180. A liar is not behaving correctly
386. Abdulloh rivoyat qiladi: Nabiy ﷺ shunday dedilar: "Rostgo'y bo'linglar. Rostgo'ylik ezgulikka olib boradi, ezgulik esa Jannatga olib boradi. Inson doimo rost gapirib yursa, nihoyat Allohning huzurida siddiq deb yoziladi. Yolg'ondan saqlaninglar. Yolg'on fisqqa olib boradi, fisq esa Do'zaxga olib boradi. Inson doimo yolg'on gapirib yursa, nihoyat Allohning huzurida yolg'onchi deb yoziladi." 387. Abdulloh aytdi: "Yolg'on gapirish to'g'ri emas, na jiddiy, na jiddiy bo'lmagan holatda, na hazil bilan. Sizlardan hech kim farzandiga biror narsa va'da qilib, keyin uni bermasligi kerak."
386. 'Abdullah reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "You must be truthful. Truthfulness leads to dutifulness and dutifulness leads to the Garden. A man continues to tell the truth until he is written as a siddiq with Allah. Beware of lying. Lying leads to deviance and deviance leads to the Fire. A man continues to lie until he is written as a liar with Allah." 387. 'Abdullah said, "Lying is not correct, neither in seriousness nor in seriousness nor in jest. None of you should promise his child something and then not give it to him."
181. Odamlar uni xafa qilganda sabr qiladigan kishi
181. Someone who is patient when people injure him
388. Ibn 'Umar rivoyat qildi: Payg'ambar ﷺ aytdilar: "Odamlar bilan aralashib, ulardan yetkazilgan ozorga sabr qiladigan mo'min odam, odamlar bilan aralashmaydigan va ularning ozoriga sabr qilmaydigan kishidan yaxshiroqdir."
388. Ibn 'Umar reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "The believer who mixes with people and endures their injury is better than the person who does not mix with people nor endure their injury."
182. Jarohatga sabr qilish
182. Enduring injury
389. Abu Muso rivoyat qilishicha, Payg'ambar ﷺ shunday degan: "Eshitgan azoblari uchun Allohdan ko'ra sabrliroq hech kim yo'q. Ular Unga o'g'il bor deb da'vo qilishadi, shunga qaramay U ularga shifo beradi va ularni rizqlantiradi."
389. Abu Musa reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "No one nothing is more patient in enduring an injury which he hears than Allah Almighty. They claim that He has a son, and yet He still cures them and provides for them." .
390. Abdulloh aytdi: «Payg'ambar ﷺ odamlar qasam ichadigan qasamlardan biri kabi qasam ichdilar. Ansorlardan bir kishi: "Allohga qasamki, bu Allohning Yuzi (rizosi) maqsad qilinmagan qasamdir", dedi». Men: "Payg'ambar ﷺ ga xabar beraman", dedim. Men u zot ﷺ oldiga, sahobalari bilan birga o'tirgan paytlarida bordim va u bilan yakka holda gaplashdim. Bu so'z u zot ﷺ ni qattiq ranjitdi, yuzlari rangi o'zgardi, shu darajaga yetdiki, men bu gapni aytmaganimni istadim. Shunda u zot ﷺ dedilar: «Muso bundan ham ko'proq jarohat olgan, u esa sabr qilgan».
390. 'Abdullah said, "The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, swore an oath like one of the oaths that people swear and a man of the Ansar said, 'By Allah, it is not an oath by which the Face of Allah Almighty is desired." I said, 'I will tell the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. I went to him while he was with his Companions and I spoke to him in confidence. It clearly affected him greatly, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and his face changed colour so that I wished that I had not told him. Then he said, 'Musa was injured with greater than that and he endured it.'"
183. Do‘stlik holatini yaxshilash
183. Improving a state of friendship
391. Abu'd-Dardo rivoyat qiladi: Payg'ambar ﷺ shunday dedilar: "Sizlarga namoz, ro'za va sadaqadan ham afzal bo'lgan darajani aytib bermaymanmi?" Ular: "Ha", deb javob berdilar. U zot davom etdilar: "Do'stlik holatini yaxshilash. Do'stlik holatida nizo chiqarish esa (dinni) qirib tashlovchi narsadir."
391. Abu'd-Darda' reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Shall I tell you a degree better than prayer, fasting and sadaqa?" "Yes," they replied. He went to say, Improving a state of friendship. Causing discord in a state of friendship is what shaves things away." .
392. Ayat haqida: "Allohdan qo'rqinglar va o'zaro munosabatlaringizni tuzatinglar" (8:1). Ibn Abbos aytdi: "Bu Allohning mo'minlarga bergan amri bo'lib, ular Allohdan qo'rqishlari va o'zaro munosabatlarini tuzatishlari lozimligini bildiradi."
392. Regarding the ayat, "Fear Allah and put things right between you," (8:1), Ibn 'Abbas said, "This is an injunction from Allah to the believers to fear Allah and to put things right between them."
Odamga yolg'on gapirib, u sizga ishonsa...
184. When you lie to a man and he believes you
393. Sufyon ibn Usayd al-Hadramiy rivoyat qiladi: u Payg'ambar ﷺ shunday deganlarini eshitgan: "Birodaringga, sen unga yolg'on gapirayotganing holda, u sanga ishonishi uchun biror narsa aytishing – bu katta xiyonatdir."
393. Sufyan ibn Usayd al-Hadrami reported that he heard the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, "It is great treachery to tell something to your brother so that he believes you when you are lying to him."
185. Akangizga va'da berib, keyin uni buzmang
185. Do not make a promise to your brother and then break it
394. Ibn Abbos rivoyat qiladi: Allohning Elchisi ﷺ shunday deganlar: "Birodaringiz bilan bahslashmang. Uni masxara qilmang. Unga va’da berib, keyin uni buzmang."
394. Ibn 'Abbas reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Do not dispute with your brother. Do not make dun of him. Do not make a promise to him and then break it."
186. Nasabga tajovuz qilish
186. Attacking Lineage
395. Abu Hurayra rivoyat qilishicha, Payg'ambar ﷺ shunday degan: "Mening ummatim tark etmaydigan ikki ishi bor: nohaq yig'lash (navha qilish) va odamning nasabiga tegish."
395. Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "There are two courses that my Community will not abandon: wailing and attacking a person's lineage."
187. Odamning o‘z xalqiga bo‘lgan muhabbati
187. A man's love for his people
396. Fusayla ismli ayol aytdi: u otasining shunday deganini eshitgan: "Men so'radim: «Allohning Elchisi, odamning o'z qavmiga zulm qilishda yordam berishi itoatsizlikdanmi?» U javob berdi: «Ha».ﷺ"
396. A woman called Fusayla said that she heard her father say, "I asked, 'Messenger of Allah, is it part of disobedience for a man to help his people in something which is unjust?' 'Yes,' he replied."