以愉快的态度与人相处
Dealing with people cheerfully
120. 穆斯林是其兄弟的镜子
120. A Muslim is the mirror of his brother
238. 艾布·胡莱赖传述:他说:"信士是他兄弟的镜子。当他在镜中看到缺点时,就应当加以纠正。"
238. Abu Hurayra said, "A believer is the mirror of his brother. When he sees a fault in it, he should correct it." .
239. 艾卜·胡莱赖familiar... let me be accurate. 239. 艾布·胡赖赖(愿真主喜悦他)传述:先知ﷺ说:"信士是信士的镜子。信士是另一位信士的兄弟。他保护他不受损失,并在他背后为他辩护。"
239. Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "A believer is the mirror of his brother. A believer is the brother of another believer. He protects him against loss and defends him behind his back." .
240. 穆斯塔维德(Al-Mustawrid)传述,先知ﷺ说:"若有人以毁损穆斯林名誉为代价而吃了一餐饭,真主将以等量的火狱之物供他吃。若有人以毁损穆斯林名誉为代价而穿上一件衣服,真主将以等量的火狱之物供他穿。若有人以毁损穆斯林名誉为代价而获得了炫耀与伪善的地位,真主将在复活日使他处于炫耀与伪善的地位。"
240. Al-Mustawrid reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "If anyone eats a meal at the expense of a Muslim's honour, Allah will feed him a like amount of Hellfire. If anyone clothes himself with a garment at the expense of a Muslim's honour, Allah will clothe him with a like amount of Hellfire. If anyone achieves a position of showing-off and hypocrisy at the expense of a Muslim's honour, Allah will put him in a position of showing-off and hypocrisy on the Day of Rising.
121. 不被允许的嬉戏与玩笑
121. Playing and joking which is not permitted
241. 阿卜杜拉·伊本·阿斯-萨伊卜传述,他的祖父说:"我听到真主的使者ﷺ说:'你们中的任何人都不应拿同伴的财物,无论是开玩笑还是认真的。若你们中有人拿了同伴的手杖,就应当归还给他。'"
241. 'Abdullah ibn as-Sa'ib reported that his grandfather said, "I heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, 'None of you should take the goods of his companion, either in jest or seriously. When one of you takes his companion's staff, he should return it to him.'"
122. 引导向善的人
122. The person who guides to good
242. 艾卜·麦斯欧德·安萨里说:"有一个人来见先知ﷺ,说:'我的骆驼已经累垮了,请给我一头坐骑。'先知ﷺ说:'我没有。但你可以去找某某人,或许他会给你一头。'那人便去找那个人,那人给了他一头坐骑。然后他回到先知ﷺ那里,把这件事告诉了他。先知ﷺ说:'引导人行善的人,与亲自行善的人得到同样的回报。'"
242. Abu Mas'ud al-Ansari said, "A man came to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and said, 'My camel has become exhausted, so give me a mount.' He replied, 'I do not have any. But go to so-and-so and perhaps he will give you one.' He went to that man and he gave him a mount. Then he went back to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and told him. He said, 'Whoever guides to good has the like of the reward of the person who actually does it.'"
123. 宽恕与饶恕他人
123. Excusing and pardoning people
243. 安那斯传述:一名犹太妇女向先知献上了下毒的羊肉。先知吃了其中的肉,那妇女被带了过来。有人问道:“我们不杀她吗?”先知ﷺ回答:“不。”安那斯说:“我一直能在真主的使者ﷺ的呼吸中察觉到那毒性。”
243. Anas reported that a Jewish woman brought the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, poisoned sheep. He ate from it and she was brought. It was asked, "Should we not kill her?" "No," he replied. He said, "I continued to recognise the poison in the sighs of the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace." .
244. 'Abdullah ibn az-Zubayr 在讲坛上说:"你要宽恕众人,命人行善,并远离无知的人。"(7:199) 他又说:"以真主发誓,我们只被这节经文命令去接纳人们的品性。以真主发誓,只要我与他们在一起,我就会接纳人们的品性。"
244. 'Abdullah ibn az-Zubayr said on the minbar, "Make allowances for people and command what is right and turn away from the ignorant." (7:199) He said, "By Allah, we are only commanded by this ayat to accept people's character. By Allah, I will accept people's character as long as I am with them." .
245. 伊本·阿拔斯传述:安拉的使者ﷺ说:“你们要教导,要使事情变得容易,不要使事情变得困难。你们中有人发怒时,就应当保持沉默。”
245. Ibn 'Abbas reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Teach and make things easy and not difficult. When one of you is angry, he should be silent."
124. 对人和颜悦色
124. Cheerfulness towards people
246. 阿塔·本·雅萨尔说:"我遇见了阿卜杜拉·本·阿慕尔·本·阿绥,我问他:'请给我讲讲安拉的使者ﷺ在《讨拉特》中的描述。'他说:'是的,以安拉发誓,他在《讨拉特》中的描述,有一部分与《古兰经》中的描述相同:"先知啊!我确已派你做见证者、报喜者和警告者,并做不识字者的保护者。你是我的仆人,也是我的使者。我称你为可信赖的人,他不粗暴,不严厉,也不在市场上大声喧哗。安拉至大,在他使那弯曲的民族变得正直之前,不会取他的性命,使他们说:'除安拉外,别无应受崇拜的主。'借着他,他们将开启盲目的眼睛、聋哑的耳朵和蒙蔽的心灵。"'"
246. 'Ata' ibn Yasar said, "I met 'Abdullah ibn 'Amr ibn al-'As and I said, 'Tell me about the description of the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, in the Torah.' 'Yes,' he said, 'By Allah, he is described in the Torah partly as he is described in the Qur'an: "O Prophet, We have sent you as a witness, a bearer of good news and a warner and a protection to the unlettered. You are My slave and Messenger. I have called you the trusty one who is neither coarse nor harsh nor loud in the markets. Allah Almighty will not take him until He has made the crooked community straight by him so that they say, "There is no god but Allah," and by it they will open blind eyes, deaf ears and covered hearts.'" .
247. 阿卜杜拉·伊本·阿塔('Abdullah ibn 'Ata')说:"《古兰经》中的这节经文:'先知啊!我确已派你作见证者、报喜者和警告者'(33:45),在《讨拉特》中也以相似的形式出现。"
247. 'Abdullah ibn 'Ata' said, "This ayat which is in the Qur'an, 'O Prophet, We have sent you as a witness, a bringer of good news and a warner' (33:45) is found in the Torah in a similar form." .
248. 穆阿维叶说:"我从先知ﷺ那里听到一些话,真主借此帮助了我。"朱拜尔·本·努菲尔说:"我听他说,他听到安拉的使者ﷺ说:'如果你们公开表露对他人的猜疑,你们就会败坏他们。'因此,我不公开表露对人的猜疑,以免败坏他们。"
248. Mu'awiya said, "I heard some words from the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, by which Allah helped me." Jubayr ibn Nufayr said, "I heard him say that he heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, "If you openly show your suspicions of people, you will corrupt them.' Therefore I do not show my suspicions of people openly so that I will not corrupt them." .
249. 艾布·胡莱赖说:"我的这两只耳朵听到过,我的这两只眼睛看到过安拉的使者ﷺ双手托着哈桑或侯赛因的手掌。孩子的双脚踩在安拉的使者ﷺ的双脚上。安拉的使者ﷺ说:'爬上来。'孩子向上爬,直到双脚碰到安拉的使者ﷺ的胸膛。然后安拉的使者ﷺ说:'张开你的嘴。'于是他亲吻了孩子,并说:'主啊,请爱他,因为我爱他!'"
249. Abu Hurayra said, "These two wars of mine have heard and these two eyes of mine have seen the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, take the palms of al-Hasan or al Husayn in both his hands. His feet were on the feet of the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'Climb up.' The boy climbed until his feet reached the chest of the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and hen the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'Open your mouth.' Then he kissed him and said, 'O Allah, love him for I love him!'"
125. 微笑
125. Smiling
250. 贾利尔说:"自从我皈依伊斯兰以来,安拉的使者ﷺ从未在见到我时不对我微笑。"安拉的使者ﷺ说:"一个来自都·叶门最优秀者的人将从这扇门进来,他的脸曾被天使触摸过。"随后,贾利尔走了进来。
250. Jarir said, "Since the time I became Muslim, the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, never saw me without smiling at me." The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "A man from the best of Dhu Yaman will enter by this door whose face has been touched by an angel." Then Jarir came in.
251. 阿伊莎说:"我从未见过先知ﷺ大笑到能看见他的悬雍垂。他只是微笑。"她又说:"每当他看见云或风时,脸上便会显出忧色。"她说:"安拉的使者啊,人们看见云时都很欢喜,希望云中有雨;可是您看见云时,我却看到您脸上有忧色。"他回答说:"阿伊莎啊,有什么能保证其中没有痛苦的惩罚呢?民众曾被风所惩罚。有些人看到了那惩罚,却说:'这是一朵带来雨水的云向我们飘来。'"
251. 'A'isha said, "I never saw the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, laugh until I could see his uvula. He used to smile, may Allah bless him and grant him peace." She said, "When he saw a cloud or wind, distress could be seen in his face." She said, "Messenger of Allah, when people see a cloud, they rejoice, hoping that there will be rain in it. Yet when you see it, I see distress in your face." He replied, "'A'isha, what will assure me that there is no painful punishment in it? People have been punished by wind. Some people saw the punishment and stated, 'This is a rain cloud coming to us.'"
126. 笑
126. Laughter
252. 艾布·胡莱赖传述:先知ﷺ说:"少笑些吧,多笑会使心死。"
252. Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Laugh little. Much laughter kills the heart." .
253. 艾布·胡莱赖传述:先知ﷺ说:"不要多笑,多笑会使心死。"
253. Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Do not laugh a lot. Much laughter kills the heart." .
254. 艾布·胡莱赖(愿安拉喜悦他)说:"先知ﷺ走向一群正在欢笑交谈的圣门弟子。他说:'以掌握我灵魂的主起誓,如果你们知道我所知道的,你们就会少笑多哭。'然后他离开了,人们都哭了起来。随后,至高无上的安拉启示他:'穆罕默德ﷺ!你为何使我的仆人绝望?'先知ﷺ说:'你们要报喜,要引导众人,要彼此亲近。'"
254. Abu Hurayra said, "The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, went out to a group of his Companions who were laughing and talking. He said, 'By the One in whose hand my soul is, if you knew what I knew, you would laugh little and weep much.' Then he left and the people were weeping. Then Allah Almighty revealed to him, 'Muhammad! Why did you make My slaves despair?' The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Give good news, guide people and draw near to one another.'"
127. 当他面对某人时,他会全然地面对他;当他转身离开时,他也会全然地转身离开。
127. When he faced someone, he faced him completely, and when he turned away, he turned away completely
255. 艾布·胡莱赖(Abu Hurayra)说:"当他面向某人时,他会全然地面向那人。当他转身离开时,他会完全地转身离开。我从未见过像他那样的人,也永远不会再见到像他那样的人。"
255. Abu Hurayra said, "When he faced someone, he faced him completely. When he turned away, he turned away completely. I have never seen anyone like him and I will never see anyone like them."