老年人
The Elderly
163. 长者的尊贵
163. The excellence of the older person
353. 艾卜·胡莱赖(Abu Hurayra)传述:先知ﷺ说:"不怜悯我们的孩子、也不尊重我们长者权利的人,不是我们中的一员。"
353. Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Anyone who does not show mercy to our children nor acknowledge the right of our old people is not one of us." .
354. 阿卜杜拉·本·阿慕尔·本·阿绥(‘Abdullah ibn ‘Amr ibn al-‘As)传述:他听闻先知ﷺ说:"凡不怜悯我们的幼小、也不尊重我们的长者,就不是我们中的一员。"
354. 'Abdullah ibn 'Amr ibn al-'As reported that it reached him that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Anyone who does not show mercy to our children nor acknowledge the right of our old people is not one of us." .
355. 同一则圣训,传述自阿慕尔·本·舒艾卜。
355. The same from 'Amr ibn Shu'ayb.
356. 同样的记载,传自艾布·乌玛曼。
356. The same from Abu Umama.
164. 尊重长者
164. Respect for the Old
357. 艾什尔里说:"尊敬真主的一部分,就是尊敬年长的穆斯林,尊敬熟记《古兰经》的人,只要他不过分地对待它,也不疏远它;还要尊敬公正的统治者。"
357. Al-Ash'ari said, "Part of respect for Allah is to show respect to an old Muslim and to someone who knows the Qur'an, as long as he does not go to excess in it nor turn away from it, and to respect a just ruler." .
358. 与第354条相同。
358. Same as 354.
165. 年长者应当首先开口发问。
165. The old person should be the first to speak and ask
359. 拉菲·本·胡戴治和沙哈勒·本·艾布·哈西玛传述:阿卜杜拉·本·沙哈勒和穆哈伊耶萨·本·麦斯欧德来到海拜尔,二人在棕榈树林中分开。阿卜杜拉·本·沙哈勒被杀害。阿卜杜勒·拉哈曼·本·沙哈勒、胡薇耶萨和穆哈伊耶萨(麦斯欧德之子)来见先知ﷺ,向他谈及他们那位(被杀的)同伴。在场者中年纪最小的阿卜杜勒·拉哈曼开口说话,先知ﷺ说:"让年长者先说。"(或说:"请年长者发言。")他们便谈及他们的同伴,先知ﷺ问道:"你们中间能否有五十人起誓,你们有权获得被杀者的血金?"他们回答:"安拉的使者啊,这件事我们并未亲眼所见。"他说:"那么,犹太人能否以他们中五十人的誓言来洗清自己?"他们抗议道:"安拉的使者啊,他们是不信道者!"于是安拉的使者ﷺ亲自支付了血金。
359. Rafi' ibn Khudayj and Sahl ibn Abi Hathama reported that 'Abdullah ibn Sahl and Muhayyisa ibn Mas'ud came to Khaybar and parted when they were among the palm trees. 'Abdullah ibn Sahl was murdered. 'Abdu'r-Rahman ibn Sahl and Huwayyisa and Muhayyisa, the sons of Mas'ud came to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and spoke to him about their (murdered) companion. 'Abdu'r-Rahman, the youngest of those present, began to speak, but the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Let the oldest speak first." (or "Exalt the eldest.") They spoke about their companion and the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, asked, "Will fifty of you take an oath that you are entitled to the blood-money of your murdered man?" They replied, "Messenger of Allah, this is something which we did not see." He said, "Then will the Jews exonerate themselves by the oaths of fifty of them?" They protested, "Messenger of Allah, they are unbelievers!" So the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, himself paid his blood money."
166. 当年长者不发言时,年幼者可以发言吗?
166. When an older person does not speak, can the youngest speak then?
360. 伊本·欧麦尔说:安拉的使者ﷺ说:"请告诉我,哪一种树像穆斯林?它按照主的许可随时结果,它的叶子也不落。"我心里想到那是棕榈树,但我不想开口,因为艾布·伯克尔和欧麦尔都在场。他们都没有说话,先知ﷺ便说:"那是棕榈树。"我和父亲离开时,我说:"父亲,我想到那是棕榈树。"他问:"是什么阻止你说出来?如果你说了,我会比拥有某某东西更喜欢那个。"我说:"阻止我的是,我没有看见您和艾布·伯克尔说话,所以我不喜欢抢先开口。"
360. Ibn 'Umar said, "The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'Tell me which tree is like the Muslim? It gives fruits at all times by the permission of its Lord and its leaves do not fall.' It occurred to me that it was the palm tree, but I did not want to speak as Abu Bakr and 'Umar, may Allah be pleased with them, were both present. When they did not speak, the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'It is the palm tree.' When I left with my father, I said, 'Father, I thought that it was the palm,.' He asked, 'What kept you from saying that? If you had said so, I would have preferred that to such-and-such.' I said, 'What kept me from doing so was that I did not see you or Abu Bakr speak, so I did not like to speak out.'"
167. 让旧的领导者成为领袖
167. Making the old leaders
361. 哈基姆·伊本·盖斯·伊本·阿辛报告说:他的父亲临终时,嘱咐他的儿子们说:"你们要敬畏安拉,让你们中年长的人做你们的领导。当人们让他们中年长的人做领导时,他们就会遵从自己的父辈;当他们让年少的人做领导时,这会使他们在同辈人眼中降低地位。你们必须拥有财富,并善加使用。财富能激励慷慨之人,也能使你们不必仰仗批评者。要提防向人乞求,那是人最后的谋生手段。我死后,不要哀号。安拉的使者ﷺ去世时也没有人哀号。我死后,要把我葬在巴克尔·伊本·瓦伊勒不知道我埋在何处的地方。我在蒙昧时期曾在道路上拦劫过行人。"
361. Hakim ibn Qays ibn 'Asim reported that then his father was dying. he enjoined his sons: "Fear Allah and make the oldest among you your leaders. When people make the oldest among them their leaders, they follow their fathers. When they make the youngest among them their leaders, that lowers them in the sight of their peers. You must have wealth and use it well. It is an impetus for the generous and it will make you independent of critics. Beware of asking people. It is a man's last source of earning. When I die, do not wail. There was no wailing for the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. When I die, bury me in land where the Bakr ibn Wa'il will not know where I am died. I used to waylay on the roads in the time of the Jahiliyya."