父母
Parents
1. 孝敬父母:安拉至高的话语:"我已嘱咐人要孝敬他的父母。"(29:8)
1. Honouring Parents: The Words of Allah Almighty: "We have instructed man to honour his parents." (29:8)
1. 艾布·阿慕尔·沙巴尼说:"这所房子的主人(他指着阿卜杜拉·本·麦斯欧德的房子)说:'我曾问先知ﷺ,真主最喜爱哪种善功。他回答:"按时礼拜。"我问:"然后呢?"他说:"然后孝敬父母。"我又问:"然后呢?"他回答:"然后在真主之道上圣战。"'"他接着说:"他把这些告诉了我。如果我再请他多讲,他也会多讲给我听。"
1. Abu 'Amr ash-Shaybani said, "The owner of this house (and he pointed at the house of 'Abdullah ibn Mas'ud) said, "I asked the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, which action Allah loves best. He replied, 'Prayer at its proper time.' 'Then what?' I asked. He said, 'Then kindness to parents." I asked, 'Then what?' He replied, 'Then jihad in the Way of Allah.'" He added, "He told me about these things. If I had asked him to tell me more, he would have told me more." .
2. 'Abdullah ibn 'Umar said, "The pleasure of the Lord lies in the pleasure of the parent. The anger of the Lord lies in the anger of the parent." 2. 阿卜杜拉·本·欧麦尔说:“主的喜悦在于父母的喜悦;主的愤怒在于父母的愤怒。”
2. 'Abdullah ibn 'Umar said, "The pleasure of the Lord lies in the pleasure of the parent. The anger of the Lord lies in the anger of the parent."
2. 孝敬母亲
2. Dutifulness to One's Mother
3. 巴赫兹·本·哈基姆的祖父说:"我问:'安拉的使者啊,我应当孝敬谁?'他说:'你的母亲。'我又问:'然后呢?'他说:'你的母亲。'我又问:'然后呢?'他说:'你的母亲。'我又问:'然后呢?'他说:'你的母亲。'我又问:'然后呢?'他说:'你的父亲,然后是离你最近的亲属,再其次是次近的亲属。'"ﷺ
3. Bahz ibn Hakim's grandfather said, "I asked, 'Messenger of Allah, to whom should I be dutiful?' 'Your mother,' he replied. I asked, 'Then whom?' 'Your mother,' he replied. I asked, 'Then whom?' 'Your mother,' he replied. I asked, 'Then whom?' 'Your mother,' he replied. I asked, 'Then to whom should I be dutiful?' 'Your father,' he replied, 'and then the next closest relative and then the next.'" .
4. 阿塔·本·雅萨尔说:有一个人来到伊本·阿拔斯面前,说:"我向一位女子求婚,她拒绝了我。另一个男人向她求婚,她答应了。我嫉妒起来,就杀了她。我还有悔改的余地吗?"他问:"你母亲还在世吗?"那人回答:"不在了。"他说:"你要向全能的安拉悔罪,并尽力亲近祂。"
4. 'Ata' ibn Yasar said that a man came to Ibn 'Abbas and said, "I asked a woman to marry me and she refused to marry me. Another man asked her and she agreed to marry him. I became jealous and killed her. Is there any way for me to repent?" He asked, "Is your mother alive?" "No," he replied. He said, "repent to Allah Almighty and try to draw near Him as much as you can." .
"'Ata'说:"我去见伊本·阿拔斯,问他:'你为什么要问那个人他的母亲是否还在?'他回答说:'我不知道还有什么行为比孝敬母亲更能使人亲近安拉。'"
'Ata' said, "I went to Ibn 'Abbas and asked him, 'Why did you ask him whether his mother was alive?' He replied, 'I do not know of any action better for bringing a person near to Allah than dutifulness to his mother.'"
3. 孝敬父亲
3. Dutifulness to One's Father
5. 艾卜·胡莱赖说:"有人问先知ﷺ:'安拉的使者啊,我应当孝顺谁?'他说:'你的母亲。'又问:'然后是谁?'他说:'你的母亲。'又问:'然后是谁?'他说:'你的母亲。'又问:'然后是谁?'他说:'你的母亲。'又问:'然后是谁?'他说:'你的父亲。'"
5. Abu Hurayra said, "The Prophet was asked, 'Messenger of Allah, to whom should I be dutiful?' 'Your mother,' he replied. He was asked, 'Then whom?' 'Your mother,' he replied. He was asked, 'Then whom?' 'Your mother,' he replied. He was asked, 'Then whom?' 'Your mother,' he replied. He was asked, 'Then whom?' He replied, 'Your father.'" .
6. 艾布·胡莱赖传述:有一个人来到安拉的使者ﷺ那里,问道:"您命令我做什么?"他说:"要孝顺你的母亲。"那人又问了同样的问题,他仍说:"要孝顺你的母亲。"那人再次发问,他又说:"要孝顺你的母亲。"那人第四次发问,回答仍是:"要孝顺你的母亲。"然后那人第五次发问,使者ﷺ说:"要孝顺你的父亲。"
6. Abu Hurayra reported: "A man came to the Prophet of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and asked, 'What do you command me to do?' He replied, 'Be dutiful towards your mother.' Then he asked him the same question again and he replied, 'Be dutiful towards your mother.' He repeated it yet again and the Prophet replied, 'Be dutiful towards your mother.' He repeated the question a fourth time and the reply was, 'Be dutiful towards your mother.' Then he put the question a fifth time and the Prophet said, 'Be dutiful towards your father.'" .
4. 孝顺父母,即使他们不公正
4. Dutifulness to Parents, even if they are unjust
7. 伊本·阿拔斯说:“如果任何穆斯林在对待父母方面顺从真主,真主就会为他开启乐园的两扇门。如果只有一位父母在世,那么就会开启一扇门。如果其中一位对他发怒,那么真主就不会喜悦他,直到那位父母喜悦他为止。”有人问他:“即使父母冤枉他,也是如此吗?”他回答说:“即使父母冤枉他,也是如此。”
7. Ibn 'Abbas said, "If any Muslim obeys Allah regarding his parents, Allah will open two gates of the Garden for him. If there is only one parent, then one gate will be opened. If one of them is angry, then Allah will not be pleased with him until that parent is pleased with him." He was asked, "Even if they wrong him?" "Even if they wrong him" he replied.
5. 对父母说温和的话
5. Gentle words to Parents
8. 泰萨莱·本·迈雅斯说:"我曾与纳贾德派(哈瓦利及派)在一起,当时我做了一些我以为是大罪的事。我把这件事告诉了伊本·欧麦尔。他问:'那是什么?'我回答:'是某某事。'他说:'这些不是大罪。大罪共有九种,它们是:以物配主真主、杀人、在军队前进时临阵脱逃、诬陷贞洁的女子、高利贷、侵吞孤儿的财产、在清真寺中行异端、嘲弄,以及因不孝而使父母哭泣。'伊本·欧麦尔接着对我说:'你想让自己远离火狱吗?你想进入火狱吗?'我说:'以真主起誓,我愿意!'他问:'你的父母还健在吗?'我回答:'我的母亲还在。'他说:'以真主起誓,如果你对她说话温和,并奉养她,只要你避免大罪,你就会进入乐园。'"
8. Taysala ibn Mayyas said, "I was with the Najadites [Kharijites] when I committed wrong actions which I supposed were major wrong actions. I mentioned that to Ibn 'Umar. He inquired, 'What are they?" I replied, 'Such-and-such.' He stated, 'These are not major wrong actions. There are nine major wrong actions. They are: associating others with Allah, killing someone, desertion from the army when it is advancing, slandering a chaste woman, usury, consuming an orphan's property, heresy in the mosque, scoffing, and causing one's parents to weep through disobedience.' Ibn 'Umar then said to me, 'Do you wish to separate yourself from the Fire? Do you want to enter the Fire?' 'By Allah, yes!' I replied. He asked, 'Are your parents still alive?' I replied, 'My mother is.' He said, 'By Allah, if you speak gently to her and feed her, then you will enter the Garden as long as you avoid the major wrong actions.'" .
9. 希沙姆·本·欧尔沃传述,他父亲说,关于这段经文:“你们要出于慈悲,谦卑地保护他们。”(17:24)
9. Hisham ibn 'Urwa related this ayat from his father, "Take them under your wing, out of mercy, with due humility." (17:24)
6. 报答父母
6. Repaying Parents
10. 艾布·胡莱赖传述:先知ﷺ说:"除非儿子发现父亲是奴隶,然后将他买下并予以释放,否则儿子无法报答父亲的恩情。"
10. Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "A child cannot repay his father unless he finds him as a slave and the buys him and sets him free." .
11. 赛义德·伊本·艾比·布尔达说:“我听我父亲说,伊本·欧麦尔看见一个也门人在天房周围绕行,背着他的母亲,并且说:‘我是您谦卑的驼子。如果她的坐骑受惊,我并不惊慌。’然后他问道:‘伊本·欧麦尔,您认为我已经报答了她吗?’他回答说:‘没有,即使是她的一声呻吟也没有报答。’”“伊本·欧麦尔完成了绕行,来到了立足处,并礼了两拜。他说:‘伊本·艾比·穆萨,每两拜都能弥补它们之间发生的一切。’”
11. Sa'id ibn Abi Burda said, "I heard my father sat that Ibn 'Umar saw a Yamani man going around the House while carrying his mother on his back, saying, 'I am your humble camel. If her mount is frightened, I am not frightened.' Then he asked, 'Ibn 'Umar? Do you think that I have repaid her?' He replied, 'No, not even for a single groan.' "Ibn 'Umar did tawaf and came to the Maqam and prayed two rak'ats. He said, 'Ibn Abi Musa, every two rak'ats make up for everything that has happened between them.'" .
12. marwan曾委托阿布·胡莱赖代理事务,而他居住在祖勒胡莱法。他的母亲住在一座房子里,他住在另一座房子里。每当他想出门时,他都会在她的门前停下,说:“愿平安降临您,母亲,愿安拉的慈悯与祝福降临您。”她回答:“愿平安降临你,我的儿子,愿安拉的慈悯与祝福降临你。”然后他说:“愿安拉慈悯您,因为您在我幼时养育了我。”她回答:“愿安拉慈悯你,因为你在我年老时孝顺了我。”每当他想进屋时,他也会做类似的事。 13. 阿卜杜拉·本·阿慕尔说:“一个人来到先知ﷺ面前,并向他立誓要迁徙(希贾勒)。他离开了他那正在哭泣的父母。先知ﷺ说:‘你回去,让他们笑,就像你让他们哭一样。’”
12. Marwan used to make Abu Hurayra his agent and he used to be located in Dhu'l-Hulayfa. His mother was in one house and he was in another. When he wanted to go out, he would stop at her door and say, "Peace be upon you, mother, and the mercy of Allah and His blessing." She would reply, "And peace be upon you, my son, and the mercy of Allah and His blessing." Then he said, "May Allah have mercy on you as you raised me when I was a child." She answered, "May Allah have mercy on you as you were dutiful to me when I was old." Whenever he wanted to go inside, he would do something similar. 13. 'Abdullah ibn 'Amr said, "A man came to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and made a pledge to him that he would do hijra. He left his parents who were in tears. The Prophet said, 'Go back to them and make them laugh as you made them weep.'" .
14. 阿布·哈齐姆转述,乌姆·哈尼·宾特·阿比·太里布的被释奴阿布·穆拉告诉他,他曾与阿布·胡赖赖一同骑马前往后者位于阿克贤的田地。他进入田地后,用最大的声音喊道:"母亲,愿你平安,愿安拉的慈悯与祝福降临于你!"她回答说:"也愿你平安,愿安拉的慈悯与祝福降临于你!"他说:"愿安拉怜悯你,因为你在我幼时把我抚养长大。"她回答说:"我的儿子,愿安拉以善报答你,并悦纳你,因为你在我年老时孝顺我。"
14. Abu Hazim reported that Abu Murra, the mawla of Umm Hani' bint Abi Talib had told him that he rode with Abu Hurayra to his land in al-'Aqiq. When he entered his land, he shouted out in his loudest voice, "Peace be upon you, mother, and the mercy of Allah and His blessing!" She replied, "And peace be upon you and the mercy of Allah and His blessing." He said, "May Allah have mercy on you as you raised me when I was a child." She replied, "My son, may Allah repay you well and be pleased with you as you were dutiful towards me when I was old.".
7. 不孝顺父母
7. Disobedience to Parents
15. 艾卜·伯克拉传述:安拉的使者ﷺ说:"我告诉你们,最严重的大罪是哪些?"他们说:"是的,安拉的使者。"他说:"以物配主,违抗父母。"他原本是靠着的,这时坐直了身子,说:"还有伪证。"艾卜·伯克尔说:"他不停地重复这句话,以至于我心想:他难道不会停下来吗?"
15. Abu Bakra reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Shall I tell you which is the worst of the major wrong actions?" "Yes, Messenger of Allah," they replied. He said, "Associating something else with Allah and disobeying parents." he had been reclining, but then he said up and said, "And false witness." Abu Bakr said, "He continued to repeat it until I said, 'Is he never going to stop?'" .
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16. Warrad, the scribe of al-Mughira ibn Shu'ba, said, "Mu'awiya wrote to al-Mughira, saying, 'Write down for me what you heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say.'" Warrad said, "He dictated to me and I wrote out, 'I heard him forbid asking too many questions, wasting money and chit-chat.'"
8. "真主诅咒咒骂自己父母的人。"
8. "Allah curses whoever curses his parents"
17. 阿布·图法利(Abu't-Tufayl)说:有人问阿里:"先知ﷺ是否曾单独赐予你某种未赐予他人的特殊之物?"他回答说:"真主的使者ﷺ没有单独赐予我任何未赐予众人的东西,只除了我剑鞘里所藏的这个。"他取出一张纸,纸上写着:"真主诅咒宰杀牲畜以奉献给真主以外之物的人。真主诅咒移动界石以侵占他人土地的人。真主诅咒咒骂父母的人。真主诅咒庇护异端创新者的人。"
17. Abu't-Tufayl said, "'Ali was asked, 'Did the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, give you something special which he did not give to anyone else?' He replied, 'The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, did not give me anything special which he did not give to everyone else except for what I have in my sword scabbard.' He brought out a piece of paper. Written on that paper was: 'Allah curses anyone who sacrifices an animal to something other than Allah. Allah curses anyone who steals a milestone. Allah curses anyone who curses his parents. Allah curses anyone who gives shelter to an innovator.'".
9. 孝敬父母,但以不违背安拉为限
9. Being Dutiful to Parents as long as that does not entail disobedience to Allah
18. 阿布·达尔达•安萨里说:"安拉的使者ﷺ嘱咐我九件事:'不要以任何事物与安拉并列,即使你被割成碎片或被焚烧。不要故意放弃拜功。凡故意放弃拜功的人,将失去安拉的庇护。不要饮酒,因为酒是一切罪恶的钥匙。孝敬你的父母。如果他们命令你放弃你的世俗财产,那就为了他们而放弃。不要与当权者争execute,即使你认为自己是对的。当军队前进时,不要逃离军队,即使你的同伴都逃跑了而你因此被杀。在你的力所能及的范围内供养你的妻子。不要用棍子打你的妻子。让你的家人敬畏安拉,全能而至高的主。'"
18. Abu'd-Darda' said, "The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, recommended nine things to me: 'Do not associate anything with Allah, even if you are cut to pieces or burned. Do not abandon a prescribed prayer deliberately. Anyone who abandons it will forfeit Allah's protection. Do not drink wine - it is the key to every evil. Obey your parents. If they command you to abandon your worldly possessions, then leave them for them. Do not contend with those in power, even if you think that you are in the right. Do not run away from the army when it is advances, even if you are killed while your companions run away. Spend on your wife out of your means. Do not raise a stick against your wife. Cause your family to fear Allah, the Almighty and Exalted.'" .
19. 'Abdullah ibn 'Amr said, "A man came to the Prophet ﷺ and said, 'I have come to make you a pledge that will do hijra although I have left my parents in tears.' The Prophet ﷺ said, 'Go back to them and make them laugh as you made them cry.'"
19. 'Abdullah ibn 'Amr said, "A man came to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and said, 'I have come to make you a pledge that will do hijra although I have left my parents in tears." The Prophet said, 'Go back to them and make them laugh as you made them cry.'" .
20. 阿卜杜拉·本·阿慕尔说:"有一个人来到先知ﷺ那里,想要参加圣战。先知ﷺ问:'你的父母还健在吗?'他回答:'是的。'先知ﷺ说:'那么你就为他们尽力吧。'"
20. 'Abdullah ibn 'Amr said, "A man came to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, wanting to do jihad. The Prophet asked, 'Are your parents alive?' 'Yes,' he replied. he said, 'Then exert yourself on their behalf.'"
10. 辜负父母的人不能进入乐园
10. The One who Fails his Parents will not enter the Garden
21. 艾卜·胡莱赖传述:先知ﷺ说:"蒙羞!蒙羞!蒙羞!"有人问:"安拉的使者啊,是谁?"他说:"父母或其中一人年老时,他却不尽孝道,此人将进入火狱。"
21. Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Disgrace! Disgrace! Disgrace!" They said, "Messenger of Allah, who?" He said, "The one who fails his parents or one of them when they are old will enter the Fire."
11. 真主会延长孝顺父母者的寿命
11. Allah prolongs the life of someone who is dutiful towards his parents
22. 穆阿兹说:"孝顺父母的人是有福的。安拉至高无上,必使他长寿。"
22. Mu'adh said, "Bliss belongs to someone who is dutiful towards his parents. Allah Almighty will prolong his life."
12. 如果父亲是多神教徒,不应为他求饶恕。
12. One does not ask forgiveness for his father if he is an idolater
23. 伊本·阿拔斯提到至高者的话语:"如果他们中的一人或二人在你身边达到老年,你不要对他们说'呸!',也不要对他们发怒,而要对他们说温和而敬重的话。你要因怜悯而对他们谦卑地低下翅膀,并说:'我的主啊,求你怜悯他们,正如他们在我幼小时养育我那样。'"(17:23-24)他说:"这一经文被《忏悔章》(9:113)所废止:'先知和信士们,在已经明白那些人是火狱之人之后,不应当为以物配主者求饶,即使他们是至亲。'"
23. Ibn 'Abbas mentioned the words of the Almighty, "When one or both of them reach old age with you, do not say 'Ugh!' to them out of irritation and do not be harsh with them but speak to them with gentleness and generosity. Take them under your wing, out of mercy, with due humility and say: 'Lord, show mercy to them as they did in looking after me when I was small." (17:23-24) He said, "This was abrogated in Surat at-Tawba: 'It is not right for the Prophet and those who have iman to ask forgiveness for the mushrikun even if they are close relatives after it has become clear to them that they are the Companions of the Blazing Fire.' (9:113)"
13. 对身为多神教徒的父母尽孝
13. Dutifulness towards a parent who is an idolater
24. 萨阿德·本·艾卜·瓦卡斯说:"有四节经文是为我降示的。第一次是我的母亲发誓说,除非我离开穆罕默德ﷺ,否则她既不吃也不喝。安拉至高无上降示:'如果他们强迫你以你所不知道的事物与我并列,你就不要服从他们。你在今世要与他们和善相处。'(31:15)第二次是我看中了一把剑,便说:'安拉的使者啊,把这把剑给我!'于是降示了这节经文:'他们将问你关于战利品的事。'(8:1)第三次是我生病时,安拉的使者ﷺ来看望我,我说:'安拉的使者啊,我想分配我的财产,我可以捐出一半吗?'他说:'不行。'我又问:'三分之一呢?'他沉默了。此后便允许人们遗嘱捐出三分之一。第四次是我与一些安士说饮酒,其中一人用骆驼的颌骨打了我的鼻子。我去见先知ﷺ,安拉至高无上便降示了禁酒的律令。"
24. Sa'id ibn Abi Waqqas said: "Four ayats were revealed about me. The first was when my mother swore she would neither eat nor drink until I left Muhammad, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. Allah Almighty revealed, 'But if they try to make you associate something with Me about which you have no knowledge, do not obey them. Keep company with them correctly and courteously in this worldÉ' (31:15) The second was when I took a sword that I admired and said, 'Messenger of Allah, give me this!' Then the ayat was revealed: 'They will ask you about booty.' (8:1) The third was when I was ill and the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, came to me and I said, 'Messenger of Allah, I want to divide my property. Can I will away a half?' He said, 'No.' 'A third?' I asked. He was silent and so after that it was allowed to will away a third. The fourth was when I had been drinking wine with some of the Ansar. One of them hit my nose with the jawbone of a camel. I went to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and Allah Almighty revealed the prohibition of wine." .
25. 阿斯玛·本特·艾比·伯克尔说:"在先知ﷺ在世时,我的母亲前来见我,希望得到我的善待。我问先知ﷺ:'我应当善待她吗?'他回答说:'是的。'"伊本·欧耶奈说:"于是安拉降示了关于她的经文:'{安拉不禁止你们善待那些在宗教上没有与你们作战的人。}'(60:8)"。
25. Asma' bint Abi Bakr said, "In the time of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, my mother came to me hoping (I would be dutiful). I asked the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, 'Do I have to treat her well?' 'Yes,' he replied." Ibn 'Uyayna said, "Then Allah revealed about her, 'Allah does not forbid you from being good to those who have not fought you in the deen.' (60:8)" .
26. 伊本·欧麦尔传述说:欧麦尔看见有一件丝绸长袍在出售,他说:"安拉的使者啊,您是否愿意买下这件长袍,在主麻日和代表团来访时穿戴?"使者ﷺ说:"只有没有来世份额的人才会穿这种衣服。"之后,安拉的使者ﷺ得到了一些同样材质的长袍,他把其中一件送给了欧麦尔。欧麦尔惊讶地说:"您已经那样说过了,我怎么能穿它呢?"先知ﷺ回答:"我把它给你,不是为了让你穿。你可以卖掉它,或者把它送给别人。"欧麦尔便把它送给了他在麦加的一位尚未皈依伊斯兰教的兄弟。
26. Ibn 'Umar said, "'Umar saw a silk robe for sale. He said, 'Messenger of Allah, would you buy this robe and wear it on Jumu'a and when delegations visit you?' He replied, 'Only a person who has no portion in the Next World could wear this.' Then the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, was given some robes made of the same material. He sent one of the robes to 'Umar. 'Umar exclaimed, 'How can I wear it when you said what you said about it?' The Prophet replied, 'I did not give it to you so that you could wear it. You can sell it or give it to someone.' 'Umar sent it to a brother of his in Makka who had not yet become Muslim." .
14. 人不应辱骂自己的父母
14. A person should not revile his parents
27. 阿卜杜拉·本·阿慕尔传述:先知ﷺ说:"辱骂自己的父母,是最大的罪过之一。"有人问:"人怎么会辱骂自己的父母呢?"他说:"一个人去辱骂别人的父亲,别人便反过来辱骂他的父亲和母亲。"
27. 'Abdullah ibn 'Amr said that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Reviling one's parents is one of the great wrong actions." They asked, "How could he revile them?" He said, "He reviles a man who then in turn reviles his mother and father." .
28. 阿卜杜拉·本·阿慕尔说:"人辱骂自己的父亲,是真主至高无上看来的大罪之一。"
28. 'Abdullah ibn 'Amr said, "A man's reviling his father is one of the major wrong actions in the sight of Allah Almighty."
15. 违抗父母的惩罚
15. The punishment for disobeying parents
29. 艾卜·伯克勒传述:先知ﷺ说:"没有哪种不义行为,比压迫和断绝亲属关系更能使人在今世受到惩罚,而来世的惩罚也为此而储存。"
29. Abu Bakra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "There is no wrong action more likely to bring punishment in this world in addition to what is stored up in the Next World than oppression and severing ties of kinship." .
30. 伊姆兰·本·侯赛因传述:安拉的使者ﷺ说:"你们认为通奸、饮酒和偷窃如何?"我们回答:"安拉和祂的使者最知道。"他说:"这些都是罪大恶极的行为,并且要受到惩罚。但我告诉你们,最大的大罪是什么?是以物配主安拉,以及违抗父母。"他原本是倚靠着的,此时坐了起来,并说:"还有作伪证。"
30. 'Imran ibn Husayn said, "The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'What do you say about fornication, drinking wine and theft?' 'Allah and His Messenger know best,' we replied. He stated, 'They are acts of outrage and there is punishment for them, but shall I tell you which is the greatest of the great wrong actions? Associating with Allah Almighty and disobeying parents.' He had been reclining, but then he sat up and said, 'and lying.'" .
16. 让父母落泪
16. Making Parents weep
31. 伊本·欧麦尔说:"使父母哭泣属于违抗的行为,也是大罪之一。"
31. Ibn 'Umar said, "Making parents weep is part of disobedience and one of the major wrong actions."
17. 父母的祈祷
17. The Supplication of Parents
32. 艾卜·胡莱赖传述:先知ﷺ说:"三种祈祷无疑会被应允:受压迫者的祈祷、旅行者的祈祷,以及父母为子女所作的祈祷。"
32. Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Three supplications are answered without a doubt: the supplication of someone who is oppressed, the supplication of someone on a journey, and the supplication of parents for their children." .
33. 艾卜·胡莱赖传述,他听见安拉的使者ﷺ说:“除了尔撒·本·麦尔尤姆和朱赖吉的同伴之外,从来没有人类婴儿在摇篮中说过话。”艾卜·胡莱赖问:“安拉的先知啊,朱赖吉的同伴是谁?”先知ﷺ回答:“朱赖吉是一位住在修道室里的修士。有一个牧牛人常来到他修道室的脚下,村里的一位妇女也常来找那位牧牛人。有一天,他正在祈祷时,他的母亲来了,喊道:‘朱赖吉!’他心里想:‘是我的母亲,还是我的祈祷?’他决定应当选择祈祷。她第二次喊他,他又心里想:‘是我的母亲,还是我的祈祷?’他认为应当选择祈祷。她第三次喊他,他再一次心里想:‘是我的母亲,还是我的祈祷?’他仍然决定应当选择祈祷。他没有回应她,她便说:‘朱赖吉,愿安拉不让你死去,直到你看到妖娆女子的面容。’之后她就离开了。”“后来,那位村妇生下一个孩子,被带到国王面前。国王问:‘这是谁的?’她回答:‘是朱赖吉的。’国王问:‘就是那个修道室里的人?’她说:‘是的。’国王下令:‘拆毁他的修道室,把他带来见我。’人们用斧头砍修道室,直到它倒塌。他们用绳子把他的手捆在颈上,带他去见国王。他经过那些美丽的女子时,看见了她们,便笑了。她们和众人一起注视着他。”“国王问:‘你知道这个女人声称什么吗?’他问:‘她声称什么?’国王回答:‘她声称你是她孩子的父亲。’国王问她:‘孩子在哪里?’人们回答:‘在她的房间里。’他走到孩子那里,说:‘你的父亲是谁?’孩子回答:‘是那个牧牛人。’国王说:‘我们用黄金为你建造修道室,好吗?’他回答:‘不必。’国王问:‘用白银呢?’” "不。"他回答道。国王问:"我们该用什么来建造它?"他说:"把它恢复成你们当初找到它时的样子。"然后国王问道:"是什么让你笑了?"他回答说:"我认出了一件事,我母亲的祈祷先于我到来了。"然后他把事情的经过告诉了国王。
33. Abu Hurayra reported that he heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, "No human child has ever spoken in the cradle except for 'Isa ibn Maryam, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and the companion of Jurayj." Abu Hurayra asked, "Prophet of Allah, who was the companion of Jurayj?" The Prophet replied, "Jurayj was a monk who lived in a hermitage. There was a cowherd who used to come to the foot of his hermitage and a woman from the village used to come to the cowherd. "One day his mother came while he was praying and called out, 'Jurayj!' He asked himself, 'My mother or my prayer?' He concluded that he should prefer the prayer. She shouted to him a second time and he again asked himself, 'My mother or my prayer?' He thought that he should prefer the prayer. She shouted a third time and yet again he asked himself, 'My mother or my prayer?' He again concluded that he should prefer the prayer. When he did not answer her, she said, 'Jurayj, may Allah not let you die until you have looked at the faces of the beautiful women.' Then she left. "Then the village woman was brought before the king after she had given birth to a child. He asked, 'Whose is it?' 'Jurayj's,' she replied. He asked, 'The man in the hermitage?' 'Yes,' she answered. He ordered, 'Destroy his hermitage and bring him to me.' They hacked at his hermitage with axes until it collapsed. They bound his hand to his neck with a rope and took him along to the king. When he passed by the beautiful women, he saw them and smiled. They were looking at him along with the people. "The king asked, 'Do you know what this woman claims?' 'What does she claim?' he asked. He replied, 'She claims that you are the father of her child.' He asked her, 'Where is the child?' They replied, 'It is in her room.' He went to the child and said, 'Who is your father?' 'The cowherd,' he replied. The king said, 'Shall we build your hermitage out of gold?' 'No,' he replied. He asked, 'Of silver?' 'No,' he replied. The king asked, 'What shall we build it with?' He said, 'Put it back the way you found it.' Then the king asked, 'What made you smile.' 'Something I recognised,' he replied, 'The supplication of my mother overtook me.' Then he told him about it."
18. 向基督徒母亲介绍伊斯兰
18. Offering Islam to a Christian mother
34. 艾布·胡莱赖说:“犹太人和基督徒中,凡是听过我的,没有不爱我的。我希望我的母亲皈依伊斯兰教,但她拒绝了。我把这件事告诉她,她仍然拒绝。于是我去见先知ﷺ,说:‘请为我向安拉祈祷。’他便祈祷了。我回到母亲那里,她正站在屋门内,说:‘艾布·胡莱赖,我已经皈依伊斯兰教了。’我把这件事告诉先知ﷺ,并请求说:‘请为我和我的母亲向安拉祈求。’他说:‘主啊,让众人喜爱艾布·胡莱赖和他的母亲。’”
34. Abu Hurayra said, "Neither Jew nor Christian has heard me and then not loved me. I wanted my mother to become Muslim, but she refused. I told her about it and she still refused. I went to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and said, 'Pray to Allah for me.' He did so and I went to her. She was inside the door of the house and said, 'Abu Hurayra, I have become Muslim.' I told the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and I asked, 'Make supplication to Allah for me and my mother.' He said, 'O Allah, make people love Abu Hurayra and his mother.'"
19. 父母去世后的孝行
19. Dutifulness towards Parents after their Death
35. 阿布·乌赛德说:"我们与安拉的使者在一起,那时一个人问道:'安拉的使者啊,父母去世之后,我还能为他们尽什么孝道吗?'他回答说:'能。有四件事:为他们祈祷,为他们求饶,履行他们的誓约,善待他们的朋友。你与亲属之间的联系,正是通过你的父母而来。'"ﷺ
35. Abu Usayd said, "We were with the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, when a man asked, 'Messenger of Allah, is there any act of dutifulness which I can do for my parents after their death?' He replied, 'Yes. There are four things: Supplication for them, asking forgiveness for them, fulfilling their pledges, and being generous to friends of theirs. You only have ties of kinship through your parents." .
36. 艾布·胡莱赖说:“死者死后,其品级可能会被提升。他说:‘我的主啊,这是怎么回事?’有人告诉他:‘你的孩子可以为你求饶。’”
36. Abu Hurayra said, "The dead person can be raised a degree after his death. He said, 'My Lord, how is this?' He was told, 'Your child can ask for forgiveness for you.'" .
37. 伊本·西林说:“有一晚我们和艾布·胡莱赖在一起,他说:‘真主啊,请宽恕艾布·胡莱赖和他的母亲,以及为他们二人祈求宽恕的人。’”穆罕默德说:“我们过去为他们祈求宽恕,以便自己也被包括在艾布·胡莱赖的祈祷之中。”
37. Ibn Sirin said, "We were with Abu Hurayra one night and he said, 'O Allah, forgive Abu Hurayra and his mother and whoever asks for forgiveness for both of them.'" Muhammad said, "We used to ask for forgiveness for them so that we would be included in Abu Hurayra's supplication." .
38. 阿布·胡拉everyone 报道:安拉的使者ﷺ说:"人死之后,一切善功都会中断,除非三件事:持续流传的施舍(sadaqa)、有益的知识,或为他祈祷的善良子女。" Correction on my previous line; here is the corrected translation: 38. 阿布·胡莱赖(Abu Hurayra)报道:安拉的使者ﷺ说:"人死之后,一切善功都会中断,除非三件事:持续流传的施舍(sadaqa)、有益的知识,或为他祈祷的善良子女。"
38. Abu Hurayra reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "When a person dies, all action is cut off for him with the exception of three things: sadaqa which continues, knowledge which benefits, or a righteous child who makes supplication for him." .
39. 伊本·阿拔斯传述:有人说:"安拉的使者啊,我母亲去世时没有留下遗嘱。如果我替她施舍sadaqa,对她有益吗?"他回答:"有益。"ﷺ
39. Ibn 'Abbas reported that a man said, "Messenger of Allah, my mother died without a will. Will it help her if I give sadaqa on her behalf?" "Yes," he replied.
20. 孝敬之人对父亲所钟爱之事的延续
20. The Dutifulness of someone who maintains what his father loved
40. 'Abdullah ibn Dinar 传述:Ibn 'Umar 在一次旅途中经过一位贝都因人身边。这位贝都因人的父亲曾是 'Umar 的朋友。这位贝都因人说:"难道我不是某某的儿子吗?"他说:"是的,确实如此。"Ibn 'Umar 吩咐把跟随他的那头驴子给这人。他还取下自己的头巾送给他。与他同行的一个人说:"两迪拉姆难道不够他用吗?"他回答说:"先知ﷺ说:'要保持你父亲所喜爱的(关系)。不要断绝它,以免安拉熄灭你的光芒。'"
40. 'Abdullah ibn Dinar reported that Ibn 'Umar passed by a bedouin during a journey. The bedouin's father had been a friend of 'Umar's. The bedouin said, "Am I not the son of so-and-so?" He said, "Yes, indeed." Ibn 'Umar ordered that he be given a donkey which was following him. He also took off his turban and gave it to him, One of the men with him said, "Wouldn't two dirhams be enough for him?" He replied, "The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'Maintain what your father loved. Do not cut it off so that Allah puts out your light." .
41. 伊本·欧麦尔传述:安拉的使者ﷺ说:“最崇高的孝行,是人与父亲所爱之人保持往来。”
41. Ibn 'Umar reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "The strongest form of dutifulness is when a man maintains relations with the people his father loved."
21. 不要断绝与你父亲曾经保持联系之人的往来
21. Do not cut off someone with whom your father maintained ties
42. 萨阿德·伊本·欧拜达·祖尔基(Sa'd ibn 'Ubada az-Zurqi)传述,他的父亲说:"我与阿慕尔·伊本·奥斯曼('Amr ibn 'Uthman)在麦地那清真寺里坐着,阿卜杜拉·伊本·萨拉姆('Abdullah ibn Salam)靠着他的侄子走过。阿慕尔离开了聚会,对他表示关切。"随后,伊本·萨拉姆回到他们那里,说:"阿慕尔·伊本·奥斯曼,你想怎么做就怎么做吧。"(他说了两三遍)"以派遣穆罕默德ﷺ、以真理降示他的那位发誓,这在安拉至高的经典中有记载。"(他说了两遍)"'你们不要断绝你们父亲所联结的关系,以免你们的光明熄灭。'"
42. Sa'd ibn 'Ubada az-Zurqi reported that his father said, "I was sitting in the mosque in Madina with 'Amr ibn 'Uthman when 'Abdullah ibn Salam walked by, leaning on his nephew. 'Amr left the assembly and showed his concern for him." Then Ibn Salam returned to them and said, "Do what you like, 'Amr ibn 'Uthman," (and he said it two or three times) By the One who sent Muhammad, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, with the Truth, it is in the Book of Allah Almighty (and he said it twice), 'Do not cut off those your father has joined so that that extinguishes your light.'".
爱是可以遗传的
22. Love is inherited
43. 艾布·伯克尔·伊本·哈兹姆传述:先知的一位同伴说:"我只需告诉你,安拉的使者ﷺ说过:'爱是可以继承的。'"
43. Abu Bakr ibn Hazm reported that one of the Companions of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "It is enough that I tell you that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'Love is inherited.'" .
23. 人不应直呼父亲的名字,不应在父亲面前先坐下,也不应走在父亲前面。
23. A man should not call his father by his name nor sit down before him nor walk in front of him
44. 艾卜·胡莱赖(Abu Hurayra)看见两个人,便对其中一人说:"这个人与你是什么关系?"他回答说:"他是我的父亲。"艾卜·胡莱赖说:"不要直呼他的名字,也不要走在他前面,不要在他之前坐下。"
44. Abu Hurayra saw two men and said to one of them, "Who is this man in relation to you?" He is my father," he replied. He said, "Do not call him by his own name nor walk in front of him nor sit down before him."
24. 男子可以用父亲的 kunya(尊称)来称呼父亲吗?
24. Can a man call his father by his kunya?
45. 沙哈尔·本·豪沙卜说:"我们与伊本·欧麦尔一同出门,萨利姆对他说:'愿平安归于您,艾布·阿卜杜勒-拉赫曼。'"
45. Shahr ibn Hawshab said, "We went out with Ibn 'Umar and Salim said to him, 'Peace, Abu 'Abdu'r-Rahman.'" .
46. 阿卜杜拉·本·第纳尔说,伊本·欧麦尔说:"但阿布·哈弗斯·欧麦尔决定……"
46. 'Abdullah ibn Dinar said reported that Ibn 'Umar said, "But Abu Hafs 'Umar decided..."