照顾孩子
Looking After Children
45. 孩子既可以是荣耀的来源,也可能是怯懦的根源。
45. A child is a source of both honour and cowardice
84. 阿伊莎说:"阿布·伯克尔说:'以真主起誓,地上没有比欧麦尔更让我喜爱的人。'然后他出去,又回来,说:'女儿,我刚才是怎样发誓的?'我把他所说的话告诉了他。于是他说:'他虽然比孩子更接近人的心,但对我来说,他更为可爱。'"
84. 'A'isha said, "Abu Bakr said, 'By Allah, there is no man on the face of the earth that I love better than 'Umar.' Then he went out and came back and said, 'How did I swear, daughter?' I told him what he had said. Then he said, 'He is dearer to me although one's child is closer (to one's heart).'" .
85. 伊本·阿比·努尔姆说:"我和伊本·欧麦尔在一起时,有个人问他关于蚊子血的问题。他问道:'你是哪里人?'那人回答:'伊拉克人。'他说:'你看这个人!他竟然问蚊子的血,而他们却杀害了先知ﷺ的外孙!我听先知ﷺ说过:"他们是我在今世的两朵香花。"'"
85. Ibn Abi Nu'm said, "I was with Ibn 'Umar when a man asked him about the blood of gnats. He asked, 'Where are you from?' 'From the people of Iraq,' he replied. He said, 'Look at this man! He asks about the blood of gnats when they murdered the grandson of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace! I heard the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, 'They are my sweet basil in this world.'"
46. 把孩子扛在肩上
46. Carrying a child on one's shoulders
86. 艾勒-巴拉厄说:“我看见先知穆罕默德ﷺ时,哈桑在他的肩上。他说:‘真主啊,我爱他,求你也爱他。’”
86. Al-Bara' said, "I saw the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, when al-Hasan was on his shoulder. He was saying, 'O Allah, I love him, so love him.'"
47. 孩子是喜乐的源泉
47. A child is a source of joy
87. 朱拜尔·本·努菲尔说:"有一天我们正坐着,阿尔-米格达德·本·阿斯瓦德在场,这时一个人从我们身边经过。那人说:'愿那两只眼睛蒙福,它们看见了安拉的使者ﷺ!以安拉发誓,我多么希望我能看到你们所看到的,见证你们所见证的!'这话激怒了阿尔-米格达德,也让我感到惊讶,因为那人所说的只是善言。于是他转向他们说:'是什么让这个人渴望去召回安拉已经收走的东西?他难道没有想过,如果他亲眼见到了他,他的处境会是怎样吗?以安拉发誓,如果某些人曾与安拉的使者ﷺ同在,安拉会把他们面朝下投入火狱,因为他们既不会回应他,也不会确认他。你们难道不赞颂至高的安拉吗?祂使你们来到世上,你们只认识你们的主,并确认你们的先知ﷺ所带来的一切。你们在别人身上已经看到了足够的苦难。以安拉发誓,安拉的使者ﷺ被派遣到的,是历来任何先知被派遣时最严峻的境况——处于(先知谱系的)空白期,处于蒙昧时代。他们不相信宗教比崇拜偶像更好。他[ﷺ]带来了"法furqan",借此可以分辨真假,它甚至能使父亲与儿子分离。于是一个人会把自己的父亲、儿子或兄弟视为不信者。安拉以信仰打开了他心灵的锁,他知道对方将在火中毁灭。因此他的眼睛不得安宁,因为他知道他所爱的人将在火中。这正是安拉所说的:'那些说:"我们的主啊,求你使我们的妻子和子女成为我们的喜悦"的人。'(25:74)"</reasoning_effort>
87. Jubayr ibn Nufayr said, "One day we were sitting when al-Miqdad ibn al-Aswad when a man passed us. The man said, 'Blessing be to those two eyes which saw the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. By Allah, I wish that I had seen what you have seen and witnessed what you have witnessed!' This angered al-Miqdad and that surprised me as the man had said nothing but good things. Then he turned to them and said, 'What made the man desire to summon back what Allah has taken away? Does he not realise what his situation would be if he had seen him? By Allah, if certain people had been with the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, Allah would have thrown them on their faces into Hellfire since they would neither have answered nor confirmed him? Do you not praise Allah Almighty since He brought you forth and you only know your Lord and confirm what your Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, brought? You see enough affliction in other people. By Allah, the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, was sent in the harshest state in which any Prophet was ever sent – in a gap (in the line of prophethood) and the time of Ignorance. They did not believe that the deen was better than worshipping idols. He brought the Discrimination by which it is possible to discriminate between the true and false, and which can part a father from his child. Then a man will think of his father, child or brother as an unbeliever. Allah has loosened the locks of his heart by faith and he knows that the other person will be destroyed in the Fire. Therefore his eye is not cool since he knows that the one he loves will be in the Fire. It is what Allah says, "Those who say, 'Our Lord, give us joy in our wives and children." (25:74)'"
48. 一个人为朋友祈求拥有大量财富和众多子女
48. A person who makes supplication that his friend will have a lot of money and many children
88. 安proper: 安斯说:"有一天,我去拜访先知ﷺ,家里只有我、我母亲和我的姨母乌姆·哈拉姆。他来到我们这里时问我们:'我可以和你们一起拜功吗?'当时并不是需要履行的拜功时间。"听这段叙述的人中有人问:"他把安斯安排在什么位置?"回答是:"他让安斯站在他的右边。"安斯的叙述接着说:"然后他与我们一同拜功,并为我们这家人祈求,愿我们得到今世和后世最好的福泽。我母亲说:'真主的使者啊,请你为你的小仆人向真主祈求吧。'于是他为我祈求真主赐予我各种福泽。在他祈祷结束时,他说:'主啊,赐他大量的财富和众多的子嗣,并赐福于他!'"
88. Anas said, "One day I visited the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and there was only myself, my mother and my aunt, Umm Hiram. When he came to us, he asked us, 'Shall I pray with you?' It was not the time of an obligatory prayer." One of those listening to the person relating this asked, "Where did he put in Anas in relation to him?" The reply was, "He put him to his right." The report from Anas continues, "Then he prayed with us and made supplication for us, the people of the house, that we would have the best of the blessings of this world and the Next. My mother said, 'Messenger of Allah, make supplication to Allah for your little servant,' and he asked Allah to grant me every blessing. At the end of his supplication, he said, 'O Allah, grant him a lot of money and many children and bless him!'"
49. 母亲是仁慈的
49. Mothers are merciful
89. 安那斯·本·马立克说:"有一位妇人来见阿伊莎,阿伊莎给了她三颗枣子。她给了自己的两个孩子每人一颗,自己留了一颗。两个孩子吃完了各自的枣子,然后看着他们的母亲。她拿起自己那颗枣子,掰成两半,把每一半给了一个孩子。先知ﷺ来了,阿伊莎把这件事告诉了他。他说:'你对此感到惊讶吗?因为她对孩子的仁慈,安拉将会怜悯她。'"
89. Anas ibn Malik said, "A woman came to 'A'isha and 'A'isha gave her three dates. She gave each of her two children a date and kept one date for herself. The children ate the two dates and then looked at their mother. She took her date and split in it two and gave each child half of it. The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, came and 'A'isha told him about it. He said, 'Are you surprised at that? Allah will show her mercy because of her mercy towards her child.'"
50. 亲吻儿童
50. Kissing Children
90. 阿伊莎说:"一位贝都因人来见先知,愿安拉赐福于他并赐他平安,问道:'你们亲吻孩子吗?我们从不亲吻他们。'先知愿安拉赐福于他并赐他平安说:'安拉已经从你们心中夺去了怜悯,我又能在你们心中放入怜悯吗?'"ﷺ
90. 'A'isha said, "A bedouin came to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and asked, "Do you kiss your children? We do not kiss them.' The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'Can I put mercy in your hearts after Allah has removed it from them?'" .
91. 艾布·胡莱赖(Abu Hurayra)说:安拉的使者ﷺ亲吻了哈桑·本·阿里,当时艾格拉尔·本·哈比斯·泰米(al-Aqra' ibn Habis at-Tamimi)正坐在他身旁。艾格拉尔说:"我有十个孩子,我从未亲吻过他们中的任何一个。"安拉的使者ﷺ看着他,说:"不怜悯他人的人,也不会得到怜悯。"
91. Abu Hurayra said, "The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, kissed Hasan ibn 'Ali while al-Aqra' ibn Habis at-Tamimi was sitting with him. Al-Aqra' observed, 'I have ten children and I have kissed any of them.' The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, looked at him and said, 'Whoever does not show mercy will not be shown mercy.'"
51. 父母教导礼仪及其对子女的责任
51. The parent teaching adab and his duty towards his child
92. 努mayr 伊本·奥斯说:"人们常说:'正确的行为是真主的恩赐,而良好的教养则来自父母。'"
92. Numayr ibn Aws said, "They used to say, 'Correct action is a gift from Allah, but adab comes from the parents." .
93. 努尔曼·本·巴希尔说,他的父亲曾把他带到安拉的使者ﷺ面前。他说:“安拉的使者啊,我为您作证,我已经把某某给了努尔曼。”(那是一个奴隶。)先知ﷺ问:“你是否也给了你每个孩子同样的东西?”他回答:“没有。”先知ﷺ说:“那就为我以外的人作证吧。”随后,先知ﷺ又问:“你难道不希望对他们所有人都一样地善待吗?”他回答:“当然希望。”先知ﷺ说:“那就不要这样做。”
93. An-Nu'man ibn Bashir said that his father had carried him to the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. He said, 'Messenger of Allah, I testify to you that I have given an Nu'man such-and-such. (It was a slave). The Prophet asked, "Have you given each of your children the same"?" "No," he replied. He said, "Then testify to someone other than me." Then the Prophet asked, "Do you not want to show equal kindness to all of them?" "Indeed I do," he replied. He said, "Then do not do it."
52. 父亲对子女的尽责
52. The dutifulness of a father to his child
94. 伊本·欧麦尔说:"安拉之所以称他们为'善良者'(al-Abrar),是因为他们孝敬父母,也善待子女。正如你对父母负有责任,你对子女也负有责任。"
94. Ibn 'Umar said, "Allah has called them the 'dutiful' (al-Abrar) because they are dutiful (birr) to their parents and children. Just as you have a duty which you owe your parent, so you have a duty which you owe your child."
53. 不怜悯他人的人,也不会得到怜悯。
53. Someone who does not show mercy will not be shown mercy
95. 据艾布·赛义德传述,先知ﷺ说:"不怜悯他人的人,也不会受到怜悯。"
95. Abu Sa'id that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'Someone who does not show mercy will not be shown mercy." .
96. 贾利尔·本·阿卜杜拉说:“安拉的使者ﷺ说:‘凡不怜悯世人的人,安拉也不怜悯他。’”
96. Jarir ibn 'Abdullah said, "The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'Allah will not show mercy to someone who does not show mercy to people.".
第97条。与第97条相同。
97. Same as 97.
98. 阿伊莎说:"一些贝都因人来见先知ﷺ。其中一人对他说:'安拉的使者啊,您亲吻孩子吗?以安拉发誓,我们从不亲吻他们。'安拉的使者ﷺ说:'安拉既然已经从你们心中夺去了慈悲,我还能再把慈悲放进你们心里吗?'"
98. 'A'isha said, "Some bedouins came to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. One of their men said to him, 'Messenger of Allah, do you kiss children? By Allah, we do not kiss them.' The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'Can I put mercy in your hearts after Allah has removed it from them?'" .
99. 艾布·奥斯曼传述:欧麦尔想任命一个人为总督。那人说:"我有这么多孩子,我从未亲吻过他们中的任何一个。"欧麦尔说:"安拉至尊至大,只会怜悯祂仆人中最仁慈的人。"
99. Abu 'Uthman reported that 'Umar wanted to appoint a man as governor. The governor said, "I have such-and-such a number of children and I have never kissed any of them." 'Umar said, "Allah Almighty will only show mercy to the kindest of His slaves.".
54. 仁慈分为一百份。
54. Mercy consists of a hundred parts
100. 艾卜·胡莱赖传述:真主的使者ﷺ说:"全能的真主把慈悲分为一百份。祂保留了九十九份,只将一份降到大地。正因为这一份慈悲,被造物彼此怜悯,甚至母马都会抬起蹄子,避免踩到它的幼驹。"
100. Abu Hurayra reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Allah Almighty has divided mercy into one hundred parts. He kept ninety-nine parts and sent down one part to earth. Because of that one single part, creatures are merciful to one another so that even the mare will lift its hooves away from its foal so that it does not trample on it."