46. 阿布·尤赛德·阿斯-赛迪迪邀请先知穆罕默德ﷺ参加他的婚礼。新娘即他的妻子，当天亲自为他们上菜。她说："你们知道我给安拉的使者ﷺ端上了什么吗？我端给他的是一些前一夜浸泡在锅里的椰枣。"

46. Abu Usayd as-Sa'idi invited the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, to his wedding. His wife, who was the bride, served them that day. She said, "Do you know what I served the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace? I served him some dates which had been infused in a pot overnight."

747. 努艾姆·本·盖纳卜说:“我去找艾卜·载尔,却没有在家里见到他。我问他的妻子:‘艾卜·载尔在哪里?’她说:‘他去给家里取点东西,很快就回来。’我坐下等他,他牵着两头骆驼来了。其中一头骆驼被拴在另一头的后面,每头骆驼的脖子上都挂着一个水囊。艾卜·载尔把它们卸了下来。然后他走过来,我说:‘艾卜·载尔!没有哪个人我比见到你更渴望见到的,也没有哪个人我比见到你更厌恶见到的!’他说:‘你的父亲归主所有!这两件事怎么能够结合在一起呢?’我回答说:‘在蒙昧时期,我活埋了一个女儿。我怕我见到你时,你会说:“你没有悔罪的途径,没有出路。”另一方面,我又希望你会说:“你有悔罪的途径,有出路。”’艾卜·载尔问:‘你做那件事是在蒙昧时期吗?’我回答:‘是的。’他说:‘真主已经赦免了已经发生的事。’然后他对妻子说:‘给我们拿些食物来。’她拒绝了。他又吩咐了一次,她又拒绝了。这样一直持续下去,直到两人的争吵声都高了起来。艾卜·载尔说:‘好吧!她们(女人)不把真主的使者ﷺ所说的话放在心上!’我问:‘真主的使者ﷺ关于女人说过什么?’他回答:‘女人是一根弯曲的肋骨。你如果想把她扳直,就会折断她;如果你温和地对待她,她就会与你相处融洽,你也能得到满意的结果。’于是她去端来了一锅炖菜,举止温顺如鸽子。”

747. Nu'aym ibn Qa'nab said, "I went to Abu Dharr and did not find him at home. I asked his wife, 'Where is Abu Dharr?' 'Fetching some things for the house. He will be back presently.' I sat down to wait for him and he came with two camels. One of them was lined up behind the other and each of the camels had a waterskin on its neck. Abu Dharr took them off. Then he came and I said, 'Abu Dharr! There was no man who I desired to meet more than you and there was none that I hated to meet more than you!' He said, 'Your father belongs to Allah! How can these two be joined together?' I replied, 'In the Jahiliyya, a buried a daughter alive and I feared that I would meet you and you would say, "There is no way for you to repent. There is no way out." On the other hand, I used to hope that you would say, 'There is a way for you to repent. There is a way out."' "Abu Dharr asked, 'Was it during the time of the Jahiliyya that you did it?' 'Yes,' I replied. He said, 'Allah has pardoned what was already done.' Then he told his wife, 'Bring us some food.' She refused. Then he ordered again and she refused. This continued until their voices were raised in argument. Abu Dharr said, 'All right then! They (women) do not consider what the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said!' 'What did the Messenger of Allah say about women?' I asked. He replied, 'Woman is a crooked rib. If you try to straighten her out, you will break her. If you coax her gently, there will be love and a sufficient means (of obtaining what you want).' She went and brought a stew, behaving like a dove.

"阿布·达尔说:'吃吧,不要让我感到不安。我在封斋。'随后他起身礼拜,接连地做了几拜。然后他转过身来吃了东西。我惊呼:'我们属于安拉!我从没想过你会对我撒谎!'他回答说:'你的父亲属于安拉!自从我见到你的那一刻起,我就从未撒过谎!'我问:'你不是告诉过我你在封斋吗?''是的,'他回答说,'我在这个月里封了三天斋,因此整个月的报酬已经为我记下,所以我吃东西是合法的。'"

"Abu Dharr said, 'Eat. Don't let me alarm you. I am fasting.' Then he got up to pray. He began to perform rak'ats in quick succession. Then he turned and ate. I exclaimed, 'We belong to Allah! I never thought that you would lie to me!' He replied, 'Your father belongs to Allah! I have never lied since the moment I met you!' I said, 'Did you not tell me that you were fasting?' 'Yes, he replied, 'I have fasted three days of this month and so the reward for an entire month has been written for me and it is therefore lawful for me to eat.'"

748. 萨presumably... let me correct: 萨alaba... 748. 萨bān 传述,先知ﷺ说:"人所花费的最好的第纳尔,是他花在家人身上的第纳尔,是他为安拉之道而花在同伴身上的第纳尔,以及他为安拉之道而花在坐骑上的第纳尔。"传述者之一艾布·卡拉巴说:"他是从家人开始说起的。有谁的回报比那位在幼小的孩子身上花费、直到安拉至高无上使他们能够自立的人更大呢?" 749. 艾布·麦斯欧德·巴德里 传述,先知ﷺ说:"当一个人为家人花费某物,并认为其回报在安拉那里时,那对他而言就是施舍(沙达格)。" 750. 扎比尔说:"有一个人说:'安拉的使者啊,我有一第纳尔。'他说:'用在你自己身上。'那人说:'我还有一个。'他说:'用在你的仆人身上。'那人说:'我还有一个。'他说:'用在安拉之道上。但这是最低级的施舍。'" 751. 艾布·胡莱赖 传述,先知ﷺ说:"第纳尔有四种:你给穷人的第纳尔,你用来赎取奴隶的第纳尔,你在安拉之道上花费的第纳尔,以及你花在家人身上的第纳尔。其中最好的,是你花在家人身上的第纳尔。"

748. Thawban reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "The best dinar a man spends is the dinar which he spends on his family, the dinar which he spends on his companions in the Way of Allah, and the dinar which he spends on his riding animal in the Way of Allah." One of the transmitters, Abu Qilaba, said, He began with the family, Who has a greater reward that the man who spends on small children until such time that Allah Almighty makes them able to support themselves." 749. Abu Mas'ud al-Badri reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "When someone spends something on his family and reckons its reward to be with Allah, then it is sadaqa for him." 750. Jabir said, "A man said, 'Messenger of Allah, I have a dinar.' He said, 'Spend it on yourself.' The man said, 'I have another.' He said, 'Spend it on your servant (or he said, 'on your child').' The man said, 'I have another.' He said, 'Use it in the Way of Allah, but that is the least form of sadaqa.'" 751. Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "There are four dinars: a dinar which you give to a poor person, a dinar you give to free a slave, a dinar you spend in the Way of Allah, and a dinar which you spend on your family. The best of them is the dinar which you spend on your family."

752. 萨阿德·本·艾卜·waqqas 传述，先知ﷺ对他说："你为求真主的喜悦而支出的任何东西，你都会因此获得报酬，即使是你放入妻子口中的食物。"

752. Sa'd ibn Abi Waqqas transmitted that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said to him, "You do not spend anything by which you desire the face of Allah Almighty but that you art rewarded for it, even what you place in your wife's mouth."

753. 艾卜·胡莱赖(愿安拉喜悦他)传述:安拉的使者(愿安拉赐福他并使他平安)说:"我们的主,即至尊至圣的主,每夜当三分之一的夜晚过去时,降临到最低的天。祂说:'谁在祈求我,我便应允他?谁在向我求取,我便赐予他?谁在向我求饶,我便饶恕他?'"

753. Abu Hurayra reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Our Lord, the Blessed and Exalted, descends to the lowest heaven every night when a third of the night remains. He says, 'Who is calling on Me so that I can answer him? Who is asking Me for something so that I can give to him? "Who is asking Me for forgiveness so that I can forgive him?'"