分离
Separation
188. 远离人群
188. Separating oneself from people
397. 'Awf ibn al-Harith ibn at-Tufayl, 'A'isha的外甥, 传述说: 有人告诉'A'isha, 'Abdullah ibn az-Zubayr 曾就她正在出售或赠送的某样东西说道:"以真主发誓,如果她不停止,我就阻止她处置自己的财产!"她问道:"果真如此吗?"他们回答:"是的。"'A'isha 说:"我向真主起誓,我绝不再跟Ibn az-Zubayr说一句话!"当她与他疏远了很长一段时间后,Ibn az-Zubayr 通过Muhajirun中的人向她求情。她说:"以真主发誓,我不会让任何人为他说情,我也绝不会违背我所发的誓言!"这种情形持续了很长时间后,Ibn az-Zubayr 对来自Banu Zuhra部族的al-Miswar ibn Makhrama和'Abdu'r-Rahman ibn al-Aswad ibn Yaghuth 说话。他对他们说:"我以真主请求你们去见'A'isha,因为她发誓断绝与我的来往,这对她来说是不合法的。"al-Miswar和'Abdu'r Rahman 带着他,用披风裹住他,请求'A'isha允许他们进去探望她。他们说:"愿真主的平安、慈悲和祝福降临在你身上!我们可以进来吗?""进来吧。"'A'isha回答。他们问:"我们全都可以进来吗,Umm al-Mu'minin?""是的,"她回答,"你们都可以进来。"她并不知道Ibn az-Zubayr也在他们中间。他们进来后,Ibn az-Zubayr走进帷幕隔开的区域,拥抱了'A'isha,并开始哭泣着求她欢心。随后,al-Miswar和'Abdu'r-Rahman 开始恳求'A'isha与他说话并接纳他。他们说:"你知道先知ﷺ禁止断绝往来,这一点你是知道的;你也知道,穆斯林因不与其兄弟说话而超过三夜,是不合法的。"他们不断提醒她,使她为难,直到她开始提醒他们(她的誓言),并哭着说:"我已经发了誓,而且这个誓言很坚定。"他们坚持劝说,直到她与Ibn az-Zubayr说了话。 然后她释放了四十名奴隶来赎她违背誓言的罪。此后,每当她想起那个誓言,她便会释放四十名奴隶,并且哭泣,直到泪水打湿了她的面纱。
397. 'Awf ibn al-Harith ibn at-Tufayl, the nephew of 'A'isha, reported that 'A'isha was told that 'Abdullah ibn az-Zubayr had said about something which 'A'isha was selling or giving away as a gift, "By Allah, if she does not stop, I will debar her from disposing of her property!" She asked, "Is that truly so?" "Yes," they replied. 'A'isha exclaimed, "I vow to Allah that I will never again speak a single word to Ibn az-Zubayr!" Ibn az-Zubayr sought intercession through the Muhajirun with her when she had kept apart from him for a long a time. She stated, "By Allah, I will not let anyone intercede for him, and I will never break the vow which I have made!" After that had been going on for a long time, Ibn az-Zubayr spoke to al-Miswar ibn Makhrama and 'Abdu'r-Rahman ibn al-Aswad ibn Yaghuth who were from the Banu Zuhra. He told them, "I ask you by Allah to got to 'A'isha, for it is not lawful for her to vow to cut me off." Al-Miswar and 'Abdu'r Rahman took him along with their cloaks wrapped around him and asked 'A'isha's permission to enter and visit her. They said, "Peace be upon Allah and the mercy of Allah and His blessings! May we come in?" "Come in," 'A'isha replied. They asked, "All of us, Umm al-Mu'minin?" "Yes," she answered, "you can all come in," not realising that Ibn az-Zubayr was with them. When they came in, Ibn az-Zubayr went into the screened-off section and embraced 'A'isha and began to pleased with her in tears. Then al-Miswar and 'Abdu'r-Rahman began to plead with 'A'isha to speak to him and accept him. They said, "You know that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, forbade cutting people off, as you know, and you know that it is not lawful for a Muslim to refuse to speak to his brother for more than three nights." They continued to remind her and make things difficult for her until she began to remind them (of her vow) and weep, saying, "I have made a vow, and the vow is strong." They kept at her until she spoke to Ibn az-Zubayr. Then she freed 40 slaves to atone for breaking her vow. After that whenever she remembered her vow, she would free forty slaves, and she wept until her tears made her veil wet."
189. 与穆斯林隔绝
189. Separating oneself from Muslims
398. 安斯·本·马立克(Anas ibn Malik)传述:安拉的使者ﷺ说:“你们不要互相憎恨,不要互相嫉妒,不要互相回避。安拉的仆人们,你们要做兄弟!穆斯林不可与他的兄弟(穆斯林)断绝言语超过三夜。”
398. Anas ibn Malik reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Do not hate one another nor envy one another nor shun one another. Slaves of Allah, be brothers! It is not lawful for a Muslim to refuse to speak to his brother (Muslim) for more than three nights." .
399. 艾布·艾尤布(愿真主喜悦他)是先知的圣门弟子,他说:"任何人都不得与自己的穆斯林兄弟断绝往来超过三夜,以至于两人相遇时,其中一人转脸回避,另一人也转脸回避。两人中更好的是先发问候的那一个。"ﷺ
399. Abu Ayyub, the Companion of the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "It is not lawful for anyone to cut himself off from his Muslim brother for more than three nights so that when they meet, one of them turns his face away in avoidance and the other one turns his face away as well. The better of them is the one who initiates the greeting." .
400. 艾卜·胡莱赖传述:安拉的使者ﷺ说:"你们不要相互憎恨,不要相互嫉妒,不要相互竞争。安拉的仆人们,你们要做兄弟。"
400. Abu Hurayra reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Do not hate one another nor contend with one another. Slaves of Allah, be brothers." .
401. 艾奈斯传述:安拉的使者ﷺ说:"两个人若因为其中一人最先犯的过错而产生隔阂,那他们就不是为了安拉、在伊斯兰中而相爱。"
401. Anas reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Two people do not love each other in Allah Almighty or in Islam if the first wrong action that one of them does creates a split between them." .
402. 哈希姆·本·阿米尔·安萨里(他是安思·本·马立克的侄子,其父在乌侯德之战中殉难)传述:他听到安拉的使者ﷺ说:"穆斯林不得与另一位穆斯林断绝往来超过三夜。在他们彼此断绝的期间,他们就是背离了真理。他们中先恢复正常关系的人,将因他先恢复正常关系而获得补赎。如果他们在彼此断绝的状态中死去,二人都不会进入乐园。如果其中一人向另一人问安,而对方拒绝回礼或接受问候,那么就会有一位天使为他回礼,而沙坦则回应另一方。"
402. Hisham ibn 'Amir al-Ansari, the nephew of Anas ibn Malik whose father was killed in the Battle of Uhud, that he heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, "It is not lawful for a Muslim to snub another Muslim for more than three nights. As long as they are cut off from each other, they are turning away from the Truth. The first of them to return to a proper state has his expiation for that inasmuch as he was the first to return to a proper state. if they die while they are cut off from each other, neither of them will ever enter the Garden. If one of them greets the other and he refuses to return the greeting or accept his greeting, then an angel returns the greeting to him and Shaytan answers the other." .
403. 阿伊莎提到,安拉的使者ﷺ曾对她说:"我能看出你是生气还是高兴。"她问:"使者啊,您是怎么看出来的?"他说:"你高兴的时候,会说'是的,以穆罕默德的主发誓。'而你生气的时候,会说'不,以易卜拉欣的主发誓。'"她说,她回答道:"是的,我只是把您的名字去掉了。"
190. 与兄弟断绝往来长达一年的人
190. A person who cuts himself off from his brother for a year
404. 阿布·胡拉什·阿斯拉米传述,他听到安拉的使者ﷺ说:"谁与自己的兄弟断绝往来长达一年,就等于流了他的血。"
404. Abu Khirash al-Aslami reported that he heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, "Whoever snubs his brother for a year has split his blood." .
405. 伊姆兰·本·阿比·阿纳斯转述,一位来自艾斯兰部落、曾是先知弟子的人说:先知ﷺ说:"冷落一位信士长达一年,就如同流他的血。"
405. 'Imran ibn Abi Anas reported from a man of Aslam who was one of the Companions of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Snubbing a believer for a year is like spilling his blood."
191. 互不交谈的人
191. Those who refuse to speak to one another
406. 艾卜·艾尤布·安萨里传述,安拉的使者ﷺ说:"穆斯林不得与他的(穆斯林)兄弟断绝言语超过三天,以至于两人相遇时,一人走这边,一人走那边。两人中更好的,是先开口致安的人。"
406. Abu Ayyub al-Ansari reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "It is not lawful for a Muslim to refuse to speak to his (Muslim) brother for more than three days so that when they meet, one goes this way and the goes that way. The better of the two is the one who initiates the greeting." .
407. 希沙姆·本·阿米尔(Hisham ibn 'Amir)听到安拉的使者ﷺ说:"穆斯林不可以冷落另一位穆斯林超过三夜。只要他们彼此断绝往来,他们就是背离了真理。他们中先回到正途的人,将以此获得赎罪,因为他是先回到正途的人。如果他们在彼此断绝往来的状态中死去,他们两人都永远不会进入乐园。"
407. Hisham ibn 'Amir heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, "It is not lawful for a Muslim to snub another Muslim for more than three nights. As long as they are cut off from each other, they are turning away from the Truth. The first of them to return to a proper state has his expiation for that inasmuch as he was the first to return to a proper state. If they die while they are cut off from one another, neither of them will ever enter the Garden."
192. 慷慨
192. Generosity
408. 艾卜·胡莱赖传述:安拉的使者ﷺ说:“你们不要互相憎恨,不要互相嫉妒。让安拉的仆人们成为兄弟。”
408. Abu Hurayra reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Do not hate one another and do not envy one another. Let the slaves of Allah be brothers." .
409. 艾卜·胡莱赖传述:先知ﷺ说:"你会发现,在复活日,真主看来最恶劣的人,是两面人:他对这一群人呈现一副面孔,对另一群人又呈现另一副面孔。"
409. Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "You will find that the worst of people in the sight of Allah on the Day of Rising will be the two-faced person who presents one face to a group of people and another face to a different group of people." .
410. 艾卜·胡莱赖传述:安拉的使者ﷺ说:"你们应当提防臆测,因为臆测是最虚假的言语。你们不要互相窥伺,不要互相嫉妒,不要互相憎恨,不要互相疏远。你们要做安拉的仆人,并且成为兄弟。"
410. Abu Hurayra reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Beware of opinion. Opinion is the most lying form of speech. Do not try to ensnare one another (in sales) nor envy one another nor hate one another nor shun one another. Rather be the slaves of Allah and brothers." .
411. 艾卜·胡莱赖传述:安拉的使者ﷺ说:“天堂的大门在星期一和星期四开启。凡不以任何事物与安拉并列的人都会获得赦宥,但与他人之间存在仇恨的人除外。有声音说:‘让这两个人先放着,直到他们和解。’”
411. Abu Hurayra reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "The gates of the Garden are opened on Mondays and Thursdays. Every person who does not associate anything with Allah is forgiven except for someone who has enmity between existing between him and another man. It is said, 'Leave these two until they make peace.'" .
412. 阿布·达尔达'说:"要不要我告诉你们一件比施舍和斋戒更好的事?那就是改善彼此之间的友谊。憎恨是会削去一切的东西。"
412. Abu'd-Darda' said, "Shall I tell you about something better for you than sadaqa and fasting? Improving the state of friendship. Hatred is what shaves things away." .
413. 伊本·阿拔斯传述,先知穆罕默德ﷺ说:"有三件事是不被隐藏的,除此之外的一切,祂都会依祂的意愿赦宥:死时未以任何事物与真主并列的人;不曾行巫术、也不曾追随行巫术者的人;以及心中不对兄弟怀有怨恨的人。"
413. Ibn 'Abbas reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Three things are not concealed and He forgives everything else to whomever He wills: the one who dies and has not associated anything with Allah, the one who was not a sorcerer nor a follower of the sorcerers, and the one who did not have rancour towards his brother."
193. 问候的礼节(salam)可以弥补疏远之过。
193. The salam makes up for shunning
414. 艾布·胡莱赖传述,他听到先知ﷺ说:"穆斯林男子不得与信士断绝言语超过三天。三天过后,他应当与他相遇并向他问候。若他回应问候,两人便共享报酬;若他不回应,那先发问候的人便已无过,不算断绝关系。"
414. Abu Hurayra reported that he heard the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, "It is not lawful for a Muslim man to refuse to speak to a believer for more than three days. When three days have passed, he should meet him and greet him. If he returns the greeting, they share in the reward. If he does not return the greeting, the one who gives the greeting is innocent of having severed relations."