赞美他人
Praising People
153. 关于赞美他人的经文和圣训有哪些记载
153. What has come about praising people
333. 艾布·伯克尔传述:有人在先知面前被提及,有人称赞了他。先知ﷺ说:"你完了!你割断了你同伴的脖子!"他连说了几遍。接着他说:"如果你们中有人必须称赞某人,就应当说:'我认为某人是这样的。'若他确实如此,那么只有真主来清算他。任何人都不能僭取真主对某人品性作证的权利。"
333. Abu Bakr reported that a man was mentioned in the presence of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and someone praised him. The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Woe to you! You have cut off the head of your companion!" and he repeated that several times. He went on, "If one of you must praise someone, he should say, 'I consider that so-and-so is such-and-such.' Allah is the One who will take account of him if he thinks that he is indeed like that, No one can appropriate Allah's right to attest to someone's character." .
334. 艾卜·穆萨传述:先知ﷺ听到一个人赞美另一个人,而且他的赞美夸大其词。先知ﷺ说:"你们打断了那个人的脊梁,或者说毁了他。"
334. Abu Musa reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, heard a man praise another man and he was using exaggeration in his praise of him. The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "You have destroyed or broken the man's back." .
335. 易卜拉欣·泰米报告说,他的父亲说:“我们与欧麦尔同坐时,有一人当面称赞另一人。”欧麦尔说:“你伤害了那个人,愿真主也伤害你。”
335. Ibrahim at-Taymi reported that his father said, "We were sitting with 'Umar and one man praised another man to his face." He said, "You have wounded the man. May Allah wound you." .
336. 据宰德·本·艾斯拉姆传述,他的父亲听到欧麦尔说:"赞扬就是宰杀。"传述者补充道:"他的意思是指赞扬被接受的时候。"
336. Zayd ibn Aslam reported that his father heard 'Umar state, "Praise is slaughter." The transmitter added, "He meant when it is accepted."
154. 当他对同伴感到放心时,赞扬他的人
154. Someone who praises his companion when he feels safe about him*
[* 他确信别人的赞美不会使他产生骄傲或虚荣。] 337. 艾布·胡莱赖传述:先知ﷺ说:"人中最优秀的是艾布·伯克尔。人中最优秀的是欧麦尔。人中最优秀的是艾布·欧拜达。人中最优秀的是乌赛德·本·胡代尔。人中最优秀的是萨比特·本·盖斯·本·沙玛斯。人中最优秀的是穆阿兹·本·阿穆尔·本·朱姆哈。人中最优秀的是穆阿兹·本·哲白勒。"然后他说:"人中最差的是某某。人中最差的是某某。"直到他点名了七个人。
[* He is certain that his praise will nor produce pride or vanity.] 337. Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "The best of men is Abu Bakr. The best of men is 'Umar. The best of men is Abu 'Ubayda. The best of men is Usayd ibn Hudayr. The best of men is Thabit ibn Qays ibn Shammas. The best of men is Mu'adh ibn 'Amr ibn al-Jamuh. The best of men is Mu'adh ibn Jabal." Then he said, "The worst of men is so-and so. The worst of men is so-and-so," until he had named seven men.
338. 阿伊莎说:"有一个人请求进见安拉的使者,愿安拉赐福于他并使他平安。安拉的使者ﷺ说:'他是他族中的一个坏人。'那人进来时,先知ﷺ对他很有礼貌,态度和悦。那人离开后,另一个人请求进见。先知ﷺ说:'他是他族中的一个好人。'那人进来时,先知ﷺ对他的态度不像对前一个人那样和悦。那人离开后,我说:'安拉的使者啊,您那样评价某某,却对他很有礼貌;您那样评价某某,我却没有见您对他那样。'先知ﷺ说:'阿伊莎啊,人中最坏的是那些因其恶language而被人畏惧的人。'"
338. 'A'isha said, "A man asked permission to come to the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and the Messenger of Allah said, 'He is an evil son of his tribe.' When the man came in, the Prophet was courteous and cheerful towards him. When that man left, another man asked permission to come in. He said, 'He is an excellent son of his tribe.' When he came in, he was not cheerful towards him as he had been cheerful towards the other man. When he left, I said, 'Messenger of Allah, you said what you said about so-and-so and yet you were courteous to him. You said what you said about so-and-so and I did not see you do the same.' He said, ''A'isha, the worst of people are those who are feared on account of their bad language.'"
155. 向赞美他人的人撒土
155. Throwing dust in the faces of those who praise people
339. 艾布·马阿马尔说:“有一个人开始赞美一位埃米尔。米格达德开始向他脸上撒土,并说:‘安拉的使者ﷺ命令我们,向那些赞美别人的人脸上撒土。’”
339. Abu Ma'mar said, "A man began to praise one of the amirs. Al-Miqdad began to throw dirt in his face and said, 'The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, commanded us to throw dust into the faces of those who praise people.'" .
340. 阿塔·本·艾比·拉巴赫传述:有一人在伊本·欧麦尔面前称赞另一个人。伊本·欧麦尔便开始向那人的嘴上撒土。他说:"安拉的使者ﷺ说:'当你们看见有人称赞别人时,就往他们的脸上撒土。'"
340. 'Ata' ibn Abi Rabah reported that a man was praising another man in the presence of Ibn 'Umar. Ibn 'Umar began to throw dust towards his mouth. He said, "The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'When you see those who praise people, throw dust in their faces.'" .
341. 拉贾'说:"有一天,米赫扬和我去了巴士拉人的清真寺。布赖达·阿斯拉米当时坐在清真寺的一扇门旁。清真寺里有一个叫萨卜卡的人,他总是把拜功做得很长。我们来到清真寺门口,门上挂着一块带流苏的羊毛布帘。布赖达是个爱开玩笑的人。他说:'米赫扬,你难道不像萨卜卡那样礼拜吗?'米赫扬没有回答,转身走了回去。米赫扬说:'安拉的使者ﷺ曾经握着我的手,我们一起登上了乌侯德山。他俯视麦地那,说:"城镇啊,你要遭殃了!当它的居民因富足而抛弃它时,那时达吉贾尔将会来到,他会在城的每个门口发现两位天使,因此他无法进入。"然后他走下山,直到我们到达清真寺。安拉的使者ﷺ看见一个人在礼拜,俯身叩头、鞠躬。安拉的使者ﷺ问我:"这是谁?"我便开始赞扬他,说:"安拉的使者啊,这是某某和某某。""住口!"他说,"不要让他听见,否则你会毁了他。"'"拉贾'接着说:"然后他开始走,直到走进自己的房间,接着他拍掉手上的尘土,说:'你们宗教中最好的部分,就是其中最容易的部分。'他这样重复了三遍。"
341. Raja' said. "One day Mihjan and I went to the mosque of the people of Basra. Burayda al-Aslami was sitting there by one of the mosque doors. Inside the mosque there was a man called Sabka who used to make the prayers long. We came to the mosque door which had a fringed woollen cloth over it. Now Burayda was someone who made jokes. He said, 'Mihjan, don't you pray as Sabka prays?' Mihjan did not answer and went back. Mihjan said, 'The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, once took me by the hand and we went together to the top of Uhud. He looked down on Madina and said, "Woe to a town whose people will abandon it when it becomes very prosperous. Then the Dajjal will come to it and find two angels at each of its gates, so he will not enter it." Then he went down until we reached the mosque and the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, saw a man praying, prostrating and bowing. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, asked me, "Who is this?" and I began to praise him, saying, "Messenger of Allah, this is so-and-so and so-and-so." "Stop!" he said, "Do not let him hear or you will destroy him."'" Raja' continued, "He began to walk until he reached his rooms and then he began to shake the dust off his hands and said, 'The best part of your deen is the easiest of it.' and he repeated that three times."
156. 以诗歌赞美他人的人
156. The person who praises in poetry
342. 阿斯瓦德·本·苏赖厄说:“我来到先知ﷺ面前,说:‘安拉的使者啊,我用赞美诗和颂词赞美了安拉和您。’他说:‘至于你的主,必须赞美祂。’于是我开始诵读那些诗篇。这时,一个高个子、秃头的男子请求入内。先知ﷺ对我说:‘保持安静。’那人进来说了一会儿话,然后离开了。接着我又诵读。之后那人又回来,先知ﷺ再次让我保持安静。那人又离开了。这样的情况发生了两三次。我问:‘这个让我保持安静的人是谁?’他回答说:‘这是一个不喜欢虚妄之事的人。’” [It is said that it was 'Umar ibn al-Khattab]
342. Al-Aswad ibn Suray' said, "I came to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and said, 'Messenger of Allah, I have praised Allah and you in poems of praise and eulogies.' He said, 'As far as your Lord is concerned, He must be praised,' and so I began to recite them. Then a tall bald man asked for permission to enter. The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, told me, 'Be silent.' The man came in and spoke for a time and then left. Then I recited again. Then the other man came back and he made be silent again. Then the man left again. That happened two or three times. I asked, 'Who is this man for whom I must be silent?' He replied, 'This is a man who does not like vain things.'" [It is said that it was 'Umar ibn al-Khattab]
157. 因惧怕诗人的恶行而给予其财物
157. Giving to a poet when you fear his evil
343. 阿布·努亚德说:"一位诗人来到伊姆兰·本·侯赛因那里,伊姆兰给了他一些东西。有人问伊姆兰:'你还给诗人东西?'他说:'我是在保护自己的名誉(使其免受他的讽刺)。'"
343. Abu Nujayd said, "A poet came to 'Imran ibn Husayn and 'Imran gave him something. 'Imran was asked, 'You give to a poet?' He said, 'I am preserving my reputation (from his satire).'"