Erkaklarga o'xshashga harakat qilayotgan ayollar va ayollarga o'xshashga harakat qilayotgan erkaklar
Women Imitating Men and Vice Versa
Allohning Elchisi ﷺ shunday deb e'lon qildilar: "Alloh ayollarga o'xshashga harakat qiladigan erkaklarni va erkaklarga o'xshashga harakat qiladigan ayollarni la'natlaydi."1
The Messenger of Allah (pbuh) declared, "Allah curses men who imitate women and women who imitate men.”1
Boshqa rivoyatda: "Alloh erkaksi ayollarga la'nat qilsin."
In another narration, "May Allah curse the masculine woman.” 2
U'z erkaklarga o'xshab yuradigan ayol. U zot ﷺ yana shunday dedilar: "Alloh ayollarga o'xshab olinadigan erkakni va erkaklarga o'xshab olinadigan ayolni la'natlasin."3
It means that the woman who behaves like men. He (pbuh) also said, "May Allah curse the effeminate man and the masculine woman.” 3
Abu Hurayra (Alloh undan rozi bo'lsin) rivoyat qiladi: Allohning Elchisi ﷺ shunday degan: "Alloh erkaklar kiyimini kiyib olgan ayolni va ayollar libosini kiyib olgan erkakni la'natlaydi."4
On the authority of Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) who said that the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said, "Allah curses a woman who wears a men's clothing and a man who wears a woman's dress.”4
Ayol kishi erkaklarning kiyimini kiysa, u o‘ziga va eriga Allohning la’nati tushishiga sabab bo‘ladi, agar er uni tanbeh qilmasa yoki xulqini tuzatishga harakat qilmasa. Islomda er xotinini Ulug‘ Qur’on buyurganidek tarbiyalash va o‘rgatish uchun mas’uldir: {Ey iymon keltirganlar! O‘zingizni va oilangizni yoqilg‘isi odamlar va toshlar bo‘lgan olovdan saqlang.} (At-Tahrim: 6)
When woman wears a man's clothing, she will incur Allah's curse upon herself and her husband as long as he does not rebuke her or try to discipline her character. The husband, in Islam, is responsible about disciplining and teaching his wife as the Glorious Qur'an commands, {O ye who believe! Save yourselves and your families from a fire whose fuel is men and stones.] (AI- Tahrim: 6)
Allohning Elchisi ﷺ bu haqiqatni ta’kidlab shunday degan: "Har biringiz mas’ul va o‘z ostidagilari uchun javobgarsiz: erkak o‘z oilasining posboni bo‘lib, Qiyomat kunida ular haqida so‘raladi."5
The Messenger of Allah (pbuh) stressed this fact saying, "Each of you is a guardian and responsible about his subjects: The man is a guardian over his household and will be asked about them on the Day of Judgment.”5
U у ҳам (ﷺ) яна айтдилар: «Аёлларга (беҳуда ишларда) итоат этгани учун эркаклар ҳалок бўладилар».6
He (pbuh) said further, "Men would be perished because they obeyed women (in vanity).”6
Abu Hurayra rivoyat qiladi: Allohning Rasuli ﷺ shunday dedilar: "Do'zax ahli bo'lgan ikki toifa odam bor, men ularni ko'rmadim: sigir dumlariga o'xshash qamchilari bor kishilar, ular odamlarni uradi (ya'ni o'z xalqiga dushman bo'lgan zolim hukmdorlar); va kiyingan, lekin yalang'och ayollar, ular o'ziga og'diradi va o'ziga og'diriladi, sochlari tuya o'rkachlaridek qiyshaygan holda taranglashtirilgan. Ular Jannatga kirmaydi va uning xushbo'yligini ham topmaydi, holbuki uning xushbo'yligi juda uzoq masofadan sezilib turadi".
Abu Hurairah narrated that the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said, "!t will not be a witness for two types of people who are destined for the Hell-fire: People with whips like the tails of cows, who beat the people (i.e., tyrannical rulers who are the enemies of their own people), and women who although clothed, are yet naked, seducing and being seduced, their hair styled like the tilted humps of camels. These will not enter the Garden nor its fragrance even reach them, although its fragrance reaches a very great distance.” 7
Hadis bu ayollarni "kiyingan, lekin yalang'och" deb tasvirlaganini ko'rsatadi, ya'ni ular Allohning in'omlari bilan kiyintirilgan bo'lsa-da, noshukrligi tufayli yalang'ochdirlar, degan ma'noni anglatadi. Boshqa olimlar esa Allohning Elchisi ﷺ bunday ayollarni "kiyingan, lekin yalang'och" deb ta'riflaganini, chunki ular tanani to'liq yopmaydigan va shaffof, ostidagini ko'rsatib turadigan kiyimlar kiyishlari sababli shunday deyilganini aytadilar.
The hadith depicts these women with clothed and naked ones meaning that although they are clothed by Allah's gifts, they are naked because of their ingratitude. Other scholars hold that the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) described such women as being clothed, yet naked, since they wear clothes which fail to cover the body and which are transparent, revealing what is underneath.
Bunday ayollar yana shunday ta'riflanadi: ular ayblash va aldanish ma'nosida, ya'ni vasvasali va shahvoniy tarzda o'zini tutadi va yuradi. Ular Allohga itoatsizlik qiladi va boshqalarni ham shunga chaqiradi.
Such women are further described as seducing and being seduced, meaning that they behave and walk in seductive and sensuous manner. They disobey Allah and call others to do so.
Rasul (ﷺ) ularning soch turmagini tuyaning o‘ziga xos zotiga, ya’ni ulkan o‘simtalari bo‘lgan "humps" tuyasiga o‘xshatdilar, chunki ular sochlarini boshlarining o‘rtasidan asalari uyasi shaklida tepaga ko‘tarib o‘radilar.
The Messenger (pbuh) likened their hairstyle to the humps, special breed of camel which has very large humps, because they put up their hair in a beehive shape from the middle of their heads.
Nofi' aytdi: "Bir kuni Ibn `Umar va `Abdulloh ibn `Amr Al-Zubayr ibn `Abdul-Muttalib bilan o'tirgan edilar, shu payt bir ayol qo'y podasini haydab, yelkasiga o'q-yoy osib, ularning oldiga keldi. `Abdulloh ibn `Umar so'radi: "Sen erkakmisan yoki ayolmisan?" U: "Ayolman", dedi. Shunda `Abdulloh o'z hamrohlariga dedi: "Albatta, Alloh erkaklarga o'xshashga urinadigan ayollarni va ayollarga o'xshashga urinadigan erkaklarni la'natlasin."1
Nafi' said, " Once Ibn `Umar and 'Abdullah Ibn `Arnr were sitting with Al-Zubair Ibn `Abdul-Muttalib when a woman driving a flock of sheep and shouldering an arrow came to them. 'Abdullah Ibn `Umar asked, "Are you man or woman?" She said, "A woman." Thereupon 'Abdullah said to his companions, "Surely, Allah curse the women who imitate men and men who imitate women.”1
Shuning uchun ayollarning o'zini namoyon qilishi, ya'ni go'zalliklarini ko'z-ko'z qilishi Allohning la'natiga sabab bo'ladigan narsadir. Bu namoyish turli shakllarda bo'lishi mumkin: bosh kiyimi ostidan oltin va marvarid kabi zeb-ziynatlarni ko'rsatish, ochiq va vasvasali kiyimlar kiyish, xushbo'y atirlardan foydalanish va boshqalar. Afsuski, bugungi kunda ko'pchilik ayollar bunday axloqsiz modalarga o'rganib qolgan.
Thus, the display of women's attractions is a cause for incurring Allah's curse. This display may take various forms like exposing the ornament such as gold and pearls from under the head-covering, wearing revealing and sexy clothes, using of fragrant perfumes, etc. unfortunately, most of women today are accustomed to these immoral fashions.
Shunga o'xshash ravishda, Allohning Elchisi ﷺ shunday degan: "Men do'zaxga qarab, uning aholisining ko'pchiligi ayollar ekanini ko'rdim." U ﷺ yana shunday deb bayon qildi: "Erkaklar uchun ayollardan ko'ra zararliroq fitna qoldirmadim."2
By the same token, the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) stated, "I looked at Hell-fire and saw the majority of its inhabitants are Women. "He (pbuh) disclosed further, "I left no harmful trial to men than women.”2
1 Imom al-Buxoriy rivoyat qilgan.
1 Reported by AI-Bukhari.
2 Abu Dovud tomonidan rivoyat qilingan.
2 Reported by Abu Dawud.
3 Al-Buxoriy tomonidan rivoyat qilingan.
3 Reported by A1-Bukhari.
4-hadis. Abu Dovud rivoyat qilgan.
4 Reported by Abu Dawud.
Al-Bukhariy rivoyat qilgan.
5 Reported by AI-Bukhari.
6 Ahmad rivoyat qilgan.
6 Reported by Ahmad.
Muslim tomonidan rivoyat qilingan.
7 Reported by Muslim.
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1 Imom al-Buxoriy rivoyat qilgan.
1 Reported by AI-Bukhari.
2 Muslim rivoyat qilgan.
2 Reported by Muslim.