11.4 Nikohsiz jinsiy aloqa jabrlanuvchisiz jinoyat emas
11.4 Premarital Sex Is Not A Victim-less Crime
Odamlar ba'zan hazil tariqasida so'raydi: nega haydash uchun guvohnoma kerak bo'lsa-yu, bolali bo'lish uchun hech qanday litsenziya yoki sertifikat talab qilinmaydi? Bu ko'pincha yengil hazil sifatida aytiladi, lekin o'ylab ko'rilsa, bu jiddiy savoldir. Agar haydovchilik, maktabda dars berish, tibbiyot yoki huquq bilan shug'ullanish, hatto santexnik bo'lish ham sertifikatni talab qilsa, unda undan ham nozik, undan ham muhim narsa — bolalar tug'ish va ularni tarbiyalash-chi? Axir, bolalar bizning kelajagimiz, va jamiyatimizning holati butunlay bolalar qanday tarbiyalanishiga bog'liq — ularning axloqi, mas'uliyat hissi, xarakteri va boshqalar. Ota-onaning to'g'ri tarbiyasisiz ulg'aygan bolalarning giyohvandlik va jinoyatga aralashish, ishsizlikka duch kelish, jamiyatning unumli a'zosi va to'g'ri insonga aylanmay qolish ehtimoli ancha yuqori ekani sir emas. Shuning uchun bu hammamizga, jamiyatning barcha a'zolariga zarar yetkazadi.
People sometimes jokingly ask, why is it that driving requires a license, but you can have children without a license or any kind of certification? It’s often a lighthearted remark, but, when you think about it, it’s a legitimate question. If driving or teaching at a school, practicing medicine or law, or even being a plumber requires certification, then what about something that is far more sensitive, far more significant like having children and raising them? After all, children are our future and the state of our society as a whole depends on how children are brought up — their morals, their sense of responsibility, their character, and so on. It’s no secret that children who grow up without proper parental influence are far more likely to become involved in drugs and crime, to face unemployment, to fail to become productive members of society and upright human beings. This, then, has a toll on all of us, on all members of society.