Me ya sa waɗannan matsalolin zamantakewa suke tasowa a cikin abin da ake kira 'wayewa' da muke rayuwa a cikinsa? Dalilan wannan sun kasu kashi biyu:

So why do these social problems arise in the so-called ‘civilised’ surroundings in which we live? The reasons for this are twofold :

Tsarin tsara tsarin zamantakewa:

The organisation of the social system :

Shin kun taɓa kallon shirye-shiryen talabijin na yara, kamar 'Neighbours' da 'Eastenders'? Ko kun taɓa duba mujallun matasa da 'yarku ko ƙanwarku ke kawowa gida kowane mako? Irin wannan kafofin watsa labarai na ba yaranku misalan rayuwa, kuma suna kafa abin da ake ganin rayuwar yau da kullum ya kamata ta kasance. Sau da yawa suna nuna irin matsalolin zamantakewar da aka ambata a sama - cike suke da masoya, budurwai, 'yan luwadi mata da masu zina!

Have you ever looked at children’s TV programmes, like ‘Neighbours’ and ‘Eastenders’? Or have you glanced at the teenage magazines your daughter or little sister brings home with her every week? This type of media provides role models for your children and sets the trend as to how everyday life should really be. They frequently portray the kind of social issues mentioned above - they are filled with boyfriends, girlfriends, lesbians and adulterers!.

Amma mafi muhimmanci, gaskiyar cewa ana samun waɗannan a bainar jama'a a tashoshin rediyo da talabijin ko a shagunan jaridu na gida tana nuna wata manufar gwamnati da ke karkata zuwa ga sassaucin ra'ayi da rashin kamewa. A cewar dokar Birtaniya, luwadi, zina da alaƙar jima'i ta dare ɗaya duk halal ne a doka. Shin akwai abin mamaki cewa matasa da yawa suna bin wannan hanya?

But more importantly, the fact that these are freely available on the airwaves or in your local newsagents reflects an underlying government policy that tends towards liberalism and licentiousness. According to British law, homosexuality, adultery and one night sexual relationships are perfectly legal. Is it any wonder that so many youngsters follow in the same footsteps?

Rashin kula da alhakin iyaye :

Lack of parental responsibility :

Tabbas, ba za a iya ɗora laifin ɓarnar wata tsara ta matasa a kan al'umma kaɗai ba. Iyaye ma suna da laifi daidai gwargwado.

Of course, you cannot blame only society for the shortcomings of a generation of wayward youth. The parents are just as much to blame.

Bayan haka, idan iyayen da kansu suna samun dabi'unsu daga muhallin guda, me kuke tsammani za su koyar wa 'ya'yansu?

After all, if the parents themselves take their values from the same environment, what do you expect they will teach to their children?

Asali, dukkan wadannan matsaloli biyu suna samo asali ne daga tushe guda, wato tunanin 'yanci. A karkashin sunan 'yanci, mutane suna zama bayi ga son zuciyarsu da sha'awoyinsu. 'Yan siyasa suna shimfida dokoki don mulkin ku bisa abubuwan da suke so. Tare da yawan membobin majalisar zartarwa da suka yarda da kansu cewa masu zina ne, shin kuna da tabbacin cewa yadda suke tafiyar da al'amuranku da gina al'ummar da kuke ciki zai dace da ɗanku ko 'yarku su girma a cikinta?

Fundamentally, both of these issues arise from the same source, that is, the mentality of freedom. Under the guise of ‘freedom’ people are subjugated to their own whims and desires. The politicians legislate laws to govern over you on the basis of their own preferences. With so many members of the cabinet being self-confessed adulterers, how confident do you feel that the way they run your affairs and build the society around you will be suitable for your son or daughter to grow up in?

Haka kuma, tare da 'yanci yana zuwa rashin ɗaukar nauyi. Idan mahaifi ko uwa da gaske suka yi imani da 'yanci, me zai hana su cutar da 'ya'yansu ko yin sakaci da su? Amsar ita ce, kusan babu abin da zai hana su.

As well, with freedom comes lack of responsibility. If a parent really believes in freedom, what stops him or her from abusing or neglecting their children? The answer is, very little.

Abin da ya fi muni shi ne cewa wannan tsari yana aiki ta hanyoyi biyu. Yaro zai yi aiki bisa ga dabi'u da ra'ayoyin da aka rene shi da su. Don haka, yawanci, yaran Yamma suna raina iyayensu kuma ba sa biyayya a gare su. Kuma irin wannan son kai da ke motsa su su aikata hakan, shi ne dalilin da ya sa za ka iya samun kanka a makarantar tsofaffi a lokacin da kake bukatar goyon bayansu...

What is worse, is that the whole process works both ways. A child will act according to the values and ideas he has been brought up with. Thus, more often than not, children of the West disrespect and disobey their parents. And the same selfish mentality that motivates them to do this, is the reason why you might find yourself stuck in an old people’s home just when you need their support...