8.2.1 G‘arbda voyaga yetish
8.2.1 Growing up in the West
Farzandlaringiz uchun qanday rejalar va orzularingiz bo'lmasin, G'arbda ulg'ayish sizni o'ylaganingizdan ham ko'proq tashvishga soladi. Chaqaloqlik davridan to voyaga yetguncha, faqat bolangizning to'yib ovqatlanishi va parvarish topishi bilan cheklanmaydigan ko'plab muammolarga duch kelasiz. G'arbda yashaganingizda, ayniqsa farzandlaringiz masalasida, sizni kutayotgan dahshatlar talaygina.
Regardless of the plans and ambitions you have for your children, the reality of growing up in the West will give you more to worry about than you might care to imagine. From the time of infancy right up until adulthood, you have a lot more problems to deal with beyond just making sure your child is well fed and looked after. There are a multitude of horrors that you will be faced by living in the West, especially where your children are concerned.
Yoshligida ko'pgina bolalar bolalar zo'ravonligi, o'g'irlanishi va e'tiborsizlikka uchrash kabi xavflarga duch keladi. Oilaviy tuzilmaning tobora buzilishi bu muammolarni yanada kuchaytirdi va keyingi hayotda boshqa ko'plab muammolar uchun yo'l ochdi. Yoshlik va yosh kattalik davrida esa yangi xavflar kutib turadi, masalan, voyaga yetmagan yoshda homiladorlik va abort, bir ota-onali oilalar, giyohvandlik, zo'rlash (date-rape) va gomoseksualizm. Barcha yoshlar bunday harakatlarga jalb etilmagan yoki ularga duch kelmagan bo'lsa-da, hayotlarining biror bosqichida ularga, albatta, uchrab qolishadi. Qanday bo'lmasin, bu muammolar atrofimizda shunchalik keng tarqalganki, ularni e'tiborsiz qoldirib bo'lmaydi yoki bir necha kishining zimmasiga yuklab bo'lmaydi.