断绝亲属关系
Severing the Ties of One's Relatives
安拉至高无上地说:{你们应当敬畏安拉,你们彼此要求权利时都凭藉祂,你们也应当敬畏亲属的血缘关系。}(妇女章:1)
Allah, the Most High, says, {Fear Allah, through Whom ye demand your mutual (rights) and be heedful of the wombs.} (An-Nisa': 1)
《古兰经》又说:{你们若掌权,难道不会在大地上作恶,断绝亲属的关系吗?这些人是真主所诅咒的,他使他们耳聋目盲。}(穆罕默德章:22-23)
The Qur'an also states, {Then it is to be expected of you, if ye were put in authority, that ye will do mischief in the land, and break your ties of kith and kin: Such are the men whom Allah has cursed for He has made them deaf and blinded their sight.} (Muhammad: 22-23)
真主至高无上,祂说:{那些践行真主之约、不违背誓言的人;那些联结真主所命令联结之物的人,敬畏他们的主,并畏惧严厉的清算。}(雷ద:20-21)
Allah, the Almighty, says, {Those who fulfill the covenant of Allah and fail not in their plighted word; those who join together those things which Allah hath commanded to be joined, hold their Lord in awe, and fear the terrible reckoning.} (Ar-Ra'd: 20-21)
安拉至高说:{祂使许多人迷误,也使许多人遵循正道。但祂只使那些悖逆者迷误,即那些在盟约确立之后违背安拉的盟约、割裂安拉命令相连之物、并在大地上作恶的人。这些人只是在害自己。}(黄牛章:26-27)
Allah, the Most High, says, {He causes many to stray, and many He leads into the right path,. But He causes not to stray, except those who forsake (the path), those who break Allah's covenant after it is ratified, and who sunder what Allah has ordered to be joined, and do mischief on earth: Those cause loss only to themselves.} (Al-Baqarah: 26-27)
先知(愿主赐其平安)ﷺ说:"断绝亲属关系的人不会进入天堂。"1
The Prophet (pbuh) said, "He who severs his family ties will not enter Paradise.”1
因此,凡是抛弃亲属、对他们傲慢、并且自己富有却不愿资助贫困者的人,都在此惩罚之列,除非他悔过归向至高无上的安拉,并善待他们。
Thus, whoever abandons his relatives, is proud over them and disdains to support the needy if he is rich is included in this punishment unless he repents to Allah the Most Exalted and treats them well.
据传,安拉的使者(愿主福安之)曾说:"若有人身边有贫弱的亲属,却不善待他们,而把施舍给了别人,忽视了他们,安拉不接受他的施舍,并且在复活日不会垂顾他。"2
It was related that the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said, "Whoever has feeble kins and does not treat them well and pays his charity to others and neglects them, Allah does not accept his charity and will not look to him on the Day of Judgment.”2
但凡贫穷者,应当与他们保持良好的关系,探望他们,并关照他们。
But whoever is poor should keep good terms with them, visit them and be heedful of them.
先知(愿主福安之)说:“即使只是问候,也要维系你们的亲属关系。”1
The Prophet (pbuh) said, "Wet your wombs (relationships) even by just greeting.”1
先知ﷺ还说:"凡信仰真主和末日的人,应当维系他的亲属关系。"2
The Prophet also said, "Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should have a link with his kins.”2
"一个回报善意的人,不是对亲属施以恩惠的人;而是在亲属与他断绝关系时,仍与他们保持联系的人。”3
"A person who reciprocates in doing good is not the one who joins his blood relations generously,' but he is one who joins with his blood relations when they cut with him.”3
安拉至大说:"我是至慈的,而"骨肉"(即血缘关系)是由我的慈悯所造。凡与它相连的,我必与他相连;凡割断与它联系的,我必割断与他的联系。"4
"Allah Almighty says, "I am the Merciful and it is the womb i.e. blood relation. I will hold by him who hold by it; and I will cut asunder from him who cuts asunder from it.”4
阿里·本·侯赛因(愿真主喜悦他)对他的儿子说:"儿子啊,不要与断绝亲属关系的人为友,因为我在真主的经典中三次发现他受到诅咒。"有一天,艾布·胡莱赖(愿真主喜悦他)坐下来讲授关于人们传统的一课。
Ali Ibn AI-Husain, may Allah be pleased with him, said to his son, "O son do not befriend he who severs the ties of his kins since I have found him cursed in Allah's Book three times." One day, Abu Hurairah, May Allah be pleased with him, sat to deliver a lesson about the people's tradition?
然后他说:"我希望你们中凡是断绝亲戚关系的人都离开我们。"圈子末端坐着的一个年轻人站了起来。这个年轻人走向他多年未曾探望的姑姑,与她和解。姑姑问他:"我的侄子,你为什么来了?"他说:"我坐着听阿布·胡莱赖(Abu Hurairah)讲述时,他是先知的同伴,他说:'我希望你们中凡是断绝亲戚关系的人都离开我们。'"于是,姑姑让他回去向阿布·胡莱赖询问原因。阿布·胡莱赖答道:"我听见安拉的使者ﷺ说:'怜悯不会降临于一群人,其中有断绝亲戚关系的人。'"5
Then, he said, "I hope that anyone of you who severs the ties of his kins to leave us." A young man sitting at the end of the circle left. The young man went forward to his aunt whom he did not visit for years and reconciled her. His aunt asked him: "Why did you come, my nephew?" He said, "When I sat to listen from Abu Hurairah, the prophet's companion, he said, "I hope anyone of you who severs the ties of his kills to leave us." Then, his aunt asked him to go back to Abu Hurairah to ask him about the reason. Thereupon, Abu Hurairah answered: "I heard the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) saying, "Mercy is not showed upon a group of people among them is someone who severs the ties of his kins.”5
曾有一位富人在前往麦加圣寺朝觐(哈吉)时,将十万第纳尔存放于一位可靠且正直的人那里,直到他从阿拉法特归来。
Once, a wealthy man when traveling to at the Sacred House in Mecca to perform Hajj (pilgrimage), deposited one hundred thousand Dinars to a trusty and righteous man until he returned from' Arafat.
站在阿拉法特山上之后,他回到麦加,却发现那个人已经去世了。他向死者的家人索要钱财,但他们对这笔钱一无所知。于是,他把困境告诉了麦加的学者们,学者们便让他在午夜时分到zamzam井边去,然后呼唤那个人。
Having stood on Arafat, he returned to Mecca to find that the man was dead. He asked the deceased family for his money. But they knew nothing about the money. Accordingly, he explained the plight to the scholars of Mecca who then told him to approach the Zamzam well at midnight and then call upon the man.
如果他第一次听到你呼唤时就回应了你,他就是乐园的居民之一。但那人照他们所说的做了之后,回到他们那里,却没有任何回应。于是,他们说:"我们确是属于真主的,我们必将归于祂。"那人或许是火狱的居民。因此,你必须前往也门,那里有一口名为巴尔胡特的井。据说这口井位于火狱的入口处,你要在午夜时分呼唤那人。如果他是火狱的居民,他就会回应你。——他到达也门,走近那口井,呼唤那人,那人便回应了他。他问那人关于财富的事,那人告诉他,自己把财富埋在了某某地方。于是,你可以去那里挖掘,找回你的财富。然后,他问那人:"我们原以为你是善良的,你为何身处如此(可怕)的地方?"那人说:"我有一个贫穷的妹妹,我抛弃了她,也没有好好对待她。因此,真主因她而惩罚了我。"这一点见于先知ﷺ的圣训:"断绝亲属关系的人不会进入乐园。"1
If he answered you the first time you called, he was among the people of Paradise. But the man went back to them after doing what they said with no response. Thereupon, they said, "To Allah we belong and to Him is our return." The man might be of the people of Fire. Thus, you have to go to Yemen where there is a well-called Barhut. It is said that this well is at the mouth of the Hell, and call upon the man at midnight. Therein, if he is among the people of Fire he will answer you- Having arrived in Yemen and approaching the well, he called upon the man and the man responded. He asked him about the wealth. He told him that he had buried it in such and such a place. Thus, you could go there and dig to regain your wealth. Then, he asked him why he was in such a (horrible) place though we thought good of you?" He said, "I had a poor sister whom I abandoned and did not treat her well. Thereby, Allah punished me because of her." This is shown in the Prophet's hadith, "He who severs the ties of his family will not enter Paradise.”1
1 由布哈里和穆斯林辑录。
1 Reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
2 由阿尔-蒙迪里所传述。
2 Reported by Al-Mundhiri.
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1 Ibn Hajar Al-Haythami 在《Majma' Al-Zawa'id》中提到了它,并说它由 Al-Bazzar 记载。
1 lbn Hajar AI-Hathami mentioned it in Majma' Al-Zawa'id and said it is reported by Al-Bazzar.
由艾哈迈德·布哈里(Al-Bukhari)记载。
2 Reported by AI-Bukhari.
由阿勒-布哈里记录。
3 Reported by A1-Bukhari.
4 由 At-Tirmidhi 记载 5 这是一则虚假的故事。
4 Reported by At- Tirmidhi 5 This is a false story.
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已在前文中提及。
1 Reported before.