Maisha ya ndoa ni maisha ya utulivu; na wanandoa wanapaswa kuishi pamoja kama marafiki wenza. Usimamizi (Qawwamah) wa mume juu ya mke ni usimamizi wa kulinda na kutunza, si wa kutawala. Imewajibishwa kwa mke kumtii, na imewajibishwa kwa mume kumgharamia kifedha kulingana na kiwango cha maisha kinachotarajiwa kwa mtu kama yeye.

Marital life is one of tranquillity; and the couple should live together as companions. The guardianship (Qawwamah) of the husband over the wife is a guardianship of care and not ruling. It has been made obligatory for her to obey him, and obligatory upon him to financially support her according to the expected standard of living of one like her.

Ushahidi wa makala hii ni maneno ya Allah (SWT).

The evidences for this article are the words of Allah (swt).

"Yeye ndiye aliyekuumbeni kutoka nafsi moja, na akaumba kutoka humo mwenzi wake ili aishi kwa utulivu naye." (TMQ 7:189), na maneno yake (SWT).

“It is He who created you from one soul and created from it its mate that he might dwell in security with her.” (TMQ 7:189), and His (swt) words.